Ukususela ngamaxesha siya kutsalwa kwizilingo zesini. Kodwa ukuphulwa kwemiba eqhelekileyo yinto enoxanduva. Kuthekani ukuba siziva singakhululekile? Makuvumele ukuba oku kungathinteli. Ukuba uvavanyo lubonisa ukuba luyimpumelelo, awuyi kufumana kuphela amava angalibalekiyo, kodwa kwakhona ufumane entsha iqabane. Indlela yokudibanisa ubomi obusondeleyo nomyeni wakhe? Silahla ihlazo kwaye sifunde kunye.
Dlala indima
U-Anna kunye neGleb baye bethandwa kakhulu kumdlalo odlala umdlalo-kwiimvumi ezithandanayo ezifana nokuzama ukuhlala zikhangelekile kwaye zinobugcisa. "Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ndibe nolonwabo kwiintlobo ezinjalo-kubonakala ngathi izibini zodwa zobugcisa zingadlala ugqirha kunye nesigulane okanye intombi kunye nomninimzi, onokutshintshela ngokupheleleyo kwaye okwethutyana ngokunyaniseka ," u-Anna uthi. - Yingakho asizange siphumelele ukuqonda iingcamango zethu kwaye ixesha elide liye linciphisa ukuthetha. Kodwa ndafuna ukuhlukana nobomi obusondeleyo kunye nomyeni wam.
Kwaye ngolunye usuku yonke into yavela yodwa. UGleb wabuyela ekhaya emva komhlangano obalulekileyo kwaye, ngokungabikho ixesha, ngokucacileyo, endleleni yokutshintshela imisebenzi yasendlini, waphendukela kum namanqaku okunyusa aphezulu. Ndandivuyiswa gqitha kangangokuba ndagqiba ukudlala kunye naye: ndenze ngathi ndiyintombazana encinane. Sobabili sasithwaleka ngumdlalo esasingaboni ukuba sasilala njani. Kwakubu busuku bemilingo. Asizange senze into ekhethekileyo, kodwa iibinzana, ukuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kutshintshile: Ndaziva ngezulu le sixhenxe ngonwabile kwaye ndonwabile, ndidlala umfazi omncinane othobelayo. Lo mzamo, asikaphindaphindi, kodwa bobabini bayayikhumbula ngesisa. "
"U-Anna noGleb bafikelele ngokukhawuleza ekugqibeleni zabo iingcamango," kuchaza isazi sezocansi uVladimir Prokhorov. - Ekuqaleni bazilungiselela ngokwabo: baxubusha ngeminqweno yabo ngokubanzi, bafunde oko kubonakala kubakhangayo kulolu vavanyo kwaye yiyiphi into eyoyikisayo. Kwasala kuphela ukulinda ixesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, yonke into ibonakala sengathi ikhona. "
Iinkcukacha zobuGcisa
UOlga noKonstantin babengesabi ukuqonda iphupha elifihliweyo lamabhangqwana amaninzi - baya kwivenkile yesondo kunye kunye bakhetha amathoyizi eentlobano zesondo. "Kwangaphambili, kubonakala kum ukuba isandulela ngculazi ayinyani ukunyamezela abaxhamli kunye nezinye izinto zokuphucula ubugcisa-zithi, yonke into kufanele ibe yendalo ," utsho uAlga. " Kodwa uCostya wakwazi ukundiqinisekisa." Ukuzama kokuqala sikhethe umkhosi okhethekileyo ngesondo kunye ne dildo enhle. Kuye kwavela ukuba amathoyizi awaphazamisi embhedeni, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, yenza ukuba izinto zibe mnandi kakhulu. Ngaphezu koko, kwinto yokuba asiyi kugxininisa kwiinkcukacha zobugcisa (endimele ndiyivume, kunoko ndiloyiko), kodwa ke ingqalelo kuphela kwiimvakalelo zam . "
"Esi sibini sifike kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo: ngokwenene, ungesabi ukusebenzisa izimpumelelo zoshishino lwesondo," kusho uGalina Nechaeva. - Amathoyizi eentlobano zesimanje zilula ukuzisebenzisa, zikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo, zihlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zonyango kwaye zenziwe ngokukodwa ukuze zenze uvuyo kwaye zinyuse ubomi obusondeleyo. Baphathise njengento enomdla, ngenxa yokuba awudidekanga ngokukhanya okulumkileyo kwesibane sasebusuku kunye nokulala okuhle? Futhi ungakulibali ngokucoceka: yonke into yokudlala kufuneka ihlanjwe ngamanzi afudumele kunye nesepha ngaphambi nangemva kwesondo, kunye ne-vibrators kunye nama-dildos kufuneka zisetyenziswe kunye nekhondom kunye ne-lubricant ekhethekileyo. "
Ithebhulethi Yomlu
Emva kweminyaka engama-15 yomtshato, u-Oksana no-Igor baqaphela ukuba ubomi babo bobulili babonakala buhlwempu. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakunqabile, kodwa ngeemidlalo zokuthanda, zihlala ubusuku bonke, ziyakhumbula kuphela. Ngenye imini, u-Igor wazinikela ukusebenzisa i-Viagra - ipilisi yayinconywe ngugqirha wethu wosapho , "iAksana izabelo. - Ekuqaleni ndayifumana le ngcamango ngento engathembekiyo: kwakubonakala kum ukuba amayeza angasetyenziswayo angasetyenziswanga. Kodwa ke, kwiipalini ezicinga ukuba isiphumo sinokwenzeka, savuma. Ndivuyayo kukuba ndithintele ubandlululo - isondo sasimangalisa nje. Kwaye kwavela ukuba iipilisi azibangeli nje ukulungiswa okungalawulwayo, kodwa uncedise ukugcina yonke loo nto xa umntu evekile. Saphinda safumana ithuba lokunandipha inkqubo ngokukhawuleza njengoko sifuna. Ukususela ngoko, zonke iinyanga ezimbalwa, siyazivumela ukuba kube nomthendeleko omzimba . "
"Kakade, loo mayeza akufanele athathwe ngabathandi abancinci," uxwayisa u-Vladimir Prokhorov. - Kodwa ukuba umntu onenkathazo, ulahlekelwe amandla kodwa akahluphekanga kwisifo senhliziyo, ngoko iViagra ingaba luncedo oluhle. Kuya kunceda ukuhlukana kwezesondo zesini. Ekugqibeleni, kuyisidenge ukungasebenzisi izibonelelo zentlalo-mpahla, ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Kodwa ukuba eso sibini sikholelwa ukuba ithebhulethi inokwenza ummangaliso, ngoko kuya kufuneka idideke: i-Viagra kunye ne-analogs yayo ngokwayo ayibangela ukuchulumiseka, kodwa kunceda nje ukuqala iindlela zokulungisa. Ukuba injabulo ilungile, iipilisi zinokuphucula kakhulu umgangatho wobomi besondo, kwaye ukuba kunzima ukuba umntu abe nemihlali - kakhulu, akayidingi iyeza, kodwa kuthethwa ngumbono wesondo. "
Utshintsho lweendawo
UKarina noRuben behlala behlala "bebini elitshatileyo." "Uninzi lwazo zonke, sithanda ukuzama ukutshintsha indawo ," uRuben uthi. - Ngokukodwa ngokubonakalayo kubonakaliswe kulutsha olubuhlungu: unxungulo luya kuvela ekutyelelaneni nabahlobo, kwiklabhu yobusuku okanye kwimoto. Kwa kutshanje safumanisa ukuba asizange sizame ukulala ngesimo. Le ngcamango yayibonakala iyilingo: kwakukho ihlobo, kufuphi ne-dacha, esasiqashisayo, yayiyihlathi, kwaye ineendawo ezininzi ezintle. Sithatha iingubo ezithambileyo, iwayini kunye namasangweji kunye nathi kwaye sishiya emikhondweni egcwele. Ubundlobongela bebuhle - umzimba wawuvuthela umoya omtsha, kwaye ukusondelana kwendalo kwenza umdla uvuyo . "
"Ukwabelana ngesondo kwindawo entsha yindlela elula kakhulu yokuba umfazi ahluke ubomi bakhe obusondeleyo nomyeni wakhe," kusho uGalina Nechaeva wesini. "Akumangalisi ukuba abafana bathanda ukutshintsha imeko. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ulale ngesondo kwindawo engavamile, cinga ngezinto ofuna ukuzenza kuzo. Ngokomzekelo, ukwenza uthando kummandla okanye kwindawo kawonkewonke, sebenzisa ikhondom, ngaphandle koko kunokubangela ukucaphukisa okanye isifo se-dysbiosis. "
I-OPTION: UMvgeny KULGAVCHUK, u-sexologist, u-psychotherapist, umongameli we-Russian Association of Sexologists.
Kubomi bentlobano kubalulekile ukulandela i-golden gold. Akufanele kuvumeleke ukuba ibe njengemlambo, kodwa akufanelekile ukuyijika ibe ngumlambo weentaba. Ubomi obusondeleyo bufanele bubukeke njengelwandle elihle elinamanzi ahambayo. Emva koko kuvela ukugcina ibhalansi ebaluleke kakhulu: into ephambili ayilahlekanga, kodwa utshintsho lusenzeka. Intshukumo kufuneka idlale indima yezinto eziphathekayo, kwaye ungaphenduli ngendlela yokuphila, kuba ekugqibeleni ungakwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi "ukutshatyalaliswa ngokomzwelo", ukukhathala nokudumala. Ngokwenyama, amadoda afuna ukudlala ngakumbi kunye noshintsho kwisini. Ukuba ulungelelwano lukhoyo, ngoko, ukugcina ubudlelwane obunaphakade, kubonakala kuninzi lwabafazi. Ewe, nabasetyhini bavame ukujonga ukuzithemba kunye novelwano njengemvavanyo yokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle. Ngokubhekiselele kwimimiselo yeengcinga zengqondo, kuyaqatshelwa ukuba ezinye zazo zikhethwa ukuba ziphumelele. Kungenxa yokuba zilungile nje nje ngeengcamango kwaye xa zisetyenziselwa kuphela ukuletha udani. Xa kuxoxwa ngayo kukufanelekile ukusebenzisa "imithombo yesithathu", umzekelo, amanqaku eendaba. Ukuba iqabane lichaphazela kakubi ulwazi olutsha, vumelana naye, ukuba akayikukhumbuza, ngoko unokuhlakulela ingxoxo. Kodwa qaphela ukuphunyezwa okusebenzayo: qiniseka ukuqinisekisa ukuba iingcamango zakho zihambelana neembono zeqabane.
5 IMIGAQO YEMIGAQO YOKWENZA IMISEBENZI
1. Yonke into ibe yendalo. Akudingeki ukuba uhlakulele imiyalelo enenkcazo engakukhusela ukuba ukhululeke kwaye ujabulele inkqubo.
2. Uvavanyo kufuneka libe nenjongo. Cinga ngesizathu sokuba ufuna ukuzama oku okanye oko? Ukuziva unomdla wezilwanyana? Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, isisa? Okanye ngaba iqabane liziva liphakamileyo?
3. Ngesinye isikhathi kungcono ukutshintsha enye, kwiinkalo ezibini zeskripthi sakho esiqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unqume ukulala ngesimo, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuvuya ngakumbi ngokuphuhliswa kwangexesha elinye. Esinye isimo esingavamile siya kukwanela.
4. Ngexesha lokulinga, ungazami ukulawula ngokupheleleyo inkqubo. Kuya kuba ngcono xa uthemba umlingane kwaye umvumele enze okuthile njengoko ebona kufanelekile.
5. Ungazibandakanyi kwiimvavanyo. Ukususela ngamaxesha banomdla kwaye banomdla, kodwa kuphela xa ungaba ngabakhomphathi ekuqhubekeni kwezinto eziqhelekileyo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuzinza kulungile. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo zakho, kungekhona izikhundla ezintsha ...