Imilinganiselo emihle kubantu abafundelekileyo

Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuziphatha okulungileyo kunokusinceda ukuba siphendule nayiphi na inxaxheba. Nangona kunjalo, ngaba sisoloko sisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo amagama "omlingo" kunye nemilinganiselo enhle kubantu abafundisweyo?

Ngenxa yokuba wayengafanelekanga, ephazamisana nabanye abantu. Ngesinye isikhathi abantu babefanele benze umdaniso wesiqhelo kwintlanganiso. Ngoku iyakuthatyathwa ngokugqithisela kwentloko yentloko (amadoda aphinde athande umkhwa ngezandla zawo) - oku kuyinto eYurophu. EmaMpuma, ke, baxhoxana kakhulu ngamandla, kwaye kwamanye amazwe, kwiJapan efanayo, baqubuda. Kodwa yinto engatshintshiyo kuwo onke amazwe-umnqweno weintlanganiso zempilo, ukusa, ukuhlwa okanye ukuhlwa. Kule meko, kukho imbeko yokubingelelana. Le ndoda ibingelela loo ntokazi, omncinci - okhulile, ophantsi-inkokheli. Umntu ongaqhelekanga (ingakumbi ukuba udala kunani) idilesi ngegama-patronymic. Emva kokudibana eofisini yomntu osebenza naye, ngokuzithoba ngokukhawuleza: "Mva ntambama", emomothekayo. Kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga kunye nabahlobo, ukubingelela okunjengokuthi "Sawubona", "Songa" kuvunyelwe.


Umva ngowokuqala ukuwamkela iindwendwe eziye zaqokelela. Ukucoca kunye nomnxibelelwano, jonga amehlo akhe.

Yamukelwa ngendlela yokubulela nangona uncedo oluthile, umzekelo, xa unikwe imenyu kwindawo yokutyela okanye uncedwe ukubeka ingubo. Hayi, akubona bonke abanemilinganiselo enhle kubantu abafakwe kakuhle. Uvavanyo oluqhutywe ngugqirha lwabonisa ukuba abemi baseKiev babephakathi kwezona zincinane eYurophu. Ngama-60% kuphela aseKiev agcina umnyango, kunye nomzuzwana omnye wokubonga ngokuthengwa (kwiivenkile ezincinci "ndiyabonga" zithi kaninzi kangako - kukho le ntlawulo yembeko kunye nemilinganiselo efanelekileyo yayingu-30%). Abathengi baphendula ngokufanayo. Kodwa akusiyo into abayithethayo ukuba igama elimnandi kunye nekati liyamnandi. Musa ukugcoba ngokubulela, kodwa apho kunye nabanye baya kubamba!

Ukuze isipho kwaye uncede uxolele kwakhona - umntu owanikele isipho okanye ubabalo, kuya kuba mnandi kwaye kulungile. Umzekelo, emva kwexeshana, khankanya kwingxoxo oyithandayo njengenqanawa enikeziweyo okanye oqinisekileyo ngokuchaneka kweengcebiso ezinikezwe ngumhlobo.


Imbeko kunye nemilinganiselo efanelekileyo oyibongayo kunombulelo ngakumbi kunokuba ulula "uyabulela"? Ngethuba lokubuyisela umnikelo omncinci. Umlingani webhishini unokumenywa kwivenkile yokutyela. Khumbula ukuba ukubonga kufanele kube ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Yithi, emva kokufumana iposikhadi yeholide, zama ukuphendula ngeentsuku ezimbini.

Yiba nomusa ...

Nasiphi na isicelo sakho, nangona singabalulekanga, kufuneka sihambisane namazwi athi "nceda", "Ndiyakubuza", "yibani nomusa" kunye neminye imikhwa emihle kubantu abakhekileyo. Emva koko awunakwenzeka ukuba unqabe. Kukho inkohliso encinane: thintela ulwimi olungalunganga, umzekelo "Ngaba unako", "Ngaba awuyi kuba nomusa kangaka." Ubomi bomntu buvuyiswa kakhulu ngamazwi athile: "Ngaba unokwenzela uncedo?" okanye "Nceda ndincede ndikhethe ...".

Amazwi omlingo obaluleke kakhulu kunye nemilinganiselo emihle apho kufuneka ulungise khona. Nangona kunjalo, njengomthetho, ukuxolisa kuphela akunakwaneleyo - kufuneka kwakhona uchaze isizathu sokuba wenze okuthile.


Musa ukucela ukuxolelwa ngamanye amaqela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba isenzo sakho singabonakali kanjani, yibani nesibindi kwaye uxolise ngokwabo. Kwaye kuyinqweneleka ukwenza oku kwangoko emva kwesiganeko.

Ukuba kuyimpazamo enkulu, ungazami, uxolise, ukuguqula yonke into ibe yihlazo, ngaphandle koko oku kuya kuphazamisa umnxibelelwano. Ukukhawuleza kuyisizathu sokuxolisa, kwaye oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kwiintlanganiso zezoshishino, kodwa kwakhona ukutyelela.

Kungcono ukuthula kunokuthetha

Amagama omculo afanelekileyo afanelekileyo. Kwezinye iimeko, ukuthula kuphenduka igolide. Ungaziphindi. Unokwenza kwaye ufune ukubonga nge-bouquet evezwe, kodwa akuthethi ukuba "mbulela" kuyo yonke iminyango evulekile - yithi enye ixesha. UBrevity ngu dade we talente. Endaweni yomsebenzi, thintela amabinzana amade anjengokuthi: "Ndixolele ngobubele, musa ukukwenza." Abantu abanalo ixesha lokubaphulaphula.


Thatha umzuzu

Ngaphambi kokuphazamisa umntu onesicelo okanye uxolo kunye nokuziphatha okulungileyo, cinga malunga nokuba kulungile ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho akuphulaphule ngoku. Masithi, ukuba uthetha kwifowuni, kungcono ukuthatha ipeni kwidesiki yakhe, ukucela imvume kunye nokubulela kuphela ngomzimba.