Ngoku, xa abantu beyekile ukuba babe ngabantu abanjalo, bathetha ngokubanzi ngesondo nangenkcukacha. Ababini bahlala bezama iimeko ezintsha baze bazame ukuhlukana nokuphila kwabo ngokwesini. Kwaye ukuba isondo somlomo asiyinto enobuntu kumntu ngoku, akubona bonke baqhelana nesondo esasilumkileyo. Inyaniso kukuba intombazana eninzi iyamoyika ukuzonwabisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubangelwa kukuba abafazi abazi okwaneleyo malunga nesondo sokulala. Ngoko ke, xa umntu enika intanda yakhe ukuba ayenze into enonwabo, umfazi uqala ukuxhalaba malunga nokuba isondo somntu wesilwanyana singasetyenziswa kaninzi.
Ulwabelana ngesondo ngokuphathelele umnqweno wakho
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba unokuhlala uhamba ngesondo esilumkileyo, ukuba ngelo xesha ungaziva ukhululekile. Khumbula ukuba naluphi na uhlobo lwesondo olungenako kwaye lufanele lusetyenziswe kuphela ngokuthanda. Ngoko ke, ukuba awufuni ukulala ngesondo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uloyiko ngenxa yeemvakalelo okanye ngenxa yokuba ukwesaba ukuba unesifo sisifo nawuphi na ukhuseleko, kodwa ngenxa yokuba unqweneli ukwenza oko, akufuneki ukuba uziphoqe. Ngaphandle koko, unokuba nesondo lesifuba xa ufuna. Kodwa, ke, ukuba ukhetha injabulo rhoqo imihla ngemihla, kukho ithuba lokuba emva koko uza kuba neengxaki kunye ne-sphincter-iya kuhlala ihlala ekhululekile, ngenxa yoko kukungabikho kwe-stool. Kodwa oku kwenzeka kuphela kwimeko xa isondo somntu wesilwanyana senziwa rhoqo imihla ngemihla kwaye kungekho kanye.
Musa ukuzidela
Zingaphi ixesha oza kuzibandakanya ngesondo esilungileyo, kuxhomekeke kwiimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unobungozi kwaye ungakhululeki ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ukuphoqeka kunye namanxeba kubonakala kwi-anus nakwienxa zonke, kungcono ukulinda ngesondo esilandelayo. Khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukunikela ngempilo yakho ngenxa yeminqweno yomfana. Kufuneka uqale ukukhathazeka malunga nokuba konke kulungile ngomzimba wakho nomzimba. Ngako oko, ukuba ukhangele ukucaphukisa ngamandla kunye nentlungu e-anus, kufuneka uqale uphilise onke amanxeba, kwaye awanakugqithwa nje ngekratshi, kodwa aphiliswe ngokupheleleyo. Ngexesha elilandelayo lezesondo zesondo, ngexesha apho unquma ukwenza isondo esilumkileyo, sebenzisa ngakumbi iiblueguntshini ukuphepha ukulimaza ulusu.
Ulwabelana ngesondo kunye nesisu
Abantu abaninzi banomdla wokuba isondo esingakanani esasilungileyo singenziwa ngeemfumba. Kule meko okokuqala kukulungele ukubonisana nodokotela. Ukuba ufumanisa oko kwenzeka, ngamanye amaxesha uvumelekile lo hlobo lwentuthuzelo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba kwintlungu encinci yeentlungu, iintlungu kunye nezinye ezinjalo ziyeka ngokukhawuleza isenzo sesondo. Ngaphandle koko, unokuba neengxaki ezikhokelela kwimiphumo emibi.
Ngesondo ngaphandle kokwesaba
Abasetyhini abaninzi bayesaba ukulala ngesondo, ngenxa yokuba, abanakuvakalelwa. Ukwabelana ngesondo rhoqo kuya kukunceda ukuphelisa ukwesaba okunjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akumangalisi, kuba i-anus isalula kancane kwaye awuyi kuphinda uzive ungenabuhlungu kunye nentlungu eye yabhekana ngexesha lezenzo zokuqala zesondo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokuvalelwa kwintlungu yokulala ngesondo ngokukhawuleza, ngoko unokwenza xa ufuna.
Ngendlela, ekugqibeleni kuyafaneleka ukuthetha ukuba amaxesha amaninzi abafazi abayithobeli kwintlobano yesini ngenxa yesaba. Kule nto ayikho into emangalisayo, ngenxa yamantombazana, efunde ukuxhalabisa kwi-Intanethi kwaye sele iphulaphule abahlobo, iya kwi-sex anal efana nesohlwayo. Babonakala bezithobela kumntu kwaye kwasekuqaleni baqwalaselwe oko kuya kuba bubuhlungu nokubi, kufuneka nje ukunyamezela. Oku kubi! Akunakuze ukhuthazelele nantoni na, kwaye ukuba sele usuvele uthathe isinyathelo esinjalo, kufuneka ujabule kunye naloo ndoda. Ngoko ke ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngokulinganayo uzama ukuhluka okuhlukeneyo kunye neentsimbi, uhlale uthetha malunga noko uvakalelwa ngako kwaye uya kukwazi ukubandakanya ukulala ngesondo ngokulala kunye novuyo, kwaye ungaphenduli ukulala ngesondo.