Ekubuntwaneni bam, xa ndandisayidlala idodoli likaBarbie, ndambethe uKen noBarbie kwingubo yomtshato, ndaqalisa umkhosi. Ukusuka kwii-dandelions, ndavula i-arch, phantsi kwayo kwakukho isibingelelo, kwaye esibingelelweni ndatyala ibhere le-teddy, elenza njengombingeleli. Kwaye ke, imihla yonke ndiyilungiselele imitshato. Ndaphupha ukuba ndikhule ngokukhawuleza, oko kwakuza kugqoka iingubo ezimhlophe ezimhlophe zekhephu, uye e-altare uze uthi "ujonge." Andizange ndicinge oko kwakuza kwenzeka nangemva komtshato, ndandicinga ngengubo emhlophe ngengubo. Kwakhona, mhlawumbi nentombazana nganye, abacinga ukuba iya kuba yintoni ngaphambi nangemva komtshato, sonke sikhathazekile malunga nenkqubo yomtshato: iingubo ezimhlophe ezimhlophe, ikhekhe elikhulu elimnandi, i-bridal bouquet, kwaye ke, izipho.
Yonke intombazana evela ebuntwaneni amaphupha awayeza kuba nomtshato omhle kakhulu kwihlabathi , ingubo egqwesileyo kunye nomyeni omhle kakhulu, kodwa akukho mtshato obalaseleyo kuwo wonke umntu, akukho mzekelo ochanekileyo womtshato, obhekwa njengowona mhle kakhulu. Kuzo zonke kunye nelizwi elithi "elihle" lithetha ezahlukeneyo, kwaye litshilwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngomnye umntu ucinga ngokugqithiseleyo iinduli ezimhlophe, zilungiselelwe kuzo zonke iindibano zehholo lokutya, apho kubanjwe khona ukubhiyozela, kwaye kumntu omhle yi-roses ebomvu, emilenzeni emide, emi emagqabini amancinci amade. Wonke umntu ukhetha ukuthanda kwakhe, kodwa wonke umntu unokuthanda izinto ezahlukeneyo. Omnye uthanda ukutshintsha izithethe, kwaye azinze amacandelo abo amasha, kwaye omnye umntu amasiko axabiseke kakhulu, kwaye uyabahlonela, kwaye alandela yonke imithetho yexesha elidlulileyo.
Ingubo emhlophe, isitimela eside, isithintelo esicacileyo kwi-hairstyle ephezulu, ukulenga i-diamond eminwe, kunye nobawo bahamba esibingelelweni, apho umyeni ozayo kunye nomyeni wokwenene balinda ngomonde. Ngaba akusiyo isiko? Elinye igama elithi "ewe" liba ngumyinge wobomi obutsha, ebomini, apho kukho indoda ethandekayo kunye nezicwangciso ezintsha zobomi.
Ingubo ebomvu okanye eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nesigqityiweyo esifutshane, iinwele ezibomvu okanye ezibomvu ziqokelelwe kwisigxobo esiqhelekileyo, kwaye kule nqwaba kukho isitya esincinci esimnyama, ukwakheka okuqaqambileyo, kunye nokuphuma eqongeni kwibhayisiki kwindawo ethile elunxwemeni lolwandle. Ukhumbuza umfanekiso kwi-feshen-magazine. Kuba ngubani lo okuphakamileyo kobuhle, ngokuchasene nazo zonke izithethe kunye nemithetho, ukuzithetha ngabantu abakhethekileyo abangafani nomntu wonke, kuba kukho embalwa imitshato yabathandi bezinto ezintsha kunye ne-avant-garde.
Umtshato ngowona mbhiyozo ebalulekileyo ebomini, kungekhona usuku lokuzalwa kwaye kungeninzi, akukho nto enokuthelekiswa nanamhla, ngoko ndifuna yonke into ibe yinto efanelekileyo. Kwaye nantoni na yomtshato, zonke iimfuno zakho kunye neminqweno iya kuncedwa ukuba uqondwe ngabaququzeleli bemitshato - aba bantu banakho konke okulungiselelwe umtshato, kwaye umtshato omhle kakhulu unikezelwa wena. Uya kunceda ukulungiselela iqela le-bachelorette kunye neqela elincinci, kwaye uya kulungelelanisa zonke izinto. Awuyi kubona nayiphi na ingxaki, kodwa qaphela ukuba iipokotshi zakho zithintele, kwaye i-honeymoon ingasetwa unyaka, okanye ngaphezulu, okanye i-honeymoon ingasweleka kumgangatho "wamanzi, ngesinambiso seswekile."
Ukuze ulungele umtshato, kufuneka ukhethe icawa yeholide, apho uya kubeka khona iimvakalelo zakho phambi kukaThixo. Icawa ngeenkuni zokhuni kunye neefestile zeglasi ebalawuli, ebonisa abafel 'ukholo. Ingoma, eyona nto yomibini, ithetha into, kwaye ayiyiyo imfesane yeMendelssohn. Kwiibhentshi zihlala kufuphi nawe, umntu uyakhala, umntu uyamomotheka kuwo onke amazinyo angamashumi amathathu anamibini kwaye uyavuya. Wena emhlophe ingubo ye-chic ehamba ngomculo wesiqhelo kwi-tappe ebomvu, egciniwe ngamapalesi emhlophe amhlophe, kwaye phambi kwakho ziingelosi ezincinane, ukufafaza umzila kunye neepasal rose. Kwaye phambi kwakhe - kwi-tuxedo emnyama, elinde ngokubekezela, kwaye ngoku, ukufikelela kwisibingelelo kunye nokubamba izandla, uvakalisa amagama esifungo oye wabhalela omnye nomnye. Emva koko uhamba kwi-limousine emhlophe ngaphambi kokuqhubela phambili kweeholide, apho i-atmosphere engahambelaniyo kunye ne-live band ibusa. Kulapho unikezwa izipho kwaye zonke izibhedlele kwaye unqwenela kuphela isandi kwidilesi yakho. Yonke ingqalelo kuwe, le mini yinto yakho ebini. Ezo zijikelezileyo, kwaye zikhanyisa, iintyatyambo zixubile, kwaye ikhandlela zivutha, zidala imilingo. Umculo ococekileyo, ukukhenkceza kweglasi, i-champagne kunye ne-rumble of fun and fun. Umfaki-zithombe uzonqakraza kumacala onke, kwaye ukusuka kule nto uziva ngathi inkwenkwezi yaseHollywood, umsebenzisi uthabatha yonke into, urekhode onke amazwi othethayo. Ngaba akuyena umtshato omuhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni, xa uziva unyanakazikazi, ukumkanikazi we-triumph, kwaye ngoko ke, uyintombazana enhle kakhulu emini nangokuhlwa, kuba akukho nto injengeentombazana eyingubo yomtshato. Ngoko kwakukho isithethe.
Kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, ngenxa yezikhathi ezinjalo kulungile ukuhlala ubomi, yintoni na oya kuyikhumbula konke oku, kwaye ujabule ngokuba uphila ngale mizuzu kunye nalo mntu uhleli kufuphi nawe kwaye ufunde iphephandaba. Yaye wena ngaphakathi kwakho ujabule ngalo lonke usuku, iminyaka emininzi, kwaye konke, kubonakala ngathi kwakuyizolo izolo.