Iphupha lamawele okanye amawele
Nangona balala kunye, baqala ukuvalelana, abakwazi ukuphosa kwaye bajike, ngoko akukho ziingxaki kunye neentshukumo kunye nokuvuswa. Oku kuvumela iinyanga ezi-4 ukuba uzibeke ngokukhuselekileyo ebhedeni elinye, kwaye unako ukubeka kuyo nayiphi na indawo, i-T, ifakiwe, okanye ngaphesheya. Kwaye ngenye indlela engazange ivuke ngepeni, unokubeka i-roller epholileyo, inyaniso kukuba badibana ndawonye kwisisu malunga neenyanga ezili-9 kwaye baxutyana, ngoko bahlala kunye kakuhle.
Kubalulekile ukuphawula iingenelo zesikhala esisodwa:
- banokululwa ngexesha elifanayo;
- ecaleni kombhede wakhe uya kulungelelanisa umbhede omnye, kodwa kubini kunzima ukubeka. Ebusuku, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani otyhafisayo, kulula ukubetha enye ikotini kunokuphulaphula ukukhala ngokulala;
- ukuba indlu ingancinci, ke omnye umbhede ulula ukubeka ngaphezu kwembini.
Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje kunokwenzeka ukwenza isikhalazo ngamawele emva komhla ozayo, okwenza udonga kunye nalo.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukungalunganga kwezi:
- Kulo donga, apho kuya kuba nekhodi, kufuneka kubekho indawo eyaneleyo;
- ukuba kuyimfuneko, awuhluli abantwana;
- ukukhula okuncane, amawele, aqheleke ukuba ahlale ixesha elide, akayi kulala, baya kukwenza, baphonsa "batyebile" baze bathethe, oku kunokuhlala ixesha elide kakhulu.
Ngako oko, inketho efanelekileyo kakhulu kukufaka iiflebhu eziseduze, kunye nendawo phakathi kwabo unokuba kukutya okanye enye ibhizinisi. Kule meko, i-cribs kufuneka ibekwe ukuze bafumaneke kwicala lomthi. Xa umntwana elele eludongeni, uphendule kwisandi kuphela kwaye ulala ngecala elinye, ngezinye izihlandlo zikhokelela kwintlambo yomgudu kunye nokuphazamiseka kwethambo le-cranial.
Indlela yokutya amawele
Ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela ukuba amawele atyiswa ngokutya okunobulumko, ngokomthetho, oku ngama-80% amawele azalwe. Kodwa isondlo sokufakelwa siza ngokuthanda komama, okanye kunoko ucinga ukuba i-neene inobisi obaneleyo bobabini kwaye balambile. Nangona kunjalo, akunzima ukucacisa ubungakanani beebisi ngamawele okanye kuyimfuneko ukutshintshela kwisondlo sokufakelwa. Landela nje imiqondiso elandelayo:
- ukuba abantwana banomchamo omncinci, oku kubonakala xa utshintshisa i-diapers uya kubona ukuba sele isondele. Kufuneka uyazi ukuba iinyanga ezintathu zokuqala umntwana usana 8-10 ngamaxesha;
- Kwakhona kuya kubonakala ngokumalunga nesihlalo, kuya kuba mncinci kakhulu;
- Iintsana ziya kuvuka ngokukhawuleza, mhlawumbi ngeyure nganye, ngelixa zikhala kwaye zizama ukufumana isifuba. Kwiimeko apho umntwana ecindezelekileyo ngenxa yokungondleki, yena, ngokuchaseneyo, unokulala ixesha elide kwaye abe nokuzolalisa ngenxa yobuthakathaka. Kule meko, kufuneka senze isheke esilimazayo;
- ukulinganisa kuya kubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba umntwana ufumana ukutya okungaphantsi kunezinto afuna ukuphuhliswa.
Kwimeko apho umntwana engenako ukondla okwaneleyo, kubalulekile ukubuyisela ukutya okunempilo, ukwandisa inani lokutya. Oku kuya kwenziwa ngendlela elandelayo:
- kufuneka ukondle umntwana rhoqo, ukwandisa isicelo ngo-1-2;
- kwisondlo esisodwa ukunika amabele amabini;
- Musa ukulambela kwaye uncedise abantwana bakho ebusuku;
- ukuba kukho ubisi obuninzi emva kokutya, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuyivakalisa;
- ukuba kukho iingxaki zobisi, ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamathambo, amalungiselelo e-homeopathic, i-decoctions kunye ne teas zokuvelisa i-lactose;
- kuyimfuneko ukukhokelela indlela yokuphila ebanzi, ukuhamba emoyeni okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kukho imfuneko yokuphumla nokulala;
- Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuphatha abantwana ngezandla nangona kunzima kwaye unzima okanye unzima u-vosluchae kunye nezo zibini, kodwa ke, abantwana kufuneka bazive iingalo okanye isandla somama;
- ukukhawulela wena kunye nabantwana bakho uxinzelelo.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwimeko yamawele, banceda ekukhuliseni ugogo okanye umfana, njengomthetho, bahlala kwintsana yesibini, xa umama esondla kuqala. Uvakalelwa kukuba uyondla kwaye akayi kunkwantya. Kodwa ukuze uzuze ubunye ephupheni nokuvuka kwamawele, umntu makafunde ukutya ngokufanayo. Ukongezelela, ukuba uphumelele ngolu hlobo, awuyi kufuna uncedo kungekudala kwaye oku kukuhle.
Namhlanje ungathenga okanye wenze umlotha, ngoncedo olulungele ukutya kokubili, ngelixa ungeke ukwazi ukunyamezela umva wakho, kwaye uya kuhlala kwisifa. Lo mlolo awukuphela kokondla, kunokwenzeka ukuqhuba zonke iintshukumo kunye nezingane - ukusika izipikili, ukuzigcina ngexesha le-doze, ukuhlambulula indlebe nokunye.
Xa bekhulile ngaphambi kwexesha lokutya okuncedisayo, ke uqhubeke nokutya okuxeshanye, kuyakunceda, kwaye bavuselelana, bawondla ngokukodwa, i-spoon kuyo, i-spoon kwenye.
Amatshini amawele
Iimoto zamashanga zikhethekileyo, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokukhetha ngokuchanekileyo. Nceda uqaphele:
- ububanzi bomqhubi kunye nobude balo bufanele bufanise ubukhulu bendlu yakho, ukufikelela kunye neengcango zendlu, ukuba kukho ikhefu, qiniseka ukuba ulinganisa ubukhulu bakho. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela indawo yokugcinwa kwayo, ibharkoni okanye ingcwaba, ezindlwini ezintsha kukho izihlalo zabakhubazekile. Ukulinganisa ububanzi obungaphakathi bendwendwe, abafazi bafanele bakhululeke ukuba banamathele kwiingubo zasebusika, ukuba ngaba abantwana baninzi, abahambahambayo baya kufikelela kwiinyanga ezi-4-6;
- Ubunzima bomqhubi bubaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi kwizindlu ezingenalo ikhefu kunye neyokugqibela phantsi, kuba kufuneka uphakamise kunye namawele kwizitepsi. Ukuba uhlale unomntu kwinkampani, kungcono ukuthenga abahambahambayo ababini;
- kufuneka uqikelele ubukho beemoto, kuba ukuba umqhubi uhlala ehamba emotweni, kufuneka ube ngumguquleli wecroller, uxhotyiswe nge-autoarmchair. Ukuba ngaba nguyena kuphela ozogqoka abantwana ukuhamba, yenze le nto ngomnye, mhlawumbi uza kugqoka isibini, owokuqala uya kuthuka.
Ezi zeziphakamiso ezifanele ukugcina ukuthengwa kwe-stroller efanelekayo nefanelekileyo.
Amawele ahlambayo
Ukusa kwiinyanga ezimbini, kufuneka bahlambuluke yodwa, yenze le ngenye kwaye ufumane isiqingatha sesibini rhoqo, kuba ngokuhlwa, upapa ufana nekhaya. Xa uthenge enye, unokushiya isibini ku-uyihlo, uze uye kumlungiselela ukumlala kwaye usebenze emva kokuhlamba. Kodwa kamva, xa sele sele behleli, ngoko kuhlamba bafumana izihlalo, bafaka kwi-suckers kwiikomityi zokulwela kwaye zombini kulula ukufikelela.
Kwimeko yeamawele, uncedo oluncedisayo kunye neengcebiso azisebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi, kaninzi zichasene. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali bafunde ukuqonda abantwana kunye nokuziva iimfuno zabo, ngoko ukuba amabhunga awasebenzi, jonga ukuziphatha kwabantwana, baya kukuxelela ngokuchanekileyo ukuba kufuneka ubaphatha njani ngokuthe ngqo kubo. Abantwana ngabanye, kwaye amawele, ngaphezu koko, akufanele akhulise ngokwale ncwadi.
I-Twin kunye neempawu zophuhliso lwabo
Iziganeko zinokusukela ekuqaleni - zinokuzalwa ngaphambili, ziphi i-iveki 36 okanye 37. Nangona kuzalwa ngokuqhelekileyo ubunzima babo bungaphantsi kwezingane eziqhelekileyo, kwaye phakathi kwabo ubunzima buhluke. Ukuphindwa kabini kunzima ukuyifumana ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesisu, oku kuya kugcina unyaka omude kwaye unzima.
Mhlawumbi ezinye iingcebiso ziya kukunceda:
- emva kokuzalwa, iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala (iveki) ziya kuba nzima kakhulu, kufuneka uzinike isifuba ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngokugqibeleleyo nganye kwiyure, oku kuya kukwandisa kakhulu i-lactation. Musa ukunyamekela ubuthongo obunzima babantwana, ukuba ngaba badibana nabo balele, ngoko kufuneka uvuke kwaye usondla, ngaphandle koko unokuba buthathaka ngenxa yokungondleki;
- ungabavumeli balele xa besondla, bavuke. Unokukrazula okanye ukususa ingono emlonyeni;
- umntwana onobuthakathaka nabancinciweyo unokutya kunye nobisi obonakalisiweyo, ngenxa yokusebenzisa i-pipette, ngenxa yokuba emva kwebhotile yebhotile ayifuni ukuthatha isifuba, kunzima kakhulu ukuyidla kuyo;
- Ngamanye amaxesha abancedisi boogogo banika uncedo ekuncediseni okwesibini ngoncedo lwebhotile, musa ukusebenzisa uncedo olunxeshana. Ngamaxesha ambalwa umntwana uya kusetshenziselwa ingono, kwaye ngokukhawuleza awuyi kukwazi ukuncelisa;
- Amawele adinga ukuhamba rhoqo, kuphela ke baya kukhula kwaye bakhule ngokukhawuleza;
- ukugula okubanda komnye umntu ngokuzenzekelayo isifo sesibini. Kungcono ukufumana ikhalenda yokugoma kwaye ukwenze ngexesha elifanayo;
- Ufuna nje ukuba uqhelane nomntwana wezingane kunye neurologist, ukwenzela ukuba bafike kwindwendwe endlini, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba oogqirha bezobudala bangaya ekhaya, ukuya kwixesha lokuvavanya ekhaya.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhambisa ngokufanelekileyo imisebenzi, ukuze ubaba nogogo bathathe inxaxheba ebomini babantwana ukwenzela ukuba unina ayenze yena okanye ikhaya;
- ukuba ngaba abantwana abaxineli kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka basetyenziswe emzimbeni wabo. Ku luncedo ukulala kwaye usebenzise enye kwicala, kwaye yesibini kwisisu ngandlela-thile ngandlela-thile. Abantwana bezolile, bebe kufuphi, ngoko ke, ukuba baqhube indlu ngenye, bafake i-sling kwaye baqhutywe kuyo yonke imicimbi, i-kid emama kunye nenduduzo;
- Kwimeko yamamawele, kunzima kunina umama ukulawula, kwaye umncedisi ngendlela yokunakekelwa ngumhlengikazi wezinsuku ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuba yindlela.
Ukuba iintsana zizalwe ngaphambi kwexesha, ngoko zihlala zize ziphucule ngokomzimba ixesha elithile, njengokungathi isisu. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba baphathwe njengabantwana abazalwa ngokuqhelekileyo nangethuba. Kwakhona, awudingi ukucaphukiswa ngenxa yokuphuhliswa kwabo kakubi, bahluke kakhulu, kwaye iimfuno zabo kufuneka zibe zicace. Okokuqala kukho ukubuyisela kuzo zonke izinto, kodwa i-zatemoni zomelelekile ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zihamba phambili nakontanga yabo.