Bambalwa abantu bacinga malunga nokuba izinto ezilikhulu zesondo zincinci. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwi-physiology, kodwa uhlangothi lwamavakalelo nolwalamano luba nendima ebalulekileyo ekukhangekeni ngokwesondo. Kwinqanaba ngalinye kukho ixesha elizaliswe zilonwabo zesondo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuba isondo asifuni. Kule nqaku, ndingathanda ukunceda zonke izibini zithandana zibonisa ukuba kufuneka ulwabelana ngesondo ukwenzela ukuba bobabini abalingani banelisekile.
Ukuba ngaba isibini singabonakalisa igama elithi "lingabonakali"
Kulo mbini, bobabini abalingani banethemba lokuba bafanelekile kumhlobo, kwaye akukho mntu uya kuba sisondele kuye. Bachitha lonke ixesha labo elikhululekile kunye nomnye, yonke iminithi bazama ukuba basondele, akukhathaleki, nokuba isidlo sasemini okanye ukuthenga ibhokhwe, bahlala belapho, bahlala behlangene.
Kwizibini ezinjalo, ukukhangwa kwesondo kuya kuhlala ikhona. Amaqabane awayeze alahle ulwalamano lwabo, ngokubhekiselele ekukhatheni kwentloko yesifo. Bayazana kakuhle, kwaye baya kuthi nje njengoko kunjalo. Ukuba akukho buhlobo phakathi kweso sibini ngosuku, ukungaphumeleli kwayo kuyakuba lixesha elizayo.
Kwimiqabane yamantombazana angenasiphelo, isiqhelo sinesondo malunga neesine ngeveki.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubudlelwane, kubandakanywa ngokwesondo, aluyi kuba ngumsebenzi kwixesha elizayo, umntu unokucebisa amaqabane, enze isabelo sobudlelwane phakathi kwemidlalo yokudlala.
Ukuba eso sibini siyi-sloths
Olu hlobo lubandakanya izibini eziye zahlanganisana ixesha elide. Kwizobudlelwane babo, ukunyamekela okungenakuqhelaniswa kuye kwatshintshwe ngokunyamekela. Kulo mbini, uthando oluvuthiweyo lulawula. Abalingani, phakathi kwezinye izinto, babumbene kunye nokukhathalela ekhaya kunye nabantwana. Banexesha elininzi kunye namandla avela ekudalweni kweemeko ezifanelekileyo zokuhlala ngokubambisana, ngoko ke ixesha elininzi lokukhululeka lidlula kwi-sofa libukela iindaba okanye enye into.
Kulo mbini, isiqhelo sesondo ngesinye okanye kabini ngomqolo.
Kucacile ukuba kunye nesidyulo samanqanaba esimo sanamhlanje, amandla okuzonwabisa athile awanelanga, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokukhawuleza ngokukodwa. Kutheni amaxesha athile elele eceleni kwe-nadivan ababukeli ividiyo ekhulayo. Oku akuyi kukukhokelela nje kuphela, kodwa kuqhutywe zonke iingcamango zokukhathala kwimvelaphi.
Ukuba i-parade yi-duet yokhozi kunye nehobe
Kulo mbini, inkokeli ecacileyo yindoda. Umfazi wakhe uyavuya kakhulu ngenxa yenyuka emva kwodonga lwamatye. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba le ndoda iyona nto ihamba phambili kuyo yonke into, yonke into ilawulwa kwisigxina sobomi. Ngokuqhelekileyo kule mibini kukho imeko apho ukuvela kwesifiso sesondo kwelinye lamalingani akunakuze kuzaliseke, ngenxa yokuba umntu uhlale exakekile okanye emsebenzini.
Kule mibini, isiqhelo sesondo sesithathu-kane ngokuphambuka.
Kule mibini, ngenxa yeentlobo ezahlukeneyo, akuyi kuba yinto engathandekiyo xa loo ntokazi ibonakalisa isinyathelo kwaye ithatha inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kwimicimbi yothando.
Ikati kunye nekati
Kulo mbini, iqabane ngalinye lizanele. Ngamnye wabo unemiba yakhe, umsebenzi wawo, evumela ukuba bazifezekise ngokwabo, izinto ezithandwayo ezikunceda ukubaleka kwimihla ngemihla. Bobabini amaqabane afana nokuqwalaselwa kumntu kwaye kungekhona ukulwa ngothando. Kodwa ebaluleke kakhulu, bathandana. Ukudlala ngothando kwicala kunye neengqalelo zalabo besini esahlukileyo, baxineke abo baqabane, kwaye bonke bayabhenkisana. Esi sibini sisebenzelana ngesondo, ngoko ukukhwabanisa kwabo akupheli.
Kule mibini, isiqhelo sesithandathu ngesini ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Banokululeka nje into enye. Musa ukudlala, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba bobabini bobuqu, abathandwa omnye nomnye kungekhona nje ngokubonakala kodwa nangomxholo.
Ezinye iinkcukacha
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Ngokubhekiselele kwi-preludes, indawo yokuqala yokuqala yesiNgesi, abahlali beFoggy Albion bachithe malunga nemizuzu engama-22.5 kwi-caresses yangaphambili, iiJamani zikhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kunemizuzu engama-22.2, kodwa iThais kunye nokuxilwa kwazo ziyiphephe, zichithe imizuzu eyi-11.5 kuyo yonke into. Ngendlela, abantu baseNgesi banomdla kunye nemibandela yesondo, abaninzi abantu baseNgesi bajonga abazithandayo abayeni babo.
Kwakhona, izazinzulu ziye zaqalisa:
- Ukuba umsebenzi wesondo uxhomekeke kwimozulu, ukufudumala esitrato, ukwenza umsebenzi wesondo.
- Iimbono zesondo kumadoda nabasetyhini ziyavumelana, kodwa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi babo.
- Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kwathiwa nguSigmund Freud, ingqiqo isithintelo ngokwesini, okwangoku kubonakaliswe. Abantu nje bahlakaniphile, banomatasa kwaye banomdla ngezinto zabo kunye nokukhathazeka, kakhulu kangangokuba isisiseko esisisiseko sikhankanya.