Kwiiminyaka ezidlulileyo ezahlukeneyo, iingubo ezenziwe ngezandla zihlala zijongwa. Akukho mntu ufuna ukugqoka ingubo apho isigqityi sonke sihamba okanye sinefoto endlwini ephotywe kumshicileli. Ngako oko, umculi wobuhle ukhetha izinto ezizodwa, izibhengezo zombhali ngokwakhe, ziya kukwazi ukugxininisa umntu kunye nesitayela somnini.
Indlela yokukhetha iingubo ezenziwe ngezandla?
Yintoni ixabiso lomhlobiso owenziwe nguwe? Kwimveliso yakhe nganye umninimzi uyatshala intlanzi yentliziyo yakhe, ukufudumala kwezandla zakhe, umphefumlo wakhe. Bathwele imvakalelo emihle, baphile amandla, kuba kuphela ngeengcamango ezingcolileyo kunokudala imveliso emihle. Iigugu ezenziwe ngezandla ezivela kumagugu ziyingqayizivele ngenxa yokuba inqaku ngalinye linomzekelo walo. Xa ukhetha umhlobiso, uba ngumnikazi womsebenzi wobugcisa.
Okokuqala, jonga kwimifanekiso yemveliso. Ngamnye ngendlela yayo inomdla, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba ungakhethi "wonke umntu", kodwa "ngowakho". Lo mhlobiso uya kubeka ingqalelo kuwe. Ukuxabisa ubuhlungu kunye nobuqili bomsebenzi wenkosi, zizame ngokwengqondo ngokwakho. Ukuba unemvakalelo emnandi kule mihlobiso, ke oku kukuhlobisa kwakho. Ukuba kukho into ehlazo okanye kukho ukungathandabuzeki, zinike ixesha lokucinga ngokucokisekileyo kwaye uqhathanise le ndlumbiso nabanye. Ukuba akukho mnqweno "wokugqoka" umhlobiso, unako ukuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo ukukhetha omnye umhlobiso.
Naliphi na umenzi wefowuni onokuncedisa umhlobiso wombhali uya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo, ehlala ekhoyo namhlanje kwaye ephathekayo. Yonke intokazi efuna ukuba yinto yonke epheleleyo ikwazi ukufezekisa oku, ngenxa yokukhethwa okukhulu kwezinto ezenziwe ngezandla, nokuba ngaba amacici, amabhonkce okanye imihlobiso.
Abahlobo abakhulu bamantombazana iingubo zabo
Ewe, idayimani zilungile, kodwa kungekhona yonke imihla. Ukugxininisa ukunambitheka okungahambi kakuhle, umntu, ngaphandle kokuguqula isitayela sakhe, kunokwenzeka ukuba ugxininise ngoncedo lwezinto ezigugu ezenziwe ngamatye angenalutho. Imihlobiso iphumelela iintliziyo zabasetyhini. Abasetyhini abafuni ukuzama iimpahla ezibandayo eziveliswa kwizigidi zeempahla ezivela kubathumeli. Kuyinto engathandekiyo ukubona isongo esifanayo kwisandla somntu osebenza naye okanye intanyeni efanayo entanyeni yommelwane endlwini. Ubungcweti bombhali unokusombulula le ngxaki.
Ilitye ngalinye likhethwe ngabanye. Ayikho na iphosakelo kubo. Umbhali uya kufunda ngokucophelela aze ahlole ubuso ngamnye kunye namatye. Akumangalisi ukuba umntu odala ubuhle ngohlobo olulodwa lubizwa ngokuba yiyo inkosi, kodwa uMlobi. Udala imisebenzi yobugcisa.
Umsebenzi weMbhali waphuma ngaphaya kwemida yeebhonkco zezingane kunye neentloko zomkhulu. Le mibhobho enomtsalane, iincinci zeenwele, imihlobiso, iintsimbi kunye nezinye. Ezi setethi zidibaniswe kunye nokukhethwa kwamatye kunye nesitayela esisodwa, ziqukethe izinto ezininzi. Ezi zihombo ziphethe amandla amakhulu. Amantombazana amahle afuna ukumangalisa wonke umntu onamaqela amnandi nje, afuna ukuzityhila ngemigqobo, iingubo zexesha elizayo athabatha amatye aze asebenze kunye nomlobi kwiimifanekiso.
Xa kudala iingubo, iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zamatye zisetyenziswa. Ziyakwazi ukuba nemibala enemizila kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo, ingaba ngamatye enyama. Ezi zihombo zihambelana kakuhle neefowuni zokugqoka kunye kwaye ziyakunxamnye nosuku kunye nobugcisa. Bayakwazi ukudlala, utshintshe, konke kuxhomekeke kwimoya yakho, luhlobo luni lweengubo olugqithisiweyo kuwe. Imisebenzi yoMbhali iya kuhambelana nentombazana eneminyaka engama-20 kunye nomfazi iminyaka engama-50, kuba le mihlobiso ayayazi nayiphi iminyaka okanye imida.
Abasetyhini abasetyhini abanokuzikhethela baya kuhlala bekhetha oko baya kuthanda. Kwiimantombazana, iimveliso zomlobi zimelelwe yimveliso ephathekayo. Kwababhinqa, ubunxibe bombhali bubaluleke kakhulu, bumnandi kwaye bengekho buncwane obunqabileyo, obuya kugxininisa kuphela ukungafani komnini wabo.