Iimpawu zokuxhomekeka kwezesondo
Oogqirha bakholelwa ukuba, ukuba isondo sele sithatha ininzi yobomi bomntu, uyagula ngesilonda socansi. Zonke iingcamango zakhe, amaphupha, iiminqweno, iincwadi, iifilimu, iingxoxo kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela ngokuphathelele ngesondo. Kubantu abaxhomekeke kwisondo, kunye ne-shopaholics okanye i-gamblers, ukuziphatha komntu okhathazekile kunye nendlela efanayo yokucinga. Inomdla kubantu abakujikelezile, kungabandakanyi kunye nabo kunye nabathandekayo, kubantu abanesilonda socansi kubonakala kuphela xa bebhekisela kubo njengento yokulala ngesondo okanye ngokufanayo.
Izilwanyana zesini, kunye nezinye izilingo, zihamba kunye nokukhululwa kwe-hormone yolonwabo nolonwabo, kubangela ukuba abantu abanjalo baphathe abantu besondeza, beyingozi kwaye badla ngokugqithiseleyo (kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba akusiyo umntu oxhomekeke kwimiba yesini esecaleni lesondo i-maniac okanye i-perverts). Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukungakhangeki kweengcamango zabo ezinobundlobongela bezesondo kubangele kubangele ukrakra, ukudandatheka, ukuguquka ngokukhawuleza kwemizwelo, nto leyo ekhokelela ekugqibeleni "ukuphula".
Iingqondo zithi ziphawule iipatheni zokuziphatha ezili-12 ezikhethekileyo kubantu abanobuhlungu besini:
Ukuqhathaniswa ngokuphinga (ngokuya kwindlela, i-Kiev andrologist-urologist u-Alexander Chumak ikholelwa ukuba isenzo socansi sokugaya i-masturbation asithathi indawo, kodwa sinomdla kakhulu, kunobungozi);
Ubuhlobo bezesondo ngaphandle komtshato kunye nesondo esingenakubalwa ngesondo;
Ukungafuni ukukhetha abalingani bezesondo, rhoqo "ngobunye ubusuku";
Ukujonga rhoqo nokuxhaphazwa kweemvelaphi zoonobumba;
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa kweikhondom kunye nokunye ukukhulelwa, kunye nesondo kunye namaqabane amasha;
Ifowuni yeselula kunye nokusetyenziswa rhoqo kweeforamu malunga nesondo kwiintanethi zentlalo nakwi-intanethi;
Unyango oluqhubekayo kwiinkonzo zokuhambisa;
Imiboniso;
Ukukhangela rhoqo amaqabane amatsha ngeenkonzo ezahlukeneyo zokuthandana;
I-voyeurism (ukuhlola abanye abantu ngesondo);
Ukuxhatshazwa ukuwanelisa izifiso zabo zesini;
Ukulangazelela ukuhlambalaza ngenxa yobundlobongela kunye nogonyamelo.
Ubunokwenzeka ukuba umntu ugula ngesilonda socansi siphezulu xa ukuziphatha kwakhe kuhambelana nemimiselo emine ekhankanywe ngasentla.
Unyango lwexhomekeke ekuxhasweni ngokwesondo
Uninzi lwabantu abahluphekileyo ngokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo baqinisekile ukuba yonke into ilungile nabo. Ukunyanzeliswa komntu ukuba ingxaki ikhona yona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye isinyathelo sokuqala kunyango oluyimpumelelo. Ngelishwa, kwiimeko ezininzi akukho nto iqinisekisa umntu ngobukho besi sifo, njengokutshatyalaliswa - ukuxothwa emsebenzini, ukulahlekelwa yintsapho okanye iingxaki zempilo.
Okwangoku, ukulahla ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye neeprotherapeutic projekthi. Impembelelo enhle kakhulu inokufezekiswa ngoncedo lwamayeza enyango, kuyamangalisa xa kunethuba lokuthatha inxaxheba kwipilisi kunye nabantu abasondele kwisigulane.
Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, ezihamba kunye nokuziphatha okugqithisileyo, ugqirha unokuncomela unyango kunye nezidakamizwa ezinamandla. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubona ulwahlulo lwonyango kwi-drug addiction, i-ludomania, utywala kunye nomdlavuza wezemidlalo, ngenxa yokuba ukunyanga umlingo wesondo, oogqirha abafaki ukugxininisa "ubudlelwane" ngobudlelwane bezocansi, kwaye lo ngumzuzu omuhle kakhulu!