Namhlanje, abafazi, kunye namadoda, bathathe inxaxheba kumsebenzi woluntu, baye baphumelela kakuhle malunga nawo wonke umsebenzi wabantu. Unamalungelo afanayo, imisebenzi efanayo, uxanduva olufanayo. Leyo yithuba emva kokusebenza kwabasetyhini ahluke kakhulu. Kwaye kulo mbandela, njengemiba yonke enxulumene namadoda nabasetyhini, kukho imbambano phakathi kweembono zesilisa neyesetyhini kule ngxaki.
Khangela
Amadoda amaninzi akholelwa ukuba emva kokubuya ekhaya evela emsebenzini, banelungelo lokuphumla emva komsebenzi womsebenzi onzima. Kodwa abaninzi abafazi banomuva uxanduva lwabo olubandakanya imisebenzi yasekhaya: isidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sakusihlwa kufuneka silungele ngexesha, iimpahla zabantwana kunye nomyeni kufuneka zihlanjwe, kwaye abantwana kufuneka bahlambuluke baze batyiswe.
Ubulumko bemizi ithi: "Ukuba ufuna ukuthula kwintsapho, ulwahlula imisebenzi ngokulinganayo." Nangona kunjalo, le nyaniso inotsalwa ngabantu abaninzi. Kwaye into yokuqala into eninzi eyenziwa ngayo xa bebuya ekhaya emva komsebenzi elele embhedeni, bathathe indawo ekude kwiTV okanye iphephandaba, kwaye bachithe ekupheleni kosuku ukwenza okufanayo. Kwaye abaninzi abafazi baya kuqala ekhitshini okanye baqale ukuhlambulula indlu. Kodwa cinga, kungakanani ukukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle koko kulula ukwenza imisebenzi yasemakhaya xa ubathabatha ndawonye?
Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuyeka uluvo lokuba uxanduva lomsebenzi wonke wasekhaya luphela kuphela kumfazi? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kubalulekile ukuba usebenze ekhaya kwasekuqaleni kwasebuntwaneni, amantombazana namakhwenkwe. Emva koko, yonke imisebenzi enxulumene nomsebenzi wasekhaya kufuneka isasazwe kumalungu awo ngamnye. Kwaye ukuba umntu enokwenza isidlo sakusihlwa, ahlambulule indlu okanye enze enye into ebonwa njengomsebenzi wesifazane, ngoko intsapho iya kuqina.
Jonga
Ngokwemvelo, wonke umntu ucinga ukuba wenza imisebenzi eyaneleyo yasekhaya. Nangona abaninzi abafazi bengavumelani nale nkcazo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo baqinisekisa ubungqina bendoda, isifundo esenziwa yiphando lophando lweenkampani zeDove.
Ngokwalolu cwaningo, amadoda akholelwa ukuba abafazi abaqapheli igalelo labo lokugcina indlu. Iingcali zichaza ukuba isizathu salona kukwazi amandla kwabasetyhini ukuba benze kwimicimbi yasekhaya "isiganeko".
Amaphesenti angama-60 amadoda ahlolisweyo athi umsebenzi wabo wasekhaya wawungaqapheliswanga ngabahlobo babo. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, ngokwemadoda ngokwabo, ukucoca indlu yangasese, ukuthatha umfaki, ukuthatha indawo yokubheja kweebhedi kunye neminye imisebenzi yasekhaya kuthatha iiyure ezili-13 ngeveki. Kodwa abafazi bayabonakalisa ngamabomu umsebenzi wabo wesikolo kwimiboniso, bathi isigamu sabamphendulayo.
Kodwa, yintoni kanye abantu abayenza ekhaya? U-85% wabo uthe uxanduva lokususa endlwini yerhafu luphela kubo. Ama-80% wabaphenduli athi bakhulula "isiqingatha" sabo ngokugqoka iimpahla ezinzima, bephethe iingxowa ngokuthenga nokutya. Phantse i-78% yabameli bezesondo eziqinileyo babike ukuba banomsebenzi wokuthenga ukutya kwentsapho.
Ngaloo ndlela, ngokweengcali, amadoda enza inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kulawulo loqoqosho lwentsapho. Kodwa kwakhona, olu cwaningo lucacile kuphela uluvo lwamadoda kunye nembono yabasetyhini abaninzi abayi kuchaphazela kakhulu. Ngoko ingxaki yomsebenzi wasekhaya iya kuqhubeka ifanelekileyo. Ngoko ke, amadoda nabasetyhini, ncedana kuphela, kunye nosapho lwakho luya kuba ngcono kwaye lube namandla.