Ngowiphi iminyaka ubudala owonwabileyo ngowesifazane?

Ngowiphi iminyaka ubudala owonwabileyo ngowesifazane? Okokuqala, kufuneka senze isigqibo sokuba kuthetha ukuthini igama elithi "ulonwabo lwabesetyhini". Ulonwabo luvakalelo kunye nesimo sokwaneliseka ngokupheleleyo, impumelelo, inhlanhla (ukusuka kwisichazi-magama esichazayo). Abafazi bafuna ukuba bahle, batyebi, bathande, banomsebenzi, intsapho, abantwana, impilo, indawo yokuhlala, ngoko kunzima ukubonisa ngokucacileyo iminyaka, kuba konke kwenzeka kwixesha elifaniyo. Ulonwabo ... lukhulu kwaye luninzi: ukunyanzeliswa kwithuba lokunwabela kwelinye, kuya kufumana ulonwabo kulunye. Kufana neenganekwane. Ngakwesokhohlo uya kuhamba - uya kufumana, uya kwesokunene, uya kulahleka. Ingxaki yomntu ivuza wonke umntu, kodwa inciphise ubomi, kwaye idlula njengeenkwenkwezi eziqhakazile ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha elizayo, kwaye umntu othule, ehlala ngokuthula ngokukhawuleza, ngokungaqondakaliyo, kwaye malunga naloo mntu ungatsho ukuba ungumfazi owonwabileyo. Inwaba yimeko emfutshane. Ulonwabo olungapheliyo alukho, njengengqamaniso engakhiyo. Lo ngumzuzu xa ufinyelela injongo. Ulonwabo lukwimeko yokonwaba. Utshata.

Umzuzu wolonwabo ngumtshato weentliziyo ezimbini zothando. Uvuyo nolonwabo ngabantwana bothando, kodwa uthando ngokwawo luyomonde nomvandalo. Injabulo enkulu ayikuzicingela wena, kodwa ukuba ube njengabantu bonke. Ukwahlukana kwakhona ngumzuzwana wolonwabo. Ekugqibeleni, uyaphula uxhulumaniso olwenze ukuba ungonwabi. Ufuna umntwana. Ukuzalwa - ulonwabo kubazali, ukubonakala kwindlalifa elide elindelwe. Ibhinqa livuyisa ulonwabo xa liziswa kumntwana esibhedlele, unxinezela umntwana osalinde ixesha elide. Ukunxibelelana nabantwana kwenza abantu bayonwabe, abafazi abangayaziyo uvuyo lobazali belulungele ukuchitha imali eninzi yokuzala umntwana. Waphathwa ngohlobo oluthile lwesifo. Ukufumana kwakhona ulonwabo. Umda othile ebomini obunxulumene nokuphela kwanoma yiliphi ixesha lingabizwa ngokuba nolonwabo, oku nguguquko oluvela kumgangatho omnye ukuya kwelinye: ukusuka kwindlu yokubeletha ukuya kwi-kindergarten, kwi-kindergarten ukuya esikolweni, ukusuka esikolweni ukuya kwisikolo esiqhelekileyo semfundo. Ndinomsebenzi omhle-owonwabileyo. Ufikelele kwiminyaka yomhlala-phantsi ekugqibeleni - ulonwabo. Inwaba ebusweni babasetyhini abadibana noonyana babo emkhosini ophilileyo kunye nempilo. Abafazi abonwabileyo ekupheleni kwanoma yimuphi umququzeleli wempi, kuba ibhinqa iyadalwa ukuze ilinde ubomi, kwaye ingapheli ubomi bakhe, ngoko ke abafazi bahlala bechasene neemfazwe ezilamba, izifo kunye nokubhubha kubantu. "Oo, mfazi, ubuhlungu kukuba isibuko sakhe siqina."

Iimaphephandaba zizele iifoto kunye neentloko malunga nokuphumelela kootyhini kwabasetyhini ngaphezu kobunzima babo. Ulonwaba ngumzuzwana wokunqoba. Khahlaka uze ukhale ngenxa yolonwabo lwabesetyhini kunye namantombazana, abadlali abaphumelele kwiziphumo emva koqeqesho olude. Abafundi abonwabileyo emva kweseshoni ephumelelayo. Lucky inhlanhla kwi-lottery kunye nemiklomelo yowlottery. Ungabiza umfazi ovuyayo oweva ukuvakaliswa kothando kumntu othandekayo. Unikwe izihluthulelo kwindlu entsha okanye indlu. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwindlu ngumzuzu obonwabileyo wobomi.

Ngoko, ngabaphi abafazi abonwabileyo? Kunzima ukuthetha. Ubomi buquka ixesha elivuyoleyo lobomi kunye namaxesha phakathi kwabo, kwaye kukho konke oku kwenzeka ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Inwaba ibhola, ngokuthanda kwenzuzo, ihamba namhlanje phantsi komnye, ngomso ngaphantsi komnye, nangomso emva komso phantsi kweyesithathu, njalo njalo. Ukuba ufuna ukuvuya, yibani. Ulonwabo ... lukhulu kwaye luninzi; ukunyanzeliswa kwithuba lokuba ujabule kwelinye, fumana unonwabo kwenye. Kwaye abo bakholelwa kwizibonakaliso - fumana isicabucu esimhlophe, makudle isidleke phezu kombhede wakho, kwaye uya kuvuya. Akuyena wonke umfazi onokulala apho izigulane zithwala iibhubhu, kodwa ngenxa yolonwabo umntu unokufumana ubunzima.