Naliphi na ibhinqa ubuncinane kanye ebomini bakhe wayenomona ngomyeni wakhe. Oku kwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi, xa kunengqiqo yokuba unokuzichukumisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Kwaye xa kuphuma kwi-paranoia, kufuneka uqale ukulwa nalo. Ngaphandle koko umyeni wakho uya kukuqhubezela.
Indlela yokujongana nomona womyeni wakhe. Impendulo yalo mbuzo ayikwazi ukungaqondakali. Olu luhlu olwandisiweyo lweengqondo zesintu. Bayibo abanikazi beempahla, kwaye abayithandi xa umntu engena kwipropati yawo. Baqala ukulwa lwabo uthando, kuphela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Indlela yenombolo 1. Inzondelelo kwikhaya, elidlula phantse. Ши C C д Cшиши C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Oku, ubonakala ephakamisa ngaphezu kwabaphikisanayo, ngokusemthethweni akakho. Le ndlela yesikhwele inceda umntu ukuba athathele umfazi wakhe, kwaye unika uxhaso olusenyongweni. Ibhinqa kule mzuzwana lixhalabise ngento engeyiyo, kwaye iyaqonda ukuba akukho mntu uyimfuneko kumyeni wakhe. Uloyika kakhulu ukulahlekelwa ngumphefumlo wakhe. Umyeni ngexesha lalo hlobo lomona, omnye uya kujonga ukubonakala kwakhe ukugcina umfazi wakhe ngokulandelayo.
Kule mizuzu, ucinga ukuba xa abanye abantu bekhangela iqabane, ngoko wenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Ши C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C
Inombolo yendlela 2. Ubukhwele obushushu. Ubulala ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo kwintsapho. Ngelixa unokulawula umlingane wakho njengenxalenye yemvume, unokulwa nomona wakhe.
Kodwa, ukuba iqala ukuhamba ngaphaya kwezinto ezivunyelwe, ngoko umfazi unokuqala ukumemeza "Qapha!", Ngaphandle koko umona womyeni awuyi kugqiba umsindo weshwele lomyeni wakhe. Ngethuba lekhwele, akaniki umfazi ukuba adlule, atyunde ubuntwini bakhe, athetha ngawo njengepropati. Le ndlela yesikhwele imithwala ubudlelwane, kwaye ixesha ngalinye liqhubela phambili ngakumbi.
Ши C C C Chor Chor C C Cшиши Chor C C C C C C C C C C C + Ngethuba lomona, indoda iyayika ukukhohliswa, konke oku kuhambelana neuroses and hysterics. Olu hlobo lobukhwele aluyi kunika unyango, luyintshutshiso ye-mania. Indoda kulezi zihlandlo ibonisa ukuba ngubani kunye nomfazi wakhe othandekayo anokutshintsha. Ngalesi sikhathi sokukhweleka, umntu ulungele naluphi na ulwaphulo mthetho.
Kutheni, emva kwayo yonke into, amadoda abe nomona. Konke oku kwenzekileyo kungekho sizathu, kukho into engabonakaliyo yomona. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umona uvela kukungakhuselekanga, kangangokuba abaninzi beengqondo bathi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanomona baya kuba nexhala-ubunzima be-hypochondriac. Kuyo yonke indawo bazama ukuzithengisa, banobugwenxa, bayesaba kakhulu ukuthelekisa, kwaye bahlala bexubisa ingxaki, njengoko bathi, "kwintambo yeendlovu".
Inzondelelo yinto ebonakaliswa ngumntu omdala. Abantu abanobukhwele badinga uhlobo lomama "oza kuba ngonaphakade kubo kwaye asule iingcambu zabo. Ngoko ke, isinyathelo ngasinye sithandwa, indoda iyaqala ukulawula ukuba loo ntokazi ihamba kakuhle, apho kuyimfuneko, le sizathu sokuba nomona ogqithiseleyo. Yaye yonke loo mkhwele ihamba kunye nabasemzimbeni.
Kwaye baninzi banomona, bona ngokwabo batshintsha abafazi babo. Ngoko ke, ngokwabo baze bagwebe abafazi babo, kuba banako ixesha lokuhamba "bashiye", ngoko ke umlingane uthetha naye. Bakrokrela abafazi babo kuzo zonke izono ezifa, ngelixa benza izenzo ezimbi.
Abanye abantu abanobukhwele badibana nabafazi abatshatileyo, kwaye bakhumbula ukuba le nkosikazi ayitshatile ngokwaneleyo. Yaye bangayifumana njani le nto kwicala. Emva koko bayakhumbula indlela odibana ngayo naye, nendlela ozinike ngayo kwintlanganiso yokuqala. Ngoko unokwenza oku kunye nomnye umntu.
Indlela yokujongana nomona? Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala uxolo kunye neqabane lakho, kufuneka ugcine imithetho ethile yokuziphatha kakuhle.
Ungamcaphukisi umlingane wakho kwizinto ezinqabileyo, akumele uhlale ixesha elide emsebenzini.
Gcina lakho iqabane lakho kwizicwangciso. Qinisekisa ukuba ulumkise lakho iqabane xa ulibazisekile.
Gxininisa kwakhona kwakhona ukufaneleka kwayo, nikela ingqalelo. Mxelele ngamazwi amnandi kunye nobumnene, ungakulibali ukukhumbuza ukuba uyavuya kakhulu kuye.
Memeze kunye nabadlali abathandekayo kuphela, amadoda angamaqhelo aqhelekanga.
Ayikho imidlalo yezocanshulo ebhedeni, ukuba ngaba awuzange wenze ngaphambili.
Musa ukutshintsha umfanekiso wakho ngokugqithiseleyo, ngaphandle kokuvuma le qabane lakho. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene into entsha ekubonakaleni kwakho, ubuza umyeni wakho oko akufunayo ukukubona.
Ukuba kuthe kwavela ukuba utshintshe lakho iqabane. Musa ukumxelela ngolu hlobo, nangona akubambelele phantse kwimeko yolwaphulo-mthetho.
Uze ungalibali "Ukhuselo olungcono kakhulu luhlaselo!"
Okona kubaluleke ukuba, ukuba uyazi malunga neempawu zomntu wakho womona, musa ukumvuselela kwakhona. Ukujonga iimvakalelo zakhe ngawe, iimvakalelo zingasayi kuhlala, kwaye ukuhlala kwendawo kuhlala kukho.