Ukumanga kokuqala kunye nomthandayo, wayeyithandani? Okungalindelekanga okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, elinde ixesha elide, elithandwayo okanye ithenda, njengendlela yokuthinta i-petal, uyayikhumbula xa uqala ukuwanga? Yaye ngubani owathi kufuneka abe yedwa? Ndikulungele ukuphikisa ukuba ngoku kubanga kulahlekelwe ukuloba okokuqala, kodwa kutheni?
Ebomini, ndihambelana nomgaqo wokuqala. Ukuba sele sele iyenzeka, ke kukho inokwenzeka ukuba inokuphindaphindiweyo. Ukuba kwakukho umlingo wokuqala wokumanga, ngoko unokuhlala uphindaphindiwe, kuya kuba nomnqweno. Akuyimfuneko ukuba le ngxabano okanye inxalenye, unokucinga nje. Kwaye kungcono ukuvuma nokuhambisa kunye. Kufana nephupha elimangalisayo. Ngendlela, lo mgaqo awusebenzi nje ukumanga, ngomhla wokuqala, uhambo lokuqala ukuya kwi-cinema, isondo sokuqala, akunandaba.
Into endiyicinezele ngakumbi ngobudlelwane kunye nomntu othandekayo yilahleko yokulahleka. Abantu bathambekele ekutheni baqhelise kwaye bathabathe ubuncinane nangona utshintsho oluphawulekayo ebomini. Izolo uhamba ngeaphiko akho ngononophelo, kwaye nanamhlanje ulahla amahlombe akho: ewe, kukho, kwaye yintoni? Kwaye kutheni na? Ngaba kwakungalungi xa intloko yayidlwengula ngokuvuya, xa ihlabathi liphela linyuka kumntu oyedwa? Hayi, kungekubi. Ngaphezu koko, sonke siyaphuthelwa ngolu hlobo luthando, ngaphandle koko alukwazi. Ukuba nolonwabo, wonke umntu uya kufisa ukuphinda aphinde amava. Ngokuqhelekileyo senza izinto eziyinqatha, sibheke oko kulahlekile kwicala. Kwaye esikhundleni sokububula ngokudakumba okanye ukuqala konke okubalulekileyo, kwanele nje ukujonga umntu osondeleyo, enamehlo afanayo.
Ngumntu ofanayo oye wakwenza intliziyo yakho iyathuthumele, khumbula ukuba kwakunjani, ufunde ukuphinde ube nolonwabo ebusweni bakhe kwaye umfundise. Kuyimfuneko ukuyifunda, kodwa imikhosi esetshenzisiweyo iyafaneleka, ndikuqinisekisa.
Andiyi kuthetha ukuba kulula, ngakumbi kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Ukulahlekelwa kwezinto ezintsha, kukho utshintsho oluchanekileyo kwaye lubonakala lula kumsebenzi ngamnye. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, sonke sifuna ukubonakala singcono, sinobubele, sihle, sinyanisekile, kodwa ngexesha siphumelele. Kwaye akukho kwengubo endala okanye iifutshane zeentsapho. Konke malunga nokuziphatha.
Ndaye ndafumana amava. Ndakhangela umyeni wam kungekhona ngamehlo omfazi wam. Akunjengomntu ongowam, endihlala naye iminyaka emininzi, kodwa njengendoda endandifumene naye kwaye ndiyithandayo. Ndazama nzima ukuba ndifundele indima. Ngexesha elifanayo yena ngokwakhe waphawula ukuba intetho endiyithethayo, impendulo kumntu omnye okanye ngamanye amazwi akhe, yaguqulwa ngokungabikho ngokungafaniyo, kwaye kwaye kwahlukana nezwi. Umyeni wam waphawula oku kwaye wayeseqaphile. Ngaphandle kokubona oko, waqala ukuziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngendlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yegama.
Enyanisweni, konke kulula. Xa sithetha, sithuthukisa umnxibelelwano okanye umlingane kwisimo esithile, kwaye, ngokwabo baziphathe ngokungazi kakuhle njengoko kulindeleke kuthi kumdlali. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho inkokheli kunye nekhoboka, kodwa iindima zingatshintsha zombini kwintetho enye okanye intlanganiso kunye nobomi. Ndicebisa ngokukhawuleza ngethuba elithile ngenyameko kwaye ngenyameko ndithatha indima yabenzayo ngokwabo.
Ukuba usenza isigqibo malunga naloo mzamo, khumbula, akukho nto imfuneko ukuba iinzame zakho ziya kuzisa ngokukhawuleza iziphumo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube nesigulane kwaye ungashiyi indlela ekhethiweyo. Ungenza lula umsebenzi wakho ngokugqamisa ukutshintsha kwindlela yokuziphatha. Intombazana, umzekelo, utshintshe i-hairstyle yakhe, umbala weenwele okanye uthathe iimpahla zendlela eyahlukileyo, umntu angamema umthandi wakhe kwindawo ethile. Kucetyiswa ngexesha lesidlo okanye emva komsebenzi ukuze ufike kwindawo yokuhlangana. Nangona uhlala udla ndawonye ngexesha lokuphuka, inani aliyi kudlula. Umgca wenyani ukudala imeko engabonakaliyo yobudlelwane bakho, yindlela elula yokumvusa umntu ekuziphatheni okungafani naye ngexesha kunye nasebudlelwaneni obunikwe.
Enyanisweni, yonke into iyancipha kuphela ngcamango yakho. Ukutya isidlo ekhaya kunye namakhandlela, ibhedi e-rose petals, indlu yokuhlambela enephunga elimnandi, inqaku elihle elishiye efrijini okanye etafuleni, isipho esincinci esihle - nayiphi na into emangalisayo. Ndiphinda: kuya kuba nomnqweno nomonde.
Ndiyathanda, ndinqwenela ukuba uphendule iwaka lokuqala kunye nalowo uyamthandayo.
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