Umama wentsapho.
Kukho uluhlu lwabasetyhini abathi ngenxa yobugcisa okanye ukukhuliswa kwaye namhlanje bajonga ukuba umsebenzi obalulekileyo wowesifazane kunye nenjongo yobomi bakhe yintsapho, kwaye umsebenzi ngumgangatho wesibini wobomi onokungahoywa lula. Abasetyhini baseRussia abakhethileyo intsapho bahlala bekhokelwa ngolu hlobo.
Aba bafazi bazinikela ixesha elide ekhaya, bahlala bexilisekile ukupheka, isaliti, baye okanye bafuna abantwana ababini okanye ngaphezulu, ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali luvumela. Kuloo mabhinqa ukuba umntu ahlale efumana iingcebiso okanye iresiphi, anokufumana iimpendulo malunga nayo yonke imibuzo malunga nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Bayazi ukuba bayondla umyeni wakhe, ukuze bangatshintshi indlela yokuphatha ikati kunye nendlela yokuzolalisa umntwana.
Indlu yabasetyhini kwindlu yabafazi bolu hlobo ifihliwe kakhulu okanye ilibale. Okokuqala, bahamba ngeentombi, oomama, iintombi kunye noodade, kunye nabahlobo kunye nabafazi kuphela. Le ngongoma eyintloko yezindlukazikazi baseRashiya zalolu hlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubudlelwane, abanalo isabelo senhlonipho ekhoyo phakathi kwabantu abanomdla kunye nabancinane.
Ikhetho leNtshona.
Akukho mfihlo yokuba iminyaka emininzi siye sazama ukufana nabaseYurophu, sitshintsha indlela yethu yobomi kunye neengcamango, izinto eziphambili kunye neenjongo. Abo bafazi baseRussia, ababethabathele umfanekiso ococekileyo wosapho oluseMelika, bahambelana nemigangatho yeNtshona.
Lawa mabhinqa asebenzayo abashiya umsebenzi kwaye kaninzi banomsebenzi ophumelelayo ukwenzela ukuba balondoloze kakuhle abantwana kwaye banakekele amadoda abo. Abasetyhini bethu bazama ukungagxininisa kuphela kwiibhotile kunye neentlanzi, kodwa bathatha umzekelo wabamabhinqa abanoMamerika abanomdla wokuzilibazisa, odla ngokuba ngumvuzo ongezelelweyo. Bathembele ngakumbi kubo, kuba baqonda indima yabo. Abayena nje abafazi bezindlu, kodwa ootitshala, abapheki, abononophelo kunye neengqondo zengqondo kumntu oyedwa, abafanele bapheke baze bahlambulule, kodwa bacebise uhlahlo lwabiwo lwezentsapho, ukulungiswa kweemeko zengxabano kunye nokuphuhlisa nokuququzelela ukuzonwabisa kwentsapho.
Ngaba yimpumelelo yomfanekiso wowomfazi wendlu kwimeko yethu yansuku zonke, kunzima ukugweba. Ngokuphathelele abafazi abanjalo abanakutsholwa ukuba ubomi babo bonke baxhomekeke kwiimfuno zentsapho, nangona kunjalo, yintsapho ebalulekileyo ebomini babo.
Ilahleko kunye namaxesha athile.
Ngokungaqhelekanga phakathi kwabendlukazi baseRashiya, kukho abo banqabile ukusebenza kunye nokunyamekela intsapho kungekhona kwiintsholongwane okanye kwiimfundiso, kodwa ngenxa yobunzima bebhanki okanye ukungakwazi ukubonakalisa kuyo nayiphi na indawo. Abantu abaninzi bazama ukuphika izizathu zokuba kutheni abafazi baba ngabafazi, kodwa eli qela labasetyhini liyabonakala lula kwabanye.
Akunakubizwa ngokuba ngabahlali bezindlu ezilungileyo. Ukuba ingeniso yendoda endlwini yayo ivumela umyalelo kuphela xa abasebenzi bezama, kwimeko enye aba bafazi abafuni okanye abakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi elula yendlu. Ngokuqhelekileyo banemisebenzi emininzi engahambelani nentsapho kunye nabantwana. Aba besetyhini abanelisekanga okanye abakhukhumelayo kwiindawo zabo zentlalontle, kuba ngokwenene banzima ukuhlukanisa njengabendlukazi, kuba baqhuba ibhizinisi elincinci kakhulu.
Kodwa, ngokukhawuleza ukuba kukho i-niche, njengokuba abo basetyhini banesidingo, ukuba bani ithuba lokusebenza nentsapho okanye nakwezinye iindawo eziyinzuzo enkulu ekukhetheni indlela enjalo yobomi, sinokugqiba ekubeni oku kuhlanganiswa kwayo .
Abafazi basemzini baseRussia abahlobo olunye lwabasetyhini. Ngamnye wabo ukhetha ukukhetha intsapho ngenxa yezizathu zabo, ngamanye amaxesha oku kuyimilinganiselo eyinyanzeliso, ngamanye amaxesha ngokwenene imfanelo okanye umphumo wothando kunye nokuzimisela ukunikela okukhulu ngenxa yezinto ezilungileyo zentsapho. Kwenzeka ukuba abafazi babe ngama-housewife okwesikhashana, de kube abantwana bekhulile, oku kuyona ndlela eqhelekileyo. Ngokuyinene, abafazi banomdla ekusebenzeni nasekufezeni impumelelo kungekhona ekhitshini kuphela, kodwa nakweminye imimandla. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ukuba amadoda ayawaxabisa abo banqoba amanqanaba emisebenzi kunye nalabo abaphucula ukuphuhliswa koqoqosho lwekhaya, oku kuthetha ukuba ukuhlonipha, uthando kunye nokwaneliseka akuxhomekanga kuphela kwinto eyenziwa ngumfazi.