Ngaba uke wabukela indlela abagqoke ngayo? Okanye akayekanga iliso lakho emfanekisweni, xa phambi kwesango loo ntokazi ikhupha ijazi phezu kweengqayi eziqinileyo kwaye ingena ngaphakathi. Okanye uninzi lwabasetyhini kwiibhola ezifihlakeleyo, ukuvula intambo, ukuvumba, kunye nezinye iinkcukacha ezingavumelekanga zengubo ye-wardrobe. Kwaye umbuzo uvela ngokwawo, kodwa umfazi ongumKristu wamanje kufanele abe njani? Yintoni enokuthi ithathwa njengongcolileyo, kwaye yintoni eqhelekileyo ecinga ngoku ubomi, uhlobo kunye nesimo kunye nokucinga kwabafazi abaninzi. Ngoko, luhlobo luni lomfazi ongumKristu, okanye kunoko, umfazi kufanele athande njani etempileni?
Umbono wecawa.
Icawa ikholelwa ukuba ebomini bethu yonke into icatshangelwayo, idibeneyo kwaye ixhomekeke, kwaye izingozi zifakiwe, oku kusebenza kwimpahla yowesifazane ebandleni. Ngokuqhelekileyo ulwalamano olupheleleyo phakathi kokuzaliseka okanye ukungazalisekanga kwemithetho, kwaye ukubonakalisa izenzo zamntu ebomini bakhe kuchazwe kwileta engcwele. Ngokuphathelele iingubo zamabhinqa asinakutsho, kodwa zonke iinkcazo zinciphisa ukubonakala okuthobekileyo, ubukho kwintombi kuphela yengubo yabasetyhini, kwakunye nekhanda elikhuselekileyo. Iinkcazelo ezinjalo zifumaneka kwiTestamente Entsha, kunye ne-1 st. Kor. Umpostile uPawulos. Into ephambili ukuyiqonda ngokucacileyo le mfundiso, kwaye uyamkela ukuba yonke imibhalo ebhekiselele kubukho bentloko ekhuselekileyo inomdla kuphela kubafazi, oko kukuthi, abafazi noomama, kodwa kungekhona amantombazana kunye namantombazana. Ngokutsho kwamasiko ecawa, intombazana nentombazana yayinxulumene nokuhlanzeka nokungabi namacala, ngoko banakho konke, abafakwe kwicawa. Kwaye ngexesha le-sakramente, ubaba oyingcwele wacela loo nto mbazana ukuba babe nekhredkqo okanye ikratshi ukuba bathabathe, baze batye kunye neentloko zabo. Umqobo kuphela wokubekwa kweengubo zangaphandle kunye nesigramente. Lo mgaqo wawugcinwe ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye uphathelene ngokupheleleyo. Eyona nto inomdla kukuba ookhokho bayazi kwaye baqonda ezi nyaniso, kodwa abahlala behlala beyichaphaza ngendlela yabo, benza konke okubonakalayo kwinkqubo yokomoya, emva koko konke, ukholo luyingxenye ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu, okungekho mntu omele ngaphandle.
Incoko ekhethekileyo ifanele iifestile zanamhlanje. Ukukhankanywa kwalo mbandela ngokuqhelekileyo kuhamba kunye nombane wenkxaso kunye nokuqhankqalaza. Ukuba ulandela imfashini, ngoko umbuzo wokugqoka ibhulukhwe yowesifazane okanye kungekhona, mhlawumbi, ayikho inzima kumngeni, kuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela oko akuthandayo nento ekulungeleyo nangokwenzayo. Kodwa, asifanele sikhohlwe ukuba xa sifika etempileni, asiyi ku-podium, kwaye ukusuka kwimbono yecawa, umbuzo wefestile yefestile iyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Nanku kuyakuba ngumbuzo ongengokuthuthuzelwa ngokwenyama, kodwa ngokomoya. Ngaba kukhululekile ngathi ukuba samkele ulwahlulo oludalwe nguThixo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, kwaye zihambelane nale nkcazo, kungekhona ngokomoya kuphela, kodwa nakwiingubo, ukuziphatha, indlela yokuphila. Kwaye kaninzi kangakanani na ukuba uqaphela indlela intombazana emikhondweni yazo ifana nabafana abaninzi, kungekhona imfundo engcono, kwaye ngelo xesha bahlonelwa ngabaontanga - abafana, abayithatha enye yabo, vumela ukuba bangazikhumbuli umda wokuziphatha. Kwaye ukutshintsha oku, into yokuqala efuna ukuyenza yinyathelo elilula - ukutshintsha iimpahla. Kuzo iimpahla onokugweba ngazo. Ekuqaleni, yenzelwe, nje ukufudumala umzimba kwaye uyifihle kwizinto ezibukeka, kodwa akufanele ungene kwinkolo kwaye usebenze njengento evuselela ukutshatyalaliswa kokomoya komntu.
Izambatho, oko ku fanele ukuba.
Impahla efanelekileyo, apho owesifazane kufuneka agqoke khona, eze ethempelini, kufuneka ahambisane nemithetho embalwa kuphela, engayithinteli nayiphi na umKristu. Imfuno yokuqala echazwe kwiimpahla zentombi ethempelini akuyona into eyimqobo yokutyelela itempile kwaye ayiyithandazi loo mfazi, okanye iindawo ezikuyo. Ngoko ke, ekusebenzeni kwemicenge, nakwezinye iimeko ze-nivkoem ityala akufanele ihlaziywe okanye ilulakwe amalungu omzimba, kunye nokuthintela ukunyakaza. Valiwe kufuneka kube sisisu, amahlombe, umva osezantsi, isifuba, kunye nomgca wonke wecaqa emadolweni. I-Silhouettes ekhethwa kwiingubo zivame ukulandelelana, ukuvumela ukuba kugxininise ubufazi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlobo luni na, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukukhuphela ngokunyanisekileyo ukunamathela. Ukubizwa kweempahla apho umfazi kufuneka atyelele itempile yenzelwe ukubonakalisa uxolo lwakhe lwangaphakathi kunye neempawu zokomoya, ngelixa ephethe umfanekiso ocacileyo wecawa, ngaphandle kokudala imifanekiso emininzi yamanani agqoke iimpahla ezimnyama. Xa umntu eza ethempelini ukuthandaza, ngamanye amaxesha akanako ukuzilungisa ngokukhawuleza kwindlela efanelekileyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umntu kufuneka ahlale engqondweni yakhe malunga neengxaki zemihla ngemihla. Ngoko ke, ukuba ibhinqa lisetempileni, ukubonakala kwakhe akufanele kuthande iso kunye nokuphazamisa iingcamango zabo bonke abakhona, kwinjongo yangempela abaye bafika kuyo. Musa ukulibala ukuba iingubo ezifanelekileyo azibheki ukuba zifake imfashini okanye zikhangele.
Umzekelo ocacileyo wenyaniso yokuba ibhinqa kufuneka ligqoke xa efika ethempelini akuyona into ephazamisayo kuphela, abantu abaninzi basebenzise, kodwa, kwaye banokugqoka ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza, ingubo yesizwe yemveli. Ngokutsho kwecawa, iindleko ezininzi azifani nakakhulu ukutyelela iintempile. Ngexesha elifanayo, lidibanisa ngokulula ukukhanya, ubuninzi bokusebenza kunye nokuthozama okukhulu.
Umgaqo ongabhalwanga.
Kukho umgaqo owodwa, owathi, ngelanga, ngoku awanamathela kwiitempile. Kwaye kuyavakala ngathi, ukuba intombazana, kwintlanzi kunye nentloko yakhe engafihliweyo, ufuna ukuya ecaweni ukubeka ikhandlela okanye ukuthandaza-makenze oko ngaphandle kokuthintela. Kwaye kumbuzo wakho, apho ubeka khona ikhandlela zokuphumula, okanye kwimpilo, mawuthole kuphela impendulo, kunokuba uqaphele ixesha elide malunga nokubonakala kwalo nokugweba izimvo ekugqibeleni. Emva kwakho konke, itempile yindlu yeNkosi, kwaye ukuba silapha, ukugweba umntu?