1. Njengawo wonke umntu.
Akukho mntu uthanda inkulumo ethi "njengaye wonke umntu", kodwa, ngokudlukisayo, akusiwo wonke umntu olungele ukuphuma ebuntwini bonke abantu. Ukuba njengento yonke kungabonakali. Kodwa ngaba abantu abasondelene nathi kangaka? Enyanisweni, ininzi kuthi, phantse wonke umntu unikwe amandla kunye neetalente ezingenakukwazi ukuphuhliswa, ezinethemba elikhulu kwaye ziyakwazi ukuphumelela. Ngako oko, inqaku elithi "Ndifana nabantu bonke" lithetha ukuba aluphelelanga nje kuphela, kodwa lukhuthaze kakhulu ithemba elihle - bonke abanamakhono, kwaye kunjalo. Kakade, akusiwo wonke umntu oba ngumongameli, kodwa nabani na onokuba ngumntu onempumelelo.
2. Zifuna wena.
Abantu abaninzi abaqapheli ukutshintsha ubomi babo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba bengakholelwa ekusebenzeni kwabo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abazi ukuba bazinabo, kwaye ukuba zikhona-ezo zifanele ukuhlakulela bonke ubomi babo? Enyanisweni, bambalwa kakhulu abazalelwa kwaye baqonde - ndiya kuba ngumculi olungileyo. Kwaye kwanokukhula, abantu abaqinisekanga ukuba baqhuba into efanelekileyo. Kodwa ke, unokufumana. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu banamakhono amaninzi, izakhono ezibanceda zidale into ephezulu. Akunandaba nokuba yintoni - unokuqhuba ngokufanelekileyo ukuqhuba i-akhawunti okanye ukucula. Kodwa esinye isifundo siza kuzisa uvuyo, enye yazo iya kukhuthaza ukholo kwimpumelelo, enye yezi zakhono ziza kwenza umnqweno wokubuyela kumsebenzi onjalo ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Mhlawumbi lo yilo lizwi, elifanelekile ukunikela ubomi.
3. Indlela yayo.
Ukukhangela impumelelo, kukho isilingo esinzima sokulandela indlela yomnye ekujoliswe kuyo. Sibheke kwimpumelelo yabanye abantu, kwaye ngokungazenzisiyo senza amanyathelo afanayo, oku kuthetha iimpazamo ezifanayo. Amava asemzini ngumcimbi omangalisayo ongenakuphulukiswa. Kodwa, ngokukopisha ubomi bomntu, uhamba ngendlela efile eyenziwa ngumnye umntu, kanti kuwe kukho indlela yomntu - i-lighter kunye mfutshane. Ngoko ke, musa ukukopisha ngenye indlela izigqibo zabantu, thabatha okulungileyo, kodwa zishiye ithuba lokuphucula nokusebenza ngendlela yakho, ngoko uza kuphumelela ngempumelelo ngexesha elifutshane.
4. Iingxaki.
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba yonke into ihamba ngokukhawuleza kuphela phakathi kwalabo abangenzi nto. Ukuba unqume ubuncinane ukuba utshintshe into ebomini bakho-ukufumana umsebenzi omtsha, uya kuphumla, ubhale inveli, ulungise, kwaye ezinye izithintelo nobunzima zingenzeka. Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa kwisiphumo kwaye ulungele oko kuza kusebenza. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka uqiniseke ngamandla akho okanye ngokuba uya kufumana amathuba okuhlangabezana nale meko. Akukho imfuneko ukuba ubambe iphepha lodonga, ngokukodwa ukuba akukho zakhono ezifanelekileyo, kodwa xa ulungiswa, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba unako ukuqesha iingcali kunye nokufumana imali kule nto. Kule meko, uya kuba nemiphumo emihle.
Ukuba ulungelelanisa nelokuba malunga nokutshintsha kwakho ulinde inkathazo eninzi, mhlawumbi, iingxaki kunye nemiphumo engalindelekanga, akukho nto iya kuvela kuyo. Ngaba uqalise ishishini elingenakufika kuwe okwangoku, okanye unesimo sengqondo esingalunganga. Awukwazi ukuzichasa kwihlabathi, ube ngumqhubi kwi-pose, xa ihlabathi lingazange lenze enye inxaxheba kuyo okanye wena. Naliphina inyathelo kufuneka liqaliswe ngokuzithelekileyo, ngokuzithemba nangesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kuphela kule meko impumelelo iya kuqinisekiswa.
Le miyalelo elula ingabonakala ingavumelekanga, kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu basebenzise ubomi boqobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu baphulaphula iimeko kwaye banqabile ukuthatha uxanduva lokuphila kwabo. Kulula kakhulu ukuthetha - andinako, akunjalo kum, kunzima kakhulu, andinayo iitalente kwaye ndihlala, ndikhalaza ngekusasa. Abo babekholelwa ngokwabo baze bathabatha isinyathelo kubo, bathathe konke abayifunayo ebomini. Abanye baphoqelelwe ukuba bahambe ekupheleni. Kuphi indawo yakho - kukuthi kuwe.