Kwakhona akulula ukuba indoda ihlale phantsi kophahla olufanayo nabazali bakhe, ngakumbi xa usanda kutshata. Ekubeni kufuneka aqonde inxaxheba entsha - umnini wendlu. Ngaphambili, wayekho kule nyana ethandekayo yintsapho, okufuneka uyinyamekele, ukutya kunye nezinto. Kodwa kuye ngumsebenzi onzima, kwaye ngubani oya kuba yinkosikazi yendlu? Emva koko, umninimzi wayengunina, owayedlala umdlalo wakhe. Yaye umama uya kuthini xa umfazi eba yinkosikazi? Esi sigqibo sincike kuye kunye nolwalamano lwakhe nonina. Ukuba baphila kakuhle ngaphambi kokubonakala kwakho, uya kufuna ukuba ube yintombi yakhe kunina.
Yaye umntu wakho wenza konke akwenzayo kwaye uvikela umbono wakhe kunye nonina, uya kuhlala ekhetha icala lakho. Ukuba unina ulungele ukumkela imeko yakhe, ngoko ulwalamano lwakho noninazala lungakhiwa kakuhle ixesha elide. Zama ukuphikisana nomamazala, ukuba ucele ukuba uzame ukutya okuphekiweyo, ungamkeli.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuhamba kunye nonina, kwaye umyeni wakho uhlala ecaleni lomama, ungadikibala. Ukususela ekuqaleni kobomi ndawonye bafaka onke amachashaza phezu "kunye". Ukuseka amalungelo alinganayo phakathi kwakho noninazala. Mxelele yena nomyeni wakhe ukuba ungumntu omdala kunye ozimeleyo onamalungelo alinganayo afanayo. Beka phambi kweqiniso lokuba nawe uyinkosikazi yendlu kwaye uyazi into elungileyo nento engalunganga.
Kuye kuwe ukuba ube ngumkhwekazi omuhle.