Yena ... ngokukhawuleza wabuyela kuwe waza wathabatha zonke iingcamango kunye nezicwangciso zomhla. Ukhohlile kubafana abakujikelezile, kwaye bafumene into entsha yokumangalisa. Ngenxa yokuba uye wambona umthandi onokuba ngumntu, kodwa ngoku ulahlekelwe yonke ifowuni yakho. Ekubeni ngenxa yomona ngokukhetha kwakho ukuzithemba kwabo - kuya kuba kunjalo, wakhethwa yintombazana ethandwa kakhulu! Ewe, kwaye uhlala utyhafaza, ubeka izinto eziyimfihlakalo ngokumangalisayo, kwaye uthetha ngokuzithandayo ngabahlobo bakho ukuba umhlobo wakho nguye.
Ukuze ugcine izinto ezimnandi ngendlela efanelekileyo, hlukanisa le mibini yobomi. Sebenzisa ubuhlobo bakho ngobulumko. Ukuba amantombazana avela kwinkampani yakho enenkathazo kunye nabafana, bhengeza ivelivelwana kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze bangabangeli umona. Ukuba bonke banamakhwenkwe, balungise amaqela angama-hen - kwaye mayeke amantombazana ahlanganyele ngeenkcukacha zobumnandi. Ingxoxo encinci ngawe-mawabuze. Abafana abanakulibala ukubonisa ukuba, nangona kukho konke, abantu abapholile kunabo bonke. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ubheke kubo uncedo uze ukhumbuze ukuba usengumhlobo wabo ongenakukhusela.
Umzekelo, umntu oza kufika kwiqela , ongayifunanga kuphela uCamus kwintsusa, kodwa naye ugqoke imihla ngemihla, njengengqesho kunye neyokuqala. Okanye omnye umntu uyazifumana ngokukhawuleza, ukuphuma ngokuphumelelayo emthunzini. Ukuba ungumkhokeli wenene, ngoko ukhuphiswano olunjalo alufanele luyikrele. Yenza abahlobo ngeenkwenkwezi entsha. Uhlalutye, kunokuba umntu omtsha uthathe ingqwalasela yenkampani kwaye ingaba ufunda indlela yokufunda ukuba yinkokeli kwiinkampani? Ulwazi?
Iimpahla eziphathekayo? Iingcamango ezinkulu kwiqela? Ukubonisa into efanayo, kodwa bhetele - kuba ungathandi mntu uyabazi abahlobo bakho. Unolwazi oluninzi kunye negunya elinamandla - lisisebenzise! Mema lo mtsha ukuba aququze uhambo kwindalo, mema abahlobo bakhe ukuba bahambe ngeenxa yokuthengisa kunye nokwenzela ulwazi malunga nemikhwa yentambo. Kodwa! Akufuneki kubonakale sengathi uzama ngamandla ukugcina ipop. Ukuba inkampani iphosakele ngesikhashana ngokuqhayisa komtsha, iya kwi-cinema kunye nabahlobo ngekg ye-knitting-wonke umntu makabone ukuba unesidingo esikhulu kwaye ungakhathazeki.
Abahlobo bamatye bafunda ukuba phantsi komsila ukhalela i "Twilight" kwaye uphulaphule uSergei Lazarev? Okanye kunye neenkcubeko zabafazi beentlanga ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo zibonakaliswe ngamabala e-orange emva kokucutshulwa kunye neengubo zenguqu? Kwimeko nayiphi na into, uye wenza "ububi" obuyingozi, leyo inkokheli engayithethi. Yingakho sikhona, ukucacisa indlela yokufunda indlela yokuba yinkokeli kwiinkampani.
Umgangatho obaluleke kakhulu wenkokeli ukukwazi ukuhleka. Naluphina ukungaqondi kakuhle kunokuthi udlalwe ngokufanelekileyo okanye uguquke ube yihlaya. Inkokheli isoloko igcina imeko ilawulwa. Ukuba uhlazo aluzange luncede kwaye usalindela ukubuza, ungaqhubeki ukuzithethelela - oku uza kugxininisa ityala lakho kwaye uvume ukungabi namandla. Ewe, ushiye indlu ngekhredithi ye-radiography. Ngoko yintoni? Uthanda oko! Uyakuthanda iifolokhwe ezinjalo, kwaye wena-uqinile kwaye unamandla - wuthanda amathandana enothando. Ukuhlala ngoluvo lwakho, uya kuthiwa intlonipho. Kakade, musa ukuphula ngokupheleleyo umfanekiso wakho wobunkokeli, njengoko ufuna, - kufuneka uhloniphe ixabiso leqela. Ukubonisa ukuba uthembekile kubo njengabanye, unobunyani ukuba inkampani inomdla. Ngokomzekelo, memela wonke umntu kwi-konsathi yeshoni yokufa okanye ukufakela umboniso wefashoni.
Isikhundla sakho - "Ndilapha apha, kwaye uluvo lwakho alukhathazi nabani"? Oku akwanele nakubani na. Bonisa abahlobo bakho ukuba ufuna kangakanani - kungekhona kwimiyalezo ehlelekile "yenza oku!", Kodwa cela, cela uncedo, uze ubonge intliziyo. Hlanganisa ndawonye kunye nithi nibulele ngokukuthanda, nangona ngamanye amaxesha ungazibekezeleleki. Ngenxa yale nto kwaye uyabathanda kwaye uzilungele yonke into. Bungqina ngezenzo - ehleli elalenile kunye nokuziqhelisa ekupheleleni kwakho, kunzima ukuba ngumxholo wokubonga.
... uchitha ubusuku bakho obunobungane. Kungenzeka ukuba uzuze ukuthandwa kuphela ngempembelelo yangaphandle, kwaye ngoku, xa umfanekiso oqaqambileyo, kodwa oqingqiweyo uye waba yinto ephazamisayo, abantu babefuna ukufumana into onokuyenza ngayo, ngaphandle kweehlaya eziqhambileyo okanye iingubo ezimfutshane zengubo. Inkokheli kulindeleke ukuba yenze izigqibo, iququze ukuphumla kunye kunye nokuzalisekisa ezinye imisebenzi "ezisemthethweni". I-Clowns kunye ne-photomodels kunye namahlaya afanayo kunye kunye ne-snow-white-smiles bakhupha ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba awufuni ukuba abantu baphoswe:
Namathela kwindlela yakho, kodwa uyihlakulele rhoqo. Ukuba unqwenela ukutshintsha - ungahambi iintsuku ezimbini ngokulandelelana kwiingubo ezifanayo, ukuba ungumdlalo wezemidlalo, ukwandisa imisebenzi yokusebenza kunye nee-sequins kunye neentyantyambo, ukuba amantombazana ayonwabile ngeigugu zakho - anikeze uphinde ugqoke kwakhona. Yiba nomqondiso wesithsaba kunye ne-catchwords, kodwa ungayisebenzisi kaninzi. Ukwandisa i-horizons yakho kwaye uxele. Kufuneka ube nolwandle lwamabali ukusuka ebomini (kungekhona okwenu - unokufumana ama-mandars okanye amaShayina). Ufanele ukwazi ukukhanyela kwingxoxo nayiphi na isihloko kwaye ufumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kuwo wonke umntu - kunye ne-botanist engaqhelekanga ofuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuba enze umsebenzi wesikolo kwiqela lonke, kunye ne-grade-grade ye-grade-grade. Yiba ngcono.
Kha wuleza kwaye ungesabi ukubonakala ungcikivo, yenza into engangqinelani nemigangatho. Yehla emadolweni phambi kootitshala, beze kwiyunivesiti kwi-blouse kunye nelebula ethi "Masha" okanye "Ndiyinkwenkwezi!", Hlanganisa iqela lakho (kwaye kulungile ukuba awukwazi ukudlala kwi-tamas)? Kulula! Makungabikho mntu owaziyo ukuba uqeqeshwe konke oku kwiincwadi phambi kwesibuko okanye izifundo zokwenza. Zizenzele kunye nabalandeli. Ungayeki ebudeni kunye namakhwenkwe ahlukeneyo, ndixelele apho kwaye uza kuqhuba nobani emva kwesikolo, unike iincwadana zamantombazana i-cupid ngombono ojongene namava. Kodwa ungazibonakalisi njengobhobho wesondo, apho wonke umntu emthandayo, kuya kubangela umona kuphela.
Yiba yingcali kwintlangano yokuzonwabisa. Vumela iingcamango zihambe ngawe: "Uyakhumbula ukuba unqume njani ukwenza ifilimu ngathi sonke? Kwaye ixesha elathi sasixakeke kwi-elevator, kwakubonwabile kangakanani! Kwaye malunga nekhonsathi yale bhanki emangalisayo wasitshela waza wanciphisa iifilimu ezimfutshane! "Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, kufuneka uziphendulele kwisikhungo sokuzonwabisa kunye neqela lezinketho.
Gcina ndawonye. Yenza izithethe ezimnandi (umzekelo, bhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa kwaye uqokelele kwi-oki endala ngoLwesibili), insignia (iifenki, izina lomntu onentsingiselo), iimbali (yenza amabali akho, amahlaya), njl.
Shine! Inkokheli kufuneka , njengelanga, ifudumale wonke umntu kunye nomntu wonke. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kuyo yonke imisebenzi yeziko, bonisa intetho, nxibelelana nabo bonke. Yenza okusemandleni akho, zizukise ngezenzo zakho. Inkokeli eyeke ukukhawuleza ibuhlungu - inkampani ithanda ukukhokelwa ngokuzithemba ngaphambili.
Yaye ukuba ucinga ngako
Uqale ukulibala malunga nemisebenzi yakho yobunkokheli. Isizathu sinokuthi siba - sithandana, senza iyunivesiti, sinomsebenzi okanye sithathwe yizokhenketho. Unomdlalo othabatha ixesha kunye namandla. Okanye mhlawumbi ukhathele okwethutyana ukuba ube yintombazana elula? Ngamanye amaxesha kukufanelekile ukushiya elidala ukunyuka inyathelo eliphezulu. Cinga-ngaba ufuna aba bantu okanye ukuthanda nje kuphela? Ukuqaphela ubungqina obungunaphakade kuyimfuneko kuphela kulabo obathanda ngokwenene. Ukuba awufuni ukulahlekelwa ukuthandwa, yenza umdlalo wakho omtsha ube yi-chip. Xelela amabali amangalisa ngeekholejini, bonisa imifanekiso ekhethekileyo evela kumazwe athile. Vumela wonk 'ubani ukuba i-hobby ilungile kuwe - kwaye nangona ulahlekelwa iintlanganiso ezimbalwa kwaye awukwazi ukuvuyisana nomntu onosuku lokuzalwa, uya kuxolelwa. Ukuba unamandla okwaneleyo, unokwenza, ulungiselele bonke abahlobo bakho ukuzonwabisa ukuze bangaphuthelwa. Kufuneka ulingane nawe ("o, uphelile, uphumelele, ndifuna kanjalo!"), Kodwa akazange akhwele ("Ewe, ndafumana umsebenzi, ndazikhukhumeza kwaye ndalibala ngokusisigxina ngathi").
Kubonakala ngathi emva kwengxolo yohlwaywa awuzange uyiva isandi sakho sobukhosi. Ukugqithiswa kunye nodumo (okanye kwaze kwaba yinto yokuzingca?) - akumangalisi ukuba emva kokuba wakho umva waqala ukucinga ngezicwangciso zokugumbuqela umtyholi. Hlaziya into oye wakwazi ukuyenza ngethuba lokuphazamisa amandla kunye nokuthandwa kwinkampani kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqale ukulungisa iimpazamo.