Ukuvuselelwa kweengqondo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lusizi kangakanani, kodwa ininzi yezibini ezitshatileyo ezinengxaki enjalo emtshatweni, njengokutshatyalaliswa kothando, zijongana rhoqo. Kwimeko eninzi oku kubangelwa kukunyamalala kwenkanuko kunye neemvakalelo zangaphambili kunye neminqweno. Emva kokuba uthabathe umtshato, qalisa ixesha elincinci ukuzinikela kwisondo kwaye usenokuqala ukucaphuka komnye nomnye. Kule meko, kufuneka uvuselele intsingiselo yakho. Kukho imigaqo emininzi ongayifumana ngayo i-horizons emitsha yobudlelwane kunye nokuvuselela iimvakalelo xa uyeka ukuthanda umlingane wakho.
Ngoko, ukucoceka kwentwasahlobo kunye nokutyelela abazali kufuneka kuhlehliselwe ixesha elifanelekileyo. Emva koko, yonke le miba ephuthumayo ayiphumelelanga. Ngenxa yobomi kunye nokukhathalela, sihlala sikhohlwe ukuba simncinci, simnandi kwaye sithandana! Emva kwakho konke, kwakukho amaxesha apho ungenakuziqhawula ngaphandle komnye umsebenzi okanye ubalekele ekuphumeni kwexesha lesidlo ukuze ujabulele omnye nomnye. Kutheni ngoku asiyi kubuyisa imvakalelo xa wayeyeka ukuthanda nokuzama ukugcina umtshato? Ukulahla zonke iingcamango ezingekho phantsi uze uqale ukwenza, uvuselele iimvakalelo zakhe ezilikhulu.
Imidlalo emidala.
Ndingayifumana njani ukuba ndibe ngothando, ukuba ndiyabanda? Indlela yokubuyisela ukuvakalelwa kwangaphambili ukuba uyathandwa. Okokuqala, kunceda 'ukukhumbuza' ngale nto, kunjalo, ngesondo. Yaye kungekhona nje ngesondo, kodwa ubusuku obunomdla obunomdla obungenakulibaleka (kwaye akukho nanye). Akuyimfuneko, xa ufika ekhaya ukuba uphuphe ngokulala ngexesha elilodwa, khumbula ukuba isondo kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bentsapho kwaye ukuba iqabane liyaneliseka ngobomi obusondeleyo, ngoko ke kwezinye iindawo zonke ziya kulunge kwaye awuze unako ukuyeka ukumthanda. Ngoko ke ushiye i-shishini lonke kwaye ulungile ngeveki ezayo vala ifowuni yakho yeselula. Yaye ifowuni oyithandayo nayo. Futhi ungalibali malunga nefowuni yasekhaya. Cinga nje ukuba wena, kunye nabathembekile bakho, waphoswa kwisiqithi esingabikho, apho kungekho mntu ngaphandle kwakho. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba wenze oku, qaphela "ukutya kokomoya". Kungcono ukwenza oku kunye neqabane. Nye, khetha iifilimu zefilimu ezinobomi. Iilinen zelinki zelinen, iibhandlela ezicocekileyo kunye neediski ezininzi kunye nomculo ozolileyo. Musa ukulibala malunga neengubo zangaphantsi ezithandayo. Ngendlela, ukujonga kwivenkile yesondo nayo ingcamango enhle, eya kukwahlula ubomi bakho ngokwesondo. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, zifihla ijee zasekhaya ezizithandayo. Isambatho sokugqoka i-silkolous okanye i-"nude" epheleleyo-yiyo iingubo zakho zasekhaya kule veki. Kwaye ke yonke into ihleliwe, ihlala iquka ukucinga kwaye isebenzise yonke "iprops" egcinwe kwangaphambili. Ndikholelwe, ukuba lakho iqabane lingekho uthando, ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kukunceda ukutshabalalisa iimvakalelo zangaphambili kunye nokuthanda kwakhe.
Siyavuya kwizinto ezincinci.
Ukuze uhlaziye uphinde uvuselele iimvakalelo, khawula umlingane wakho. Ngokugqithiseleyo abameli bezocwangco ezifanelekileyo bayathatha ukuthatha zonke iingxaki zempilo entloko yomyeni wabo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo bazikhumbule ngokupheleleyo ngokunyamekela, ukufudumala nokuthanda. Khumbula xa ugcine ukuphazamisa ngesidlo sothando ngekhandlela okanye ukuhamba kwenyanga. Khumbula ukuba abo bangakulibala ukubonisa ububele, bahlale bebathandwa kwaye befuna. Kwaye inxalenye esondeleyo ayize ihlupheke. Ngaba ufuna ukubuyisela uthando lwakhe? Nceda! Hamba ukuhamba, kodwa kungekhona kwiziko okanye kwiivenkile, kodwa kwipaki ethile. Fumana indawo eyincithakalo, hlalani kwi-litter ezithathwe endlwini, gcoba ibhotile ye-champagne ngqo entanyeni, udla izithelo, ubambe uze udibanise. Khumbula indlela owawuqala ngayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, zicwilise kwiimvakalelo zakho. Ndikholelwe, ngokuqinisekileyo, njengawe, nandipha ixesha elichithwe kwaye ukhumbule ukuba unjani nawe ngokufanayo.
Shiya zonke iingxaki zakho emva kweendonga zendlu.
Ungalokothi ungene ngaphaya komngcele wakho wezindlu, uhamba nayo ingxaki eyenzeka emsebenzini. Yiyeke yonke into embi emva komda. Ewe, kwaye ushiye ngexesha "lokuvuselela iimvakalelo" ekusebenzeni umsebenzi endlwini (ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, wawusetyenzise ukukwenza). Zizinikele kumyeni wakho, jonga ifilimu enomdla kunye naye, funda kunye incwadi enomdla. Okanye yenza nje umsebenzi wesikolo oqhelekileyo kunye. Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukuncedisa kwaye incedise ukusondela, ukuba uziva udibene.
Unako ukwenza izinto eziyimfuneko.
Ukuba uceba isidlo sokusilela esingakhangeli ukulihlwa kusihlwa, qiniseka ukuba uya kumnceda umfazi wakho ngawo. Kholelwa ukuba ngokukulindela kokumangaliswa okulindelekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuselela kwaye oku kuya kunceda ukuba uchithe ngokuhlwa ngokuphumelelayo. Musa ukwesaba ukungafani, ngakumbi ngokuphathelele isondo. Emva kwakho konke, amadoda afana nalawa "ii-libbert" ngokwabo, kutheni ungazami lo mfanekiso ngokwakho. Ngoko ukuba iqabane lakho, njengoko ucinga, ulahlekelwe yintando, ngaphambi kokumangalisa kwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kumela.
Oko akudingeki ukuba uyenze ukuba akayi kuthandana.
Ungaphinda umcaphukise umlingane wakho, umphendule intombi yakho. Musa ukumxelela malunga nento entsha ye-mascara eyabonakala kwivenkile, ukuba wongeze amanye amakhilogremu, kwaye intombi yakho uSvetka yaphinda yahlukana naye. Indoda kufuneka ihlale iphumelela kwaye idibanise, kwaye ayiyi kulayisha izihloko ezingadingekile. Kwaye iingxaki zabesetyhini ziwagxotha amadoda kwaye oku kufuneka kuhlale kukhunjulwa.
Yayiyiphi indlela ...
Ukuze uphinde uhlale uthandana nomlingane, qhagamshela umva wakho. Umzekelo, hlawulela indlu yakhe kwiphononti enye. Zonke ezi ncinane, ekuboneni kuqala, iinkcukacha zoncedo lokubuyisela ukuthanda kwangaphambili. Ukuhlaziya kwakhona iimvakalelo kunokunceda kunye neenkcukacha ezidlulileyo. Ukuba uziva upholile, jonga iifoto ezindala kunye naye, khumbula amaxesha amnandi. Konke oku kuya kuphakamisa imimoya kwaye kukuncede ukuba uqonde ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zakudala azizange ziphele. Ndiyabulela ezinkumbulo ezinjalo, unokuthandana kwakhona.