Ngoku sinelungelo lokusebenza. Kwaye abo bafazi abanesibindi sokusebenzisa eli lungelo, bafezekise kakhulu. Emva koko, impumelelo yabasetyhini abathandwayo nabanomdla ngoku kutshatyalaliswa ngokusemthethweni ubulungisa ngokubhekiselele kwindoda yesini.
Iphinki: unzima!
Kuthiwani ukuba iqabane lithandabuza ngokunikela ngesandla nentliziyo yomfazi, nangona ulwalamano lwakho ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into iya kulo? Musa ukugxeka ukuba ungenakuxanduva - kungenokwenzeka ukuba uloyiko nje ukukhanyela okunokwenzeka, oku kufana namadoda. Zithatha izinto ezandleni zakho, njengoko kwenza i-Pinker umculi.
I-Pink isoloko ibengumfana oswelekile: nantsi unethambo lokubhoboza, kunye neengoma eziyingozi, kunye nendlela yokugabisa yokugqoka kunye nokwenza izinto, kunye nomdla wezemidlalo ezigqithiseleyo ... Akumangalisi ukuba ukhetho lwakhe lwaluyingozi kakhulu, umqhubi wezithuthuthu uCary Hart. Nangona kunjalo, ngobudlelwano bobuqu bakhe, wayengazange abe nesibindi njengendlela yokugijima. Ngoko i-Pink, ngaphandle kokucinga kabini, wathatha kwaye wayilalisa iphosta kwenye yeentlanga zakhe kwiplanga yakhe, apho yaboniswa kwiileta ezinkulu: "Ndiqatshate!" Ngaphantsi kwe-postcript, xa kunjalo: "Ndiyingozi!" Bathi uCarry Oku kumangaliswa kungekudala kuthinte ucingo. Kodwa yonke into iphelile kakuhle: ngo-2006, abathandi babhalisa ubudlelwane kunye novuyo lwentombikazi ethandekayo nenhlekazi.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza le mbhangqwana yaqhawula ngokukhawuleza njengoko yayitshatile. Kodwa-kunyaka odlulileyo, i-Pink and Carey banquma ukunikezana ngolunye ithuba. Ngoku baphupha umntwana kwaye bahleli ubomi obude kunye. Ngoko, mhlawumbi, ukwenza isiphakamiso ngokwayo-le yodwa ithuba lokufumana ulonwabo emtshatweni. Impumelelo yabasetyhini abathandwayo nabanomdla, abaninzi abadumileyo banomdla wabo kunye nesimo sabo sengqondo.
UCynthia Nixon: impumelelo kwisixeko esikhulu
Umsebenzi we-actress uhlala "ulungelelaniso lwabafazi": ulinde kakhulu. Izimemo zokuqala isampuli, ngoko-ifowuni esuka kwi-ejenti kunye nexesha elilindelweyo: "Uthathwe njengendima!" Kodwa ngaba kufanelekile ukuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo elinde isabelo sakho semana yezulu, ukuba unako ukuza uze uthathe ngaphandle kokulinda kumgca?
Yiyo le mpu melelo yabasetyhini abathandekayo nabanomdla abaxhamla kuCynthia. Kwakunjalo noCynthia Nixon, owaziwa ngendima yommeli u-Miranda Hobbs kwinqaku "Ulwabelana ngesondo kunye nesiXeko." Enyanisweni, ungumdlali wezobugcisa, udutshulwe kumabonwakude kwimeko yecala kwaye akazange afune ukuphumelela. Kodwa ngelinye ilanga intombi yakhe uSarah Jessica Parker yabelana novuyo lwakhe: wamenywa kwinxaxheba ephambili kwinqaku malunga neentlobano zesini kunye nempumelelo yabasetyhini abathandwayo nabahle kunye nabafazi abazimeleyo baseNew York. U-Nixon wacinga ukuba ukuba i-heroine yeloluhlu luyakwazi ukudlala i-Parker-owokuzalwa wase-Ohio, ngoko-ke ummi wase-"Big Apple" - uThixo ngokwakhe! Ufumanise kumhlobo wakhe umhlobo wefowuni uDarren Stahr waza wambiza ukuba acele inxaxheba.
Umntu ofanelekileyo kaCynthia akazange afumaneke ngokukhawuleza, kodwa indima imfanelekile ngokufanelekileyo: njengoMiranda, ufunda kakhulu, unombono obanzi kwaye ingqondo ayifuni kunene kunolwimi. Enyanisweni, umlimi wayala uNixon ukuba "abe ngumbindi" -kufuneka aphinde abuyele ebomvu (uCynthia unobumba bendalo), funda indlela yokwenza kwaye uhambe ngeenwele zeenwele ezivela kuManolo Blanik. Kodwa wajamelana nale nto - kwaye nangona ehlala emlandweni wethelevishini "njengomdlali wendima enye", yaba yinto ebantwini abantombazana abasenza ngayo "umtshato omhle" iphupha iminyaka.
U-Hillary Clinton: soloko ehamba nekazi yokuqala
Ingaba ibhinqa kufuneka lithathe iqela lokuthandana? Kwiminyaka emininzi kwabonakala kuthi kuthi ngokusemandleni sinokukhuthaza kuphela inyathelo lokuqala. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntu okhethiweyo waba yinto engaqondakaliyo kwaye engaqinisekanga? Yena, into embi, akakwazi nje ukujonga kwintombazana ngobusuku obunye, obonakala ngathi enhle kakhulu ukuba afumaneke.
Kwaye ke umonakalo owenzayo uncedo: ukuhamba kwakho okungavamile, kuya kusebenza ngakumbi.
UNobhala-kaRhulumente wase-US wamanje u-Hillary Clinton ufunde oko ebusheni bakhe. Ukuthandana noBill Clinton kwakungeke kwenzeke, ungabonisi ikamva eliza kuqala lakhe. Icala lalingelayibrari yeYale Law College, eyagqitywa ngabafazi abatshatileyo. Umfundi okhutheleyo u-Hillary Rodham wahlala njalo ebusuku egalaji lokufunda eklasini lokufunda kunye kanye, ephakamisa intloko, wabona ukuba umfana omhle wayemjonga ngaphandle kokuyeka.
Ngaphandle kokucinga kabini, le ntombazana yathi: "Khangela, ukuba ungayeki ukukhangela ngamehlo, ndiya kubuyela kum. Okanye mhlawumbi sifanele sijwayelane? Igama lam nguHillary. " Ulutsha olumangalisa luyakwazi nje ukuchukumisa into efana "enhle kakhulu" kwaye iphantse ibalekele ukukhankanya igama lakhe.
Umtshato wamaClintons, nangona zonke iintsizi, zihlala zihlala njalo. Enyanisweni, ikhredithi yokulondolozwa kwentsapho iphelele kaHillary. Wakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ozimeleyo, engathandeki kunomyeni wakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuze uqhelanise kakuhle, yinto yento encinci: ukuqonda kumntu onamahloni we-future president. Impumelelo yabasetyhini abathandwayo nabanomdla akusiyo kuphela kwimpumelelo yomtshato, kodwa nakwimisebenzi ekwakhelwe kakuhle.
Imimoya ka-Este Lauder iphukile ukuze ibe nolonwabo
Ukuqhuba ibhizinisi ukususela kukusoloko kunzima kuwo wonke umntu, kwaye kumfazi osema-40 ekhulwini lokugqibela - nangaphezulu. Ngaphandle kwesisombululo esingaqhelekanga asikwazi ukwenza.
U-Este Lauder uqalise ishishini ngama-creams, awayepheka ekhitshini lakhe, kwaye wagqiba ngegunya lokuzilungisa. Uqale wasebenzisa ubugcisa obuthatyathwa njengesiqhelo sokuthengisa, kwaye ngexesha lakhe lokunyusa kunye nendlela echanekileyo yokutshatyalaliswa. Ngokomzekelo, wanika ngobubele izipho kubaxhasi bakhe kwaye wasasaza iisampuli zamahhala-kwaye ukusuka kule nombolo yabathandi abakhanda bakhe kunye namaqabane amabhinqa akhula kuphela. Wakhela into ekuthiwa ngoku "yindlela yokubeka phambili": ixesha elide wayesevenkile enkulu kunazo zonke nezindleko kwiNew York, Saks Fifth Avenue, kwaye ubukele apho ababhinqileyo babengaqala khona xa bengena kwivenkile (kwaye bajika ngakwesokudla). Kwaye ukunqoba kwakhe kweYurophu kwaziwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi owaba ngowokuqala kuphela, kodwa ngowona kuphela uhlobo lwayo.
Khawucinge ngomfanekiso: IParis, ivenkile yevenkile "iGalerie Lafayette". Umlawuli uzama ngokuthobeka, kodwa ngokungafuni ukunyamezela umfokazi ekuthengeni iphunga lakhe, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ... wehla ibhotile phantsi. Abathengi bayothuka, umnini-ntengiso ufikelela kwifowuni (kuthini ukuba ugxininisa?) - kwaye ukuvumba komlingo wemimoya engaqhelekanga kusasaza kwigumbi. "Ugqirha" uyamemeza ngokukhawuleza athi: "Le yimi moya emitsha yoLutsha iDew, kwaye igama lam ngu-Este Lauder. Ngaba ulivile igama lam? "Kungekudala eli gama liya kuqhelana nalo lonke i-fashionista yaseYurophu. Kwaye yonke into yokuba izixeko kufuneka zithathwe ngentshutshiso.
UJoan Rowling: ushiya-hamba
Kwiintsebenziswano, kungekhona nje kuphela incwadi yokuqala, kodwa neyona nto yokugqibela ibalulekile. Kuninzi kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani kunye nendlela ebeka ngayo. Kuyatshitshiswa ukushiywa, kodwa ngakumbi ukwesaba kukuthatha inyathelo kwisithuba esivela kumanyano, okungekho nto esele isele ixesha elide. Ingakumbi ukuba kufuneka uthathe umntwana kunye nawe. Abasetyhini abaninzi bathanda ukunyamezela kwaye abanakugqiba isigqibo. Kodwa bayazi kwaye abayizikhumbuli, kodwa abo basagqibe ekubeni bathathe le nyathelo.
UJoan Rowling wayengekho "uMama kaHarry Potter" kunye nomlobi ocebileyo wehlabathi. Ngesinye isikhathi, yena, ongumfundisi wesiNgesi othobekileyo, waya ePortugal ukuba afune ubomi obungcono, ukufundisa esikolweni kubantu abadala, kwaye wadibana nomfundi othandekayo, uJorge Arantes. Ukhetho uJoe wayeseliso - umfazi kunye nomnxila - kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile uRowling akazange ayeke (nangona akufanele simangaliswe?): Watshata noGeorges waza wazala intombi yakhe uJessica.
Ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo abuzange busebenze. U-Arantes waqhubeka ephuza, waza waya kwiidakamizwa-kwaye ngexabiso lomfazi wakhe, uGeorges ngokwakhe wakhetha ukungasebenzi. Ngethuba lokutshatyalaliswa kweentsapho wayengenamahloni kumazwi kwaye akazange adibanwe nokuhlaselwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunzima kangakanani kuJoe ukwenza isigqibo, wazama: ngelinye ilanga wenyuka kwipropati yakhe yesiPutukezi enye iisutkesi kunye nentombi elele kwi-ores. Washiya udadewabo e-Edinburgh, akaze abuyele kumyeni wakhe, nangona uGeorges kamva wazama ukumtshutshisa.
Ndingathanda ukubhala oko kwinqanaba lobomi obonwabileyo bukaJoan Rowling laqala, kodwa, hayi, kwakukho imvula ebomvu ezayo kwisithili esihluphekileyo sase-Edinburgh, ngaphezu komvuzo othobekileyo wenobhala kunye nokungabi nako kokulala okungapheliyo ngenxa yencwadi ayigxilile ukubhala. Emva koko "uHarry Potter" yachithwa phantse yonke imizi yaseBrithani yokupapasha, enye emva komnye. Into kuphela eyavumeleneyo, yamenza i-fortune. Nangona kunjalo, eli libali elifani ngokupheleleyo. Into eyona nto esiyifundisayo: awuyi kuboniswa ngehlabathi lonke kunye nezitikiti ezitsha ngokungezelelwe kwinqanaba elizimeleyo. Umhlaba awuqapheli ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ukuba sinokuqiniseka ngokufaneleka kwethu kuya kwenzeka kwaye impumelelo yabasetyhini abathandwayo nabanomdla bayabathanda nothando.