Ngexesha lokubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo kunye nomdla kuzo zonke izinto zemvelo nezendalo, abaninzi baninzi baqwalasela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokubeletha. Abaninzi babo bayaziwayo kuzo zonke izizukulwana zangaphambili kwaye ngokwenene zindlela ezikhoyo. Bazalela, ngamanye amaxesha emanzini - elunxwemeni okanye kwindawo yokuhlambela, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kusemakhaya, ezindongeni zabo zendabuko, kwaye kungekhona ebusweni, ukugulisa iingcinga malunga nezifo kwiwadi yesibhedlele. Nangona kunjalo, loo "ntshukumo" -nanjalo amandla omfazi ukuba abelethe abantwana ekhaya - athandwa kakhulu kumazwe athile aphumelele.
Ngokomzekelo, eYurophu, ngokuphindaphindiweyo abafazi bazala ekhaya (e-Holland - malunga ne-90% yabasetyhini abasemakhaya). Ewe, le nkqubo ayikho nje into eqinisekileyo, kodwa rhoqo iphantsi kweliso. Kodwa ngoku umgqirha onobuchule ulala embhedeni nomfazi olele embhedeni.
ERashiya nakwii-CIS amazwe esizalela ekhaya, ngokwenene, sele sele sineengxabano kunye namava. Sizalela ekhaya kuba zichasene nezibhedlele. Njengomthetho, idumela lamaziko karhulumente liphantsi, kwaye abantu bambalwa bakholelwa ukungapheli koogqirha. Ngoko ke, kunengqiqo ukuqwalasela zonke iingcinga kunye nobunzima bokuzalwa ekhaya.
Abaninzi abafazi bafuna ukuzala ekhaya, kuba, ukuzala ekhaya, banethemba lokuba novelwano novelwano lwabathandekayo. Kwili gumbi lokuhambisa, abaninzi banokuziva belahlekile, kwaye unyango lwabasebenzi nabasetyhini ekuzalweni alukude.
Ukuzama ukuphepha uxinzelelo lwezibhedlele, ngoko ke, ukuzala ngokwemvelo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okungadingekanga kunokuba yisibambiso somsebenzi onobubele, okanye kunokunyusa inkqubo. Ukukhetha iimeko ezilungele ukwanda kokuzalwa, ukufumana inkxaso kwizalamane, ukuphepha ukuqaliswa kwezilwanyana kunye nezinye iziyobisi (ngokuqhelekileyo ezo zikhuthaza inkqubo yokubeletha umntwana), kunye nokusetyenziswa okungalunganga kunye nokungazenzisiyo kwazo - yingakho sizalela ekhaya, kungekhona esibhedlele.
Ngokutsho koomama, kukho amancinci amancinci ekhaya xa kuthelekiswa namawadi ebhedlele. Kusebhedlele unako "ukufumana" itrush okanye uthabathe into engonakalisa umntwana. Xa kuzalwa umntwana, indlu yakhe ayisuswanga kumama. Njengoko amava acacisa, kufuneka abekwe esifubeni, ukuze isikhumba sentsana senzeke ngokukhawuleza ukuqoqa ibhaktheriya. Baya kumnceda balwe ne-entsha, ezele iindidi ezincinane ezinomoya omtsha. Ukongezelela, intambo yomnxeba ekuhambisweni kwekhaya ayinqunywanga ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kuphela xa iyeka ukumisa.
Xa ubeletha kwindawo yokuhlambela, awukwazi nje ukuthuthuzela umama wakho, kodwa unokukuncedisa ukulungelelanisa umntwana - emva koko, wachitha iinyanga ezininzi phakathi kwendalo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo inzuzo enkulu yokuzalwa kwasekhaya yilungelelwano olukhulu kunye nolwazi lomfazi.
Umama onjalo uya kukunyamekela imeko yakhe yempilo, uya kuzama ukulungiselela kuphela ukuzala, kodwa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa uza kubonisa ingqalelo imeko yemisipha, iinkqubo kunye nokulungiswa ngokusemgangathweni komzimba. Ulungele ukuba uya kufuneka ukuba azalwe, ngaphandle kokuncedisa, kunye nokunye okucwangcisayo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu uphazamisa i-future "mother-maternity" maomama nazo kufuneka azikhathalele. Ubukho begqirha - umgqirha oqeqeshiweyo-kunye nabantu abaninzi ukuba bamncede kubalulekile ukuba kuzalwe ekhaya. Kwakhona kufuneka ukuba ulungele ukubiza i-ambulensi okanye ubenokubizela kwangaphambili xa kukho imeko ezingalindelekanga.
Ngoko ke umfazi obelethayo unokukhawuleza ukuhanjiswa esibhedlele aze anike zonke iintlobo zoncedo. Ngoko, ukubeletha ekhaya kwintlawulo enemiqathango. Kodwa kukho iingozi ezininzi, eziye zaxwayiswa ngababeleki. Ingundoqo yazo - iimeko ezingalindelekanga, ukuphambuka kwimiqathango yesiqhelo kwinkqubo yokuzalwa. Imeko engxamisekileyo inokwenzeka nanini na, kwaye akubona bonke abazali abanokukunceda umntwana. Ukuba ihlanganiswe kumngcingo wokuzalwa okanye ukuphuma kwamanzi kuvulekile, intambo yomhlaba iyawa okanye, uThixo akavumelekanga, inqaba ye-placenta-kuphela i-ambulensi izakusindisa.
Isidingo sokwakheka kwinqanaba, ukuvuselelwa, ukufakela ukuhlangulwa kwintsana-konke oku kunokuyithintelo enobungqina bokuthi ubomi obunzima bokuzalwa abuphazamiseki. I-Caesarea inemizuzu engama-20, kwaye i-ambulensi inokuthatha umama kwintombi ebesemsebenzini, kodwa ukuba ngumcimbi wokusindisa ubomi ebusweni bomqondiso omnye wobomi (ukubethelwa, ukuphefumula, ukutsalathiswa kwentambo, ukucatshulwa) -imigqomo engama-40 engaphambili. Ukugcina ubomi ngeli xesha kunokwenzeka kuphela esibhedlele. Amandla ebhinqa kukuzalela abantwana, kodwa kukho izinto ezinokungazinzanga.
Izixhobo kunye namachiza, oogqirha abanamava kunye nezingane zakudala-i-neonatologists-konke oku kusibhedlele kuphela. Kwaye emva komama kunye nomntwana konke okufanayo, elinde iimvavanyo, okufuneka ukuba uthathe. Iimpawu zokuzalwa ekhaya zidla ngokugqithiswa yizo zonke iintlobo zezifundo. Ukuba akuphosakeleyo ukukhetha izifundo zoomama abalindeleyo, umzekelo, ukufundisa umfazi ukuba abe nabantwana ngoncedo lweminye "imikhosi", kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuya kwelinye "guru". Yikuphi, ngendlela, eya kunceda umfazi okhulelwe ukuba abele, ngaphandle kokufumana ulwazi olufanelekileyo lwezokwelapha. Emva koko, akayena umgqirha-gynecologist okanye ugqirha weqela lokuhlaziya. Kwimeko yokuzalwa "kwamanzi", amagumbi okuhlambela amancinci, aneempahla ezininzi ezitsha, azilungelelani - amagumbi aphakamileyo anejacuzzi efakweyo ayikho nhlobo. Enye ingozi ebalulekileyo yokubeleka ekhaya yinkcazo. Ukuzalwa kokuqala kunye nobukho bezifo ezingapheliyo, udidi lweeminyaka emva kweminyaka engama-30, okanye abo bazalwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa (umzekelo, izifo zentsholongwane) konke kunciphisa kakhulu uluhlu lwexesha elizayo "lamama ekhaya".