Iintsuku ezibaliweyo zishiywe de ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale phantsi kwideskiti yakhe yokuqala yesikolo. Ukuziqhenya, inqwenelo, uvuyo lokufunda olutsha-iimvakalelo ezixabisekileyo zobuntwaneni. Ayinakuphelelwa njani ingxaki engalindelekanga? Indlela yokuziphatha kubazali? Ootitshala kunye neengqondo zeengqondo banikezela iingcebiso ezisebenzayo.
Gwema uxinzelelo, ungadluli umthwalo wokuqeqeshwa. Abazali bavame ukubeka i-tempo ephakamileyo ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zesikolo: ukulungiselela ngokucophelela izifundo, iiklasi ezongezelelweyo kunye nocwangciso lophuhliso kulo lonke usuku. Nangona umgcini wakho wokuqala ehambayo kwaye enamandla, uya kusasa ixesha lokuzivumelanisa nezimo ezingavamile. Kwaye ukuba umntwana unomdla wokuba ne-neuroses kunye nokukhathala, kodwa akukho mava e-nursergart Kwiinyanga zokuqala, yakha umgaqo wokunciphisa umntwana, ngokunyuka ukwandisa iiyure zeeklasi.
Hlela izinto eziphambili ngokuchanekileyo. Kakade, ukufunda kubalulekile. Kodwa musa ukuyenza ibe yintsingiselo ebalulekileyo yobomi bentsana, ukulinganisa bonke abanye. "Yonke into oyifunayo kukuba ufunde kakuhle" yindawo engafanelekanga. Lungiselela umntwana kusengaphambili ukuba kubalulekile ukuba azame - kodwa uthando lwakho kuye aluguqukanga kwaye aluxhomekeke kwimpumelelo. Yilungele ukuqinisekisa amagama akho: uthando, ukumncoma okanye ukukhuthaza amagama.
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