Izithethe zentsapho ezilungileyo

Injongo ephambili yezithethe kukusixelela indlela yokuziphatha ngayo kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Yenze njalo, ingakumbi ngaphandle kokucinga. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kulungile. Kuphi, umzekelo, ukubhiyozela uNyaka omtsha? Omnye uya kubandezeleka, into ezayo kunye nezithethe zentsapho ezintle, kunye nomntu owazi kakuhle impendulo yombuzo: kulobu busuku sihlala sichitha, sithuthuzela okanye inkampani enkulu esiya kubahlobo kwi-dacha. Ngethuba elifanayo yonke into iboniswe ngaphambili: sizisa iolivayi kunye neziqhamo, i-Ivanovs - iwayini eyenziwe ekhaya kunye nekhekhe, kunye noDima balungiselela umlenze wemvu.
Amasiko angakwazi 'ukwakha' ubomi bethu ngokwezitena: ngenxa yesidlo sakusasa sisidla iphalaji, ietafile zemihla azinakucingelwa ngaphandle kwelebyaki, sihlambulula indlu ngeMigqibelo, kwaye sichitha iholide elwandle ... Kwaye kutheni, asiyikucinga. Nangona kunjalo, impendulo ayinakwenzeka ukufumana-nje ngokuba yayisungulwe ekuqaleni ...

Isiko okanye imfundiso?
Kukhona omnye umsebenzi wezithethe zentsapho ezilungileyo, nangona ekuqalekeni kubonakala ngathi zikwesekondari: zichonga izinga lokusebenza "kwezilwanyana" ezibaxhasayo.
Kulapha apha ukuba "umlambo" phakathi kwamasiko abaphilayo nabafileyo kwenzeka. Oku kuthethwa ngokulandelelana ngokulandelelana komyalelo obekwe ngumntu ngolunye usuku. Ngokuqhelekileyo, bahlala kunye nalabo abanesilonda okanye abaxakeke kakhulu ukuba bangathathi inyathelo, ukuba baqulunqe into yabo, kuba naziphi na izinto ezintsha ziza kuba nexanduva.
Izithethe eziphilayo, ngokuchaseneyo, zenza ubomi bube mnandi, bangela ukucinga kunye nokuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.

Ngomqulu wayo ...
Iintsapho nganye zinamasiko azo. Bachukumisa yonke into: indlela yokuxhobisa indlu, ukusabalalisa imisebenzi, ukufundisa abantwana, okokupheka kwitheyibhi yokuzonwabisa, apho uhlala khona ... Kwaye kubonakala kuthi ngathi ngenye indlela ayikwazi ukuyenza. Sijwayele kule nto - yikho konke.
Oku kubonakala ngokukodwa ekuqaleni kwentsapho yokuphila, xa abatshati abasha bahlala besetyenzisana. Kwi "yabo" intsapho abavela kumzali, apho kuye kwaqulunqwa imiyalelo ethile. Yaye umyeni wakhe ufumanisa nzima ukuqonda iimfuno zomfazi: kutheni kufuneka alandele eminye imigaqo, kwaye kungekhona loo nto ayifunayo. Ukuba awuvumelani ngexesha, musa ukulungelelanisa, ungafumani umxakatho, inzondo nokudumala akunakupheka. Ukuba usapho lwakho lungazange lugqithiswe ngamasiko, musa "ukuwadonsa" yonke inqwaba ephuma ekhaya. Zama ukuhlakulela ngokwakho, ngokuqwalasela iimfuno zomyeni wakhe.

Ukuhlaziya
Ngokulula, iintlobo ezintle zentsapho "zibophe" kwiholide nakwiiveki, kuba ezi ntsuku zicinga ukuba yonke intsapho iyabakho kwiintlanganiso kunye nemimoya ephezulu (elinye ilizwi liphumla). Khetha enye yeeholide enokuthanda ukuguqula, umzekelo, umkhumbuzo womtshato. Vumelana nabahlobo bakho ukuba uya kwenza zonke iintsuku "zesizwe": omnye uya kulungelelanisa iqela ngesitayela sesiNgesi, enye inesiJamani, isithathu kwisiJapan. Khetha umculo, izambatho, uyihlobise indlu, ulungiselele izitya ezifanelekileyo, usebenzise "imidlalo" yabantu.
Kwintsapho, thola izithethe zemihla ngemihla. Cinga ngeendlela ezithile zokuqala ukuthetha u-hello uze uthi intlekele kumyeni wakho.
Kulo mntwana, isiko lokulala sihle: abantwana banamathele ukuhlekisana nomama wabo, baphulaphule indalo okanye i-lullaby elula.
Isithethe seMgqibelo singabakho intsapho "ephuma ekukhanyeni": ukuhamba, i-cinema, ithalayitha, isithsaba ... Isimo esibalulekileyo: ukuphindaphinda ngokucacileyo kunye ... into eyothusayo. Kodwa kunjalo: kufanele ukukholisa wonke umntu!
Ngeeholide zangoMeyi, unako ukuya ehlathini - umlilo, i-barbecue, imidlalo yokungaphandle. Ukuthandana kunye neentengiso-into engcono!

Ixesha elingalibalekiyo
I-albhamu yentsapho. Ngelishwa, ininzi yethu siyayazi encinci ngezihlobo zabo ngaphaya kwesizwe sesithathu. Ukuqokelela imifanekiso yoo-grand-parent-grandfather, banika ubuncinci ulwazi oluncinane - vumela abantwana bakho, kunye nabazukulwana bawakhumbule intsapho yabo.
Ukuhamba kwamhla. Cima iifoto ezindala eziphuzi uze wenze i-albhamu yewebhu kubo. Qinisekisa ukubandakanya abantwana kule nkqubo - baya kuba nomdla ngoshishino, ngexesha elifanayo bazive benxalenye yentsapho enkulu.

Iincwadi ezidlulileyo
Ukuba unobungqina obunothando phakathi kootatomkhulu, oomama nabantwana, musa ukukhawuleza ukulahla le miyalezo. Beka kwiifolda zefayile ezifihliweyo ukuze ixesha lingonakali iphepha, phrinta imihla. Ndikholelwe: kuya kuba mnandi kwiintlobo zakho "zekhompyutha" ukuba wazi kakuhle uhlobo lwe-epistolary yookhokho babo - oku akuwona umsebenzi oqingqiweyo weklasiki engaziwayo, kodwa inoveli yangempela.