Izifo zaziziintlobo ezibalulekileyo zomntu kwindalo. Ngelishwa, umzimba wethu awufezekanga kwaye uhlaselwa yiintsholongwane kunye nezinambuzane ezinobungozi imihla ngemihla. Ukongeza, thina ngokwenu senza konke okusemandleni ukusigulisa ngesisu, ngoko isibindi, njalo njalo njalo njalo.
Ekuphishekeleni into esiyidingayo ebomini, asiyikunyamekela impilo yethu ebaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye xa kuphela into eqala ukusikhathaza, siqala ukucinga nokuya kubagqirha.
Kodwa asikho zonke izifo ezinokunyangwa. Ngombulelo kumayeza anamhlanje, unako ukurhoxisa iimpawu, uphilise into ethile, kodwa kukho isibalo sezifo ezingenakuphiliswa, kwaye yinyaniso.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuphuhliswa kwamhlanje kwintsimi yezocwangciso zezokwelapha kumangalisiwe kwaye kuyamangalisa. Amachiza adalwe kwiilabhoratri akwazi ukulwa nezifo kunye neentsholongwane ezibulala abantu ngamawaka kunye nezigidi zeminyaka. Kodwa ingenangqineka ngokwenene? Asiyi kuthi loo mayeza ayifumanekanga kwizifo ezininzi, oko kuthetha ukuba ngamnye wethu usemngciphekweni. Siyakhumbula imiphumo yecala nayiphi na imishanguzo enomzimba omnye kunye nokulimaza abanye kunye nento yokwenza ukuyihambisa.
Ukuba ufunda isichaso kunoma yimuphi umkhiqizo wonyango, unokwazi izikhumbuzo ezikhoyo apho. Nguwuphi umphumo weziphumo ezize zenzeke ngokuthatha le mayeza. Kodwa akukho konke. Emva koko, naziphi na izidakamizwa, enye indlela okanye enye, ichaphazela iziphathamandla zethu zangaphakathi, zixakeke egazini, ezo zijikeleza kuzo zonke iziko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukususela kwezinye unyango, abantu babonakala kwabanye. Iingxaki ngeentso, isibindi, isantya sesisu, siqala. Kwaye akusiyo uluhlu olupheleleyo lwezommandla ezichaphazelekayo, ezinokubangela ukusetyenziswa kwamachiza.
Yingakho abantu abaninzi beya kwiiyeza zendoda, kolwazi, oluza kuthiwa okhokho bethu. Ngokungavumi ukuzamkela ngokupheleleyo iimveliso zonyango ezidalwe yindlela yamachiza, ziphathwa ngamachiza omhlaza kunye nemveliso yendalo yokuloba. Kukho imizekelo xa abantu bekwazi ukuphilisa izifo ezininzi ngale ndlela, kodwa kungekho njalo.
Kwaye, akukho mpendulo engaphenduliyo kumbuzo, amayeza zethu iintshaba okanye abancedisayo, zincedo okanye zinobungozi.
Ngokuchanekileyo, sinokuthetha into eyodwa kuphela. Ukusetyenziswa kwamachiza, nokuba ingaba amayeza emilonyeni okanye amayeza, kufuneka kube nezibonakaliso ezinamandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo sisebenza ngokunyanga. Ukungabi noqeqesho olukhethekileyo, sizibeka sisifo kunye nokuqala unyango. Sithenga zonke iintlobo zezimbiza, siphuze izithako.
Kwaye ngokuqinisekiswa kwethu, ukucacisa unyango lungcono kunokuba ugqirha oqeqeshiwe oyenzile. Kodwa oku kuyingcamango kunye nokukhohlisa, okuvela kuyo kuphela. Kuloo meko, kaninzi, iziyobisi, kwanona zilungileyo kwaye zinempumelelo, ziintshaba. Ukususela ekumkelekeni okungafanelekanga, balahlekelwa yimpumelelo yabo, bayayilumkisa kwaye abanasiphumo esifanelekileyo.
Ngoko senza njani iziyobisi kuba ngabancedisi bethu? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula, njengabo bonke abakwaziyo. Okokuqala, musa ukuzigulisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi na iimpawu ezixakekileyo, musa ukuzihlola. Kwaye ke oko kungabonisi unyango. Mthethele lo mbuzo kubaqeqeshi. Ngaba ngabaqeqeshi, kungekhona abantu abanobubele, abathi, ngosizo lomlingo kunye nezinye izixhobo zokumangalisa, bathembisa ukulahla naziphi na izifo. Emva kokuba uvavanyo olupheleleyo kwaye emva kokufumana iingcebiso kumgqirha wakho, ungaqala unyango.
Kodwa ungacingi ukuba iipilisi ezimbalwa zesidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini kunye nexesha lesidlo zizokusindisa ekuguleni. Kwinkimbinkimbi ngonyango lwamayeza, ukuwamkeleka nokulungelelaniswa kweyeza zamasiko kuya kuba kuhle. Ukuphulukiswa kwezityalo kunemiphumo emihle kwizifo ezininzi, ngakumbi ukuba zisetyenziselwa unyango olunzima. Ngokwabo, abanako ukuphumelela, kodwa ukudibanisa nemichiza kaninzi ayinakwenzeka. Kwakhona, xa unyanga naziphi na izifo, ingqalelo kufuneka ihlawulwe kumavithamini, okhethwa yendalo, equlethwe kwiimifuno neziqhamo. Kwakhona umoya omtsha kunye nokuhamba imihla ngemihla.
Kwaye kunjalo, isitshixo sonyango olusebenzayo yintliziyo yakho. Summisela kweli hlabathi kwaye ungathathi izinto ngokugqithiseleyo. Kulula ukuthetha kwaye kunzima ukukwenza, kodwa akukho ncinane. Kuphela ukuzithemba kwakho kwangaphakathi, uvakalelo lwamaxolo, iivithamini, umoya omtsha kunye nesethi ekhethiweyo yamachiza yintloko yokubuyisela. Impilo kuwe!