Impendulo yokuqala kwi-stimuli yangaphandle yenziwa kumntwana, kuxhomekeke kwimeko yempilo yakhe kunye neemeko zobomi bakhe. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantwana kwinyanga yokuqala yobomi banokusabela kwisandi sokukhwabanisa, kwibalayi elikhanyayo. Ngaloo nto bafa ngenxa yexesha lokunyakaza kwesilungu, kwaye amehlo ayayeka ixesha elithile ngqalelo. Ekugqibeleni intsana ifunda ukuphendula kwiimfowuni kuye, ukubethela insimbi, ithoyizi elikhanyayo.
Ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwinyanga yokuqala yobomi kubonakaliswe kukuba kukuba ngexesha lokutya umntwana uyayeka ukujonga ubuso bomama. Yile ndlela umboniso womntwana uqala ngayo. Ukuba ngexesha lokutya umama uthetha kumntwana, mhlawumbi umise ngokukhawuleza ubuso bakhe, kwindawo ethile ebunzini nasempumleni. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yokuqala yobomi umntwana sele sele akwazi ukugcina umdlalo ohambahambayo, amehlo akhe agqitha emva kwawo ekuqaleni, kodwa kungekudala umntwana uya kufunda ukujonga amehlo akhe, ukulawula umbono.
Impumelelo elandelayo ekuphuhlisweni kwentsana enyangeni yokuqala yobomi iya kuba kukuba ngelizwi lokutshatyalaliswa komntwana liya kuzama ukulijonga nge-glance. Le yindlela ukuva ngayo. Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi impumelelo enikezwa ngumntwana ngenyanga yokuqala, ngokuqhelekileyo uyayithatha kamva, kodwa ukuba unceda umntwana, yenze iimeko eziyimfuneko ekuphuhliseni kwakhe, ngokukhawuleza umntwana wakho akhula aze aphuhlise.
Nangona umntwana omncinci udinga ukunakekelwa ngabantu abadala, ekukhulumisaneni kwabo. Ngomntwana omele uxoxe ngokuthe rhoqo, bhubela iingoma kuye. Ungayinaki ukukhala kwayo, mthabathe izandla zakhe, unyike, ngoko umntwana uya kuhlala evakalelwa kukuba uyamthanda, uya kuqalisa ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokunxibelelana, eziza kukuzisa, uvuyo olukhulu. Yintoni enokumangalisayo kunenkunzi enyangeni eneminyaka ekhangele amehlo akho xa uyidibanisa?
Kuphela xa umntwana efunda ukudibanisa iliso kunye nawe, uya kuqala ukulungisa iimvakalelo zakho. Kancinci, uya kuqonda ukuba unina uphendule ekukhaleni kwakhe, kwaye ukuba ngaphambi kokumemeza nje kwindawo, emva kokuba efunde ukugxininisa amehlo ebusweni bomntu, uya kukhwaza. Xa umntwana eqala ukusebenzisa umnxibelelwano ukuba axhumane nabazali bakhe, ngoko kusenokuthi ukulungele ukuphuhliswa koqhagamshelwano.
Ukumamatheka kokuqala komntwana kubonakala kungekudala emva kokufunda ukujonga emehlweni. Ukumomotheka kunokukhawuleza kwimihla yokuqala yobomi bomntwana, kodwa le ntsimi ayifuni. Isana esincinci singamomotheka ngamehlo avaliweyo. Ukumamatheka okunjalo kubizwa ngokuba ngumzimba. Ukumamatheka kokuqala kwemvumba, ehambelana nokujonga kwamehlo akho, kubizwa ngokuba ngumphakathi, kuba sele sele idibanisa kuwe iimvakalelo ezinokuthi abantwana bakho bavalele. Umntwana unokumomotheka ekuphenduleni isikhalazo sothando kumntu omdala kwezinye iimeko. Inyanga yokuqala yobomi, oko kuthiwa, ukulungiselela ukuthetha.
Ukuphuhlisa ukuva kunye nombono wengane, ukuze umntwana angathanda ukuthetha, kufuneka sixoxe naye rhoqo. Unokumfundela nje, okanye uchaze kuye ezo mpawu azakuzidla xa ekhulile. ungatsho nantoni na kwintsana, kuba ngelo xesha akayikukuqonda. Kodwa inyaniso yokwazisa umntwana inenzuzo ekuphuhlisweni kweemfuno zakhe zonxibelelwano, iyanciphisa inkqubo yakhe yeentlanzi. Kwakhona, ngenyanga yokuqala yokuphila, izakhono ezibonakalayo zomntwana zifanele ziphuhliswe - ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana ulele ngamehlo avulekileyo, khawuleza uzame ukuziqwalasela ngokwakhe okanye i-toy ekhanyayo. Biza ngegama, kumncumo kuye, yenza konke okusemandleni ukujonga ukujonga kwamehlo ngokude kunokwenzeka.
Ukuze umntwana aphuhlise kakuhle, kufuneka akhuthazwe iinkonzo zakhe. Makhe makabe mncinci, nokuba umomotheka wakhe wokuqala ufanelwe ukukhuthazwa. Dumise umntwana usenokuthetha ngamazwi amnandi, umbethe entloko, ithole. Unokuzama ukumemeza ukutyumla kweemvuthu - zibiza ngegama ngegama uze uqhekeze ngokulula.
Kodwa ungagxininisi kwinto ethile, ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana uphuphile, ulambile okanye ufuna ukulala. Unxibelelwano lufanele lunikezwe, alufaki. Kule meko kuphela umntwana uya kufunda ukuthetha kwaye abonise umsebenzi.
Phantse kanye kunye nokubonakala kwentlekiso yentlalo, usana luqala ukumomotheka kwindlela yokudlala itekisi eliqaqambileyo. Abantwana kwinyanga enye luncedo ukubeka idonsa kwisikhumba. Vumela umntwana kuqala ukuba angayikhokheli ingqalelo encinane kuyo, kungekudala uza kuqala ukuwuqwalasela ngenomdla omkhulu. Abantwana ngenyanga yokuqala yobomi bajonga ngeefestile, kwisibane, kwizinto ezikhanyayo. Ngelo xesha, iinqununu zomntwana zikhula.