Ngoko, banikela bani? Oogxa banokunika into engabizi kakhulu kwaye iyanqandeka, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo iluncedo: igug, i-ofisi efanelekileyo, indlela yokunyathela izicathulo (kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube nomsebenzi), ithikithi ekhonsathini yeqela lakho ozithandayo, ukuba ulahla kunye nabalingane, incwadi entsha, ufunde ngokunyanisekileyo nguye umbhali. Intloko ilungele ukubonisa isipho ngokugqithiseleyo kunye ne-vsykladchinu kunye nabalingane, abangayi kuze kwenzeke nabani na ukuba bangamangalela nge-sycophancy. Ingaba iofisi yokunethezeka, utywala obugqithisileyo kunye nocuba, ukulungelelaniswa kwemoto (abalingani besilisa baya kuhamba).
Abahlobo banokunikela nantoni na, nantoni na, into ephambili ukwazi emva koko konke umhlobo wakho akufunayo njengesipho. Kwaye kungcono, ngokuchaseneyo, kunika into engayilindele. Ngokomzekelo, kungcono kumntu onomlingo osisiphelo ukunika usuku kwi-skatepark kunye nerenti yokukhusela, ibhodi kunye nomqeqeshi okanye usuku lwebhola lebhola. Mhlawumbi, ngulo oluya kululinda, kwaye, ngenxa yoko, uya kuthwala. Ukuba umhlobo womhlobo amaphupha emoto, kodwa ngandlela-thile ungazicwangcisi ukukunika, ukuhlawula iikhosi zokuqhuba, ukumnceda ngokuzikhandla, ukuphatha ukuqhuba imoto yakhe, kwaye kuya kwenzeka emva kokuba konke uya kugijima ukuze enze imboleko yemoto. Ukuba iimali zihanjelwe ngumthendeleko wokuthandana, zibophe iisokisi kumhlobo, lungise igama lomenzi, wenze isembozo kwifowuni yakho yeselula.
Kwindoda engaqhelekanga, umzekelo umhlobo omtsha womhlobo ongcono, owamkelwa ngalo usuku lokuzalwa, into engcono kakhulu yinto ekhutshwe kuyo, yonke indawo kwaye engabizi kakhulu: iifowuni zokucheba, i-wallet, ikhadi leshishini, i-lighter efanelekileyo, umbhobho wokubhema, isambulela okanye iiglavu. Nangona into enjalo sele ikhona kunye neyakho ngokukhawuleza emva koko kuya kuba nesicelo, ngokuba konke oku ngasentla kusetyenziswa ukulahleka okanye ukuphela. Into ephambili akuyi kunika nantoni na.
Inkoliso ekhethekileyo kukuba ukhethe isipho somntu othandekayo. Ukusuka kuzo zonke iintlobo zesipho somdabu kungcono ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza - okuya kubaya kumnika emsebenzini. Kodwa yakho imfesane, kulo mzekelo, yile nto, apho ukucima khona. Eyokuqala, i-muzhchinku eninzi kakhulu ingakwazi ukuyisebenzisa kwaye iyithenge, ayikho i-villa yaseCroatia, ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ikhamera ebiza kakhulu, imoto yokuloba, izixhobo zenkampu okanye i-simulator yemidlalo inokwenzeka. Ukuba uyayazi kakuhle kakuhle, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe i-perfume egqibeleleyo, iingubo, ijezi, izihlangu, ilinen. Akunqatshelwe ukuzibuza into afuna ukuyifumana njengesipho, kungekhona wonke umntu onjengeenkxalabo, okanye ezinye izinto ezisebenzayo, zikhetha izipho ezifunekayo kuphela. Mhlawumbi ukhethiweyo wakho akadingi ukubhaliselwa kwiklabhu yempilo, njengokuba ungathanda, kodwa ezinye iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo kwikhompyutheni. Musa ukuba neentloni, zibuze ukuba zeziphi na, nokuba zibhalwa phantsi, kulo mzekelo, isipho asiyi kuba sesona sipho ngokwalo, njengengqalelo yakho kumntu wakhe, umnqweno wokuthatha iindleko zezimali kunye nenkcitho yemikhosi kunye nexesha lokuhamba malunga nezitolo ezilishumi eziphezulu ekukhangela izixhobo zoluhlu. Uya kuluqonda oku, okokuqala, kwaye okwesibini, uya kuqala ukuyiqonda ngakumbi, ube nolwazi ubuncinci kanye lo kuzingela iinkcukacha eziyimfuneko, iimali ezingabonakaliyo okanye i-cacti ekhethiweyo. Ungabonisa iqhosha lakho lokuthandayo, emva kokuphinda uhlaziye igumbi, okanye ufunde ikamelo ehotele elihle ngobusuku, liya kuvuselela ubuhlobo bakho kakhulu.
Isipho soyise-mkhwenkwe sihlala sikulungele ukuxoxa kunye noninazala okanye umyeni kwaye sithatha inxaxheba ekuthengeni kwayo, sithatha inxalenye yeengxaki. Eyona nto ingcono kakhulu, mhlawumbi siyayazi into yokunikela kubabawo nabazalwana. Ukuba kukho ubunzima ekukhethweni, iimveliso zengubo kunye nezihlangu, kunye neevawutsha, iifilimu ezibhekiselele kuzo, ezenziwe kwiilebhu ze-PhotoShop ze-cognac kunye neefoto zazo kwaye zixhomekeke kwibhotile efanelekileyo, ziya kusebenza.
Kukho nawuphi na, xa kuvela umbuzo, yintoni enye engcono ukunika indoda, isipho ngumcimbi ngamnye kwaye kufuneka umntu afike kuyo kunye noxanduva.