Ngaliphi na le meko awuzange uhlangabezane nayo, ukubuya komntwana ekunceliseni ihlale kunokwenzeka, kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukunqabisa. Uya kufuneka wenze ukhetho, ngenxa yokuba unokubuyisela umntwana ukuncelisa, ukutshintsha nje imichimo yabo ekuxoxaneni nomntwana. Izinto ezininzi ezilungele umama kuya kufuneka zinyulwe.
Ukuqaliswa kokuncelisa kunconywa kuthiwa ukuphumla. Ngokomgaqo, ukuphumla kunokwenzeka nokuba ngowesifazane ongazange abelethe umntwana, kuba ukuphuculwa kobisi akuchaphazeleka nje kuphela kwizinto zokuphila, kodwa nangokwezinto zengqondo.
I-hormone prolactin, enoxanduva lokuvelisa ubisi ukusuka kumfazi, iveliswa kwisixa esikhulu xa umntwana usana ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba, ngokukodwa, ukuba ukuba unalo ubisi obaneleyo, kufuneka ubeke umntwana kwisifuba rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuba utshintshela ukondla olongezelelweyo, ubisi luyabonakala ngokupheleleyo.
Kuya kubonakala, yintoni ingxaki apha. Ufuna nje ukubeka umntwana esifubeni sakhe ngokukhawuleza xa ekucela ukuba udle, kwaye umnike, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuba aphuze lonke ubisi ngokwakhe. Kodwa umntwana, owondliwa ngeemveliso ezibonakalayo, uwathabatha kwi-ingono. Kuye, le ndlela yokufumana ukutya ilula, kwaye uqala ukuyeka isifuba sakhe. Isixa sebisi kulo mzekelo sincitshiswa kwaye ngoku ke umntwana uguqule ngokupheleleyo kumxube. Mhlawumbi umntu uya kuzifumana ezilungele zona. Kodwa abantwana abafumana uncinci oluncinci banomzimba obuthathaka kwaye baxhomekeke ekudleni. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abantwana ababuyiselwe ekunceliseni ukunyamezela baya kupheliswa ngokusisigxina kukutya okutya abathile baya kubuyela emva.
Ngoko ukuba umntwana angasetyenziselwa ingono, yondla kwi-spoon. Esi sincomo singasetyenziswe ngabooomama abangayi kubuyiselwa umntwana ukuba ancelise. Inkqubo yokuncelisa isisu inceda ekufomeni ngokufanelekileyo ukuluma nokuphuhlisa izihlunu zobuso bomntwana. Iimbumba kunye ne-pacifiers, kwakhona, esinye sezizathu zokubonakala kwamazinyo eziphosakeleyo.
Ukuba unengxaki: indlela yokubuyisela umntwana ekunceliseni, indlela yokubuyisela ubisi okanye indlela yokwandisa imveliso yayo, kufuneka uqale uqhagamshelane nomntwana. Umama kufuneka ahlale esondelene nomntwana. Kungaba nzima kunamanye amama, kuba ufuna ukulala nomntwana, phantse onke amaxesha ukuwugcina kwiingalo zakho. Chaza kwintsapho yakho indlela yokubuyisela umntwana ukuba ancelise, akufanele aphazamise nawe.
Phonsa zonke iimbini kunye ne-pacifiers. Ngoku ufuna ipompo yebele, i-spoon kunye ne-sling esiya kunceda ukuphatha umntwana ezandleni zakho. Xa ubuqhetseba bubuyiselwa, umntwana kufuneka agqitywe ngamaxesha onke. Unina kufuneka anakekele umntwana, swaddle, utshintshe i-diaper. Uqhagamshelwano nolusu lubaluleke kakhulu, ngoko umntwana kunye nonina kufuneka babe ncinane ubunxibe. Kungcono ukuba ungaphumi kule mihla uvela ekhaya, kwaye ukuba usaya kuhamba, uphinde uthwale umntwana ezandleni zakho, kwaye ungayifaki kwisigxina. Ukuba umntwana akaqhelekanga ezandleni, okokuqala kuya kuba yinto engabonakaliyo. Ukuseka umnxibelelwano ngokuthe ngcembe, qalisa ukubeka umntwana eceleni kwakhe embhedeni, uze uqale ukuthabatha izandla.
Isifuba sifanele sithathe indawo yentsana kunye ne-pacifier, ukuba ukhetha ukuphumla, kungcono kanye kunye nonke. Xa umntwana esetyenziselwa ezandleni kwaye uya kuziphatha ngokuzinzileyo, qalisa ukumnika isifuba. Abantwana abaninzi banomkhuba wokuncelisa amabele kamama emva kokuba bazi ibhotile. Amadoda angamaxhoba ayengazange athathe isifuba, kodwa isifuba esisiswini sokuthambisa sinemvelaphi ebantwaneni. Ukuze amvuse, umntwana ulala ebuthongweni. Ngomhla umntwana usetyenziselwa esifubeni kwiiyure nganye, ubusuku obuyi-3-4 xa umntwana exhalabile okanye kwiwashi ye-alamu. Isifuba nesinamathiselo ngasinye sitshintshiwe. Inani lezinto zokutya eziqhotyoshelweyo ziyancitshiswa. Okokuqala uza kuba nobisi oluncinane, kodwa ngezenzo ezifanelekileyo, ubisi kuza kuza imihla yonke.
Thatha i-lactagonia teas, i-ginger, unyuse ukumnika, ukhilimu kunye ne-cumin.
Xa ubisi lufika, kunye nomxube umntwana uya kufumana ukutya okunye. Ngenxa yoko, uya kubakho ukucoca. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana eqala ukutshintsha iiflethi ezimanzi ngokukhawuleza, lixesha lokunciphisa inani lomxube wokufakelwa. Ukuze ubale ngokuchanekileyo inani lokucoca, kufuneka usebenzise i-diapers eziqhelekileyo, kunokuba i-diapers elahlayo.
Xa uhlambuluko lubuyiselwa, ishedyuli yakho yesilwanyana iya kuphuhliswa. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana, kuya kulingana nama-1.5 okanye iiyure ezimbini. Ukutya omnye usana kufakwa kwisifuba esisodwa.
Ukuba ubisi bubuyiselwa ubuninzi obaneleyo, umntwana kufuneka agcinwe axutywe. Kwiinyanga ezili-6, umxube wobisi uthathelwe indawo ngeepatata ezihlambulukileyo kunye nama-porridges.