Into ebaluleke kakhulu kumntu kukuzimela kwesondo kwisigaba kunye nexesha. Ndikholelwe, ngesondo "ngoLwesihlanu kunye neMigqibelo ngokusuka kwi-9 ukuya kwintsimbi yeshumi ngokuhlwa kunye nezibane kunye nangaphantsi kwengubo" - akunjalo neze into ayithandayo. Nangona umntu wakho ekhuselekileyo, kwaye uthi makangalindelanga nantoni na emangalisa ngesini, uhlala ephupha ngento engavamile entliziyweni yakhe. Musa ukukhawuleza ufikelele kwiimidlalo ezimbi kakhulu, unciphise indlu yakho. Yintoni, umzekelo, ayihambisani nesihlalo okanye itafile yokutya emva kokubuya kwakhe emsebenzini?
Phantse bonke abantu bayabuthiya xa ibhinqa lizama ukuthetha ngexesha lesini. Inyaniso kukuba amadoda akwazi ukukwenza amanyathelo athile ngexesha elilodwa, kwaye oku ngenye yeentlukwano zabo kubafazi. Siyakwazi ngokwenene ukuzonwabisa ngesondo ngexesha elifanayo njengokuxelela intanda ukuba yintoni ifilimu enomdla esiyibonayo nomhlobo. Amadoda asinakukwazi ukwenza oku, kwaye xa siqala ukuthetha nabo ngexesha lesini, mhlawumbi abanakuyilandela incoko okanye bayaphazamiseka "kwimeko." Zombili ziyakhathaza - zendalo.
Amadoda amaninzi alindele ukuba ngexesha lesondo, umfazi uya kulungelelanisa umlomo we-oral caresses, owenzela yona-enye yeendlela ezikhethileyo zokwenza uthando.
Akukho mntu uthanda ukuwuthintela isinyathelo sakhe, kwaye ezo zininzi indoda ngexesha lesini. Ukuba uzimisele ngoku, makabe esebenzayo, onamandla, makhe aqale umdlalo. Kodwa ukuba okwangoku akacingeli ngesondo, akukho nto iya kukuvimba ukuba umkhohlise. Amadoda amaninzi alindele le nto kumlingane wabo ngocansi, kodwa bahlazeka ukuba bathethe njalo.
Kwaye nawuphi na umntu ufuna ukukholisa intanda yakhe. Phinda uphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba ubulili kunye naye kubalulekile kuwe - umntu onqabile akalindelanga la mazwi.
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ibhinqa ngexesha lesini lifumana amandla, kwaye umntu unika. Kungenxa yoko, emva kokuthanda, sikulungele ukundiza, njengamaphiko, ukuguqula nokugubungela ihlabathi lonke kwaye sondla umthandayo. Kodwa indoda enomdla kakhulu, mhlawumbi iyalala, okanye iqala ukuzibandakanya kwimicimbi engaphandle. Oku akuthethi ukuba akayithandi, okanye ukuba akayithandi namhlanje. Kuthetha ngokuchanekileyo ukuba wayenomdla. Umntu ulindela ngasese kuwe ukuba emva kwesondo obuhle, uya kumbamba ngobumnene, kwaye ungazami ukumbamba ngezandla zakho. Kutheni engathethi ngalo? Kungenzeka ukuba, ukwesaba ukucaphukisa intanda yakhe, kuba uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani umfazi.
Kodwa loo mntu akayilindele ukuba lunjalo uthando. Akayidingi nje ngeli xesha. Okufanayo kuya phambili. Kuba ibhinqa, kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa indoda, ukuba ivuyiswe ngumyinge wama-30 imizuzwana.
Konke oku kulindeleke kwisini, indoda ephakathi. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba akukho bantu abaphakathi-sonke sodwa. Yingakho indlela engcono yokufumana ukuba yintoni kanye indoda endiyithandayo ekulindelekileyo kwisondo kukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo naye kwesi sihloko. Ukongeza, le ngxoxo inomnye umvuzo - umntu uyazi ukuba ufuna ntoni ngesondo nawe. Emva koko uza kukwazi ukufezekisa ukuvisisana okwenyaniso kubuhlobo obunothando.