Igama eliqhelekileyo kule minyaka "linike." Ingane iyaqonda ngokucacileyo oko ifuna ukuyifumana kwaye ingaba yinto enqwenelekayo xa inganikwa into efunwayo. Uninzi lwabantwana sele benamazinyo amaninzi, ngoko unako ukunikela ngokutya okunzulu. Kodwa ukuba amazinyo asencinane kakhulu, musa ukukhawuleza ngokutya okuqhelekileyo kubantu abadala. Isici saloo nto sithathwa njengento yokucoca. Ngomntwana, oku kukuxinezeleka ngenxa yokuba ulahlekelwa ukuxhamla kwengqondo ngokuqhelekileyo nonina, ngoko kubalulekile ukuthatha umntwana ezandleni zakho kwaye uyitye.
Yintoni abantwana abangayenza kwiinyanga ezili-11?
Umntwana wakho uneminyaka engama-ubudala kwaye akayeki ukumangazela ngemisebenzi emitsha engavamile. Umzekelo:
- Uyayiqonda intetho yowama, uyise kunye nabanye abantu abadala baze baxhase incoko ngendlela ekhethekileyo, bayigquba intloko;
- uzalisekisa izicelo kwaye uyavuya gqitha ukuba udunyiswa ngenxa yempumelelo encinane;
- Unokubingelela nokutshibela abahlobo, ukunyanzela ngokuthe tye;
- unokuzimela, nangona ngokukhawuleza nangenyameko, wehla uze ukhuphuke amanyathelo;
- Unokuzixelisa amazwi kunye nezibongo zabantu abadala nokuphinda izandi zezilwanyana;
- ixelisa ngokunyanisekileyo izenzo zebazali kunye namanye amalungu entsapho;
- uyayiqonda xa uthetha ngcokola ngaye kwaye uphulaphula ngokucophelela amagama.
Iziphakamiso zokunakekelwa, ukondla kunye nemidlalo yophuhliso
- Ekubeni iintsana ezininzi ziqala ukwenza amanyathelo abo okuqala okanye zize zithinte iinyawo zazo, qi Nangona umntwana wakho engazange athathe isinyathelo sokuqala, izicathulo eziphezulu ziza kuququzelela le nkqubo. Ehlotyeni, unako ukuvumela ukuba uhambe unqwelwe ngesihlanti okanye ingca. Ngaphambi koko, qiniseka ukuba akukho zinto ezinobungozi ebusweni umntwana angakwazi ukuqhuba kuyo emlenzeni okanye ukuphakamisa
- Ekubeni imvana iyayiqonda nje into eyenzekayo kuye, kodwa kunye neemfuno zomzimba wakhe, kunokwenzeka ukuba imfundise ngokuqhubekayo nangokuqhubekayo ebhodweni, ichaza ukuba kufuneka unciphise iipenties zakho kwaye uhlale phantsi ebhodweni xa ufuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese.
- Ukutya kwabantwana abaneminyaka engama-1 ubudala kubangela imibuzo emininzi kumama: into enokunikezwa ngayo, kwaye kukuphi na ubuninzi. Enyanisweni, ukutya kukufana kakhulu nemenyu yokutya yabantu abadala. Kungcono ukukhetha okubilisiwe okanye ukutyhila imifuno kunye nenyama. Unokunika isinkwa, intlanzi kunye nemveliso yobisi emuncu.
- Urhulumente wolu suku kufuneka lenziwe ngabanye, ngokuqwalasela iimfuno zemidlalo, ukutya kunye nokulala. Ngokomyinge, abantwana kwiinyanga ezili-11 balala kabini emini nasebusuku, lonke ixesha lizinikele kwimidlalo.
- Iinyanga ezilishumi elinesibhozo zinomdla kakhulu kwiincwadi, ngoko funda amanqaku amaninzi kwaye ubonise kwimifanekiso eqaqambileyo. Kungcono ukuthenga iincwadi zezingane ukusuka kwikhadibhodi, kungekhona iphepha elincinci, ekubeni umntwana uya kuba nzima ukuphula.
- Ukuthetha kunye nosana uze ubiza zonke izinto azikhomba ngomnwe wakhe. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba awukuthi nje ukuba yintoni le nto ebizwa ngokuba yiyo, kodwa kwakhona uchaze ngendlela elula malunga neepropati zayo kunye nenjongo.