Kutheni ubhaptiza umntwana?
Ukususela kumbono wobuKristu, kukho esinye sezizathu zokwamkela iSigramente sokubhaptizwa-ukholo lokwenyaniso. Zonke ezinye iinjongo apha zikwazi ukuhamba kunye, kodwa zingayifaki indawo. Ngokomzekelo, akuvumelekile ukubhaptiza umntwana ngenxa yefashini okanye ukunyanzelwa kwezihlobo, ukuba ngabazali ngokwabo abalungele le nyathelo.
Ukukhetha igama lokubhaptizwa
Icawa yaseOrthodox yaseRashiya inikezela ngokusanda kubhaptizwa amagama angcwele asele azukileyo. Oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukuba umKristu omncinci unencwadi yakhe yomthandazo kunye nomlamli ebusweni bukaThixo. Ngokuqhelekileyo nangaphambi kokuba ubhaptizwe, igama lentsana liza kukhethwa kwaye ukufumaneka kwalo kuhlolwe ngabangcwele bamaOthodoki.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba abazali baxoshe imvelaphi kwaye bakhethe igama lebhokhwe elingenayo kwaye akuzange kubekho kwikhalenda yecawa. Nanku sele kunesidingo ukubonisana nommvumeli kwaye uthabathe igama le-Orthodox, elifanelekileyo ngokuhambelana nokubonisana kunye nenjongo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukhethwa ngumntu osezulwini okhunjulwayo imemori nje emva kokuzalwa komKristu omncinci.
Le mini ibhiyozelwa ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Kubizwa ngokuba yi "Igama lomhla". Abazali mabaqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo baze bathabathe isidlo kunye nalo mhla, ukuze babone ubunye babo neCawa.
Ukukhetha ii-Godparents
Awukwazi ukhetha ukulahla nantoni na, ngokuxhomekeka kwabo, isikhundla sentlalo okanye ubumnandi ngexesha lomthendeleko. Khumbula ukuba umsebenzi oyintloko oothixo oza kuba kukuthandazela umntwana, ezama ukumphakamisa kwi-Orthodox. U-godfather ngokwakhe ufanele abe unqulo olunzulu noluntu oluxanduva.
Ukusebenza okufanelekileyo okanye okungafanelekanga kwemisebenzi yabo, baya kuthi, ngokubhekiselele eBhayibhileni, baphendule uThixo ngaphandle koonyana babo. Ukuba ngaba oothixo okanye abazali abanalo ulwazi kwimfundo yama-Orthodox yomntwana, kufuneka ukuba bafike kwingxoxo nombingeleli.
Umkhwa wokupapasha iingxoxo sele uyiyingxenye yeCawa yama-Orthodox kwaye sele ibe yinto enyanzelekileyo yokulungiselela ukubhaptizwa. Ngoko ke, umntu kufuneka alungiselele ukuba i-godsparents okanye abazali bomthonyama baya kumenywa ngamaxesha amaninzi kwicawa ukuba bathethe ngeziseko zeenkolelo zama-Orthodox.
Kule ndlela kulandela ukuba akunakwenzeka ukukhetha abangabhaptizwanga, abangakholelwa kuThixo, abalandeli benkolo enye kunye nokuvuma kukaKristu. Akuyinto yesiko ukubhaptiza umntwana ofanayo kunye nabatshatileyo. Nangona kunjalo, eli lixesha elimangalisa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo indima ka-godfather ikhethwe ngabazalwana abasondeleyo abahlala kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwelizwe. Akunakudlula ukutyelela umntwana, nangona i-christening ifike ngezinye iixesha kuphela. Ukwenza ukhetho olunjalo, cinga: ngabazali abanjalo bayakukhuphula njani umntwana wakho?
Kukho ezininzi iinkolelo ezikhethiweyo malunga nokukhethwa kwamacandelo, amaninzi awo awasekelwe kuyo nayiphi na into. Icawa ayikuvumeli intombazana engatshatanga ukuba ibhaptize intombazana yokuqala. Akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokubhaptiza abantwana basaphohlobo abasondeleyo abangabantwana bakaThixo bakho. Ngelo xesha, akukho "ukwahlukana". Unokuba ngu-godfather kunoma yiphi na izihlobo zomntwana, ngaphandle kwabazali bakhe.
Kufuneka nje ugcine engqondweni ukuba le ntombazana ivumelekile ukuba ibe nguThixo ovela ku-13, kwaye le nkwenkwana - ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-15. Kodwa, ngokwemithetho yehlabathi, kungcono ukhethe u-godfather waloo minyaka ukuba angakwazi ukufanisa isimo somzali. Oku kuya kwenza umsebenzi wangempela wokufundisa i-godson.
Yintoni enokuyizisa ecaweni
Ngokuxhomekeke kwixesha lomncinci, ngubani oza kubhaptizwa, eze nephepha lokubhaptizwa okanye i-yazhonku, i-diaper okanye ithawula. Kufuneka, ewe, kunye nomnqamlezo. Ukuba awuyikucwangcisela ukuyithenga ethempelini, ngokokubhaptizwa kufuneka kuhlanjululwe. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umnqamlezo wenziwa ngokuhambelana neenqanawa zeCawa. Ukuba umnqamlezo uthengwa kwivenkile yecawa, akukho nto kufuneka yenziwe kunye nayo.
Iminikelo
Naliphi na iminikelo, kuquka netempile, eyinikwe ekusebenzeni kweSigramente, ngokuzithandela ngokupheleleyo. Yaye isixa-mali, esibizwa ngevenkile yecawa, sibonelo. Ngoko ke, ukuba le mali ingenakubekezeleka, yiya ku-abbot, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuvuma ukwenza iSigrament ezamahala.
Kodwa, ngaphambi kokukwenza oku, kukufanelekile ukuba ucinge ukuba uninzi lwezipho ezicetywayo zidlula iindleko zeetafile. Khumbula ukuba kaninzi kangakanani sizinikela ethempelini kwimihla ngemihla. Emva koko wenze isigqibo, ngaba ucinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuqhubeka nobukho beli bandla elithile. Kuvela kwiminikelo yakho yokuzithandela oku kuxhomekeka kuyo.
Ekugqibeleni, isiganeko esinjengokubhaptizwa senza kanye kuphela ebomini kubantwana bethu. Kwaye ngeendleko zalo, zonke izihlobo, kuquka i-cronies, zithatha inxaxheba.
Xa ubhaptizwa
Njengomthetho, iinkonzo ezinjalo zesonto zenziwa ngoMgqibelo nangeCawa. Kwakhona kwezinye iholide zeeholide. Ukuba ufuna ukubhaptiza umntwana ngolunye usuku, kufuneka uxoxisane nombingeleli okanye umqeshwa wetempile kwangaphambili. Oku kuya kwenziwa kwifowuni yecawa apho ufuna ukubhaptiza umntwana. Kukho iintempile apho iSigramentshuptizo zenziwa rhoqo imihla.
Ixesha lokuqala kwe-christening lichazwe kwangaphambili ngexesha lokusebenza. Kungcono ukuza kwexesha ukuba ube nexesha lokubhala isatifiketi, yenza ubhaliso lwerekhodi yamatrikhi, ukhethe umnqamlezo, njl. Ukugqibela kweSharram ayimkelekanga! Ngoko ke ungalindelanga kakhulu umbingeleli, zingaphi emva kokuba ufuna ukubhaptizwa. Kwaye kubakho abantwana abancinci.
Yintoni oyenzayo emva kokubhaptizwa
Njengamasiko onke, ubhaptizo unemithetho yayo. Ngokomzekelo, emva kwakhe, kwikamva elikufutshane, kufuneka ufumane kwaye ufumane ukudibanisa umntwana. Abantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka eli-7 bafumana intlanganiso ngaphandle kokulungiselela. Kwaye abanye abantu abadala kufuneka baxelele oothixo abanokuthi balungiselele njani iSidlo. Oku kuza kusinceda abasebenzi basethempelini.
Khumbula ukuba ubhaptizo luphela nje kokuqala kobuKristu. Ukususela ngoko, ithuba livulekele ukuba lisebenzise kwezinye iisigramente zeCawa. Sebenzisa ukuze ugcine imiphefumlo yakho.