Indlela yokukhusela umntwana kumaphupha amabi?

Wonke umntu ebomini uhlangane ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaphupha amabi. Baphupha ngokupheleleyo into, abadala kunye nabantwana abancinci. Abantu abadala, la maphupha athatha ngokuzinzileyo, ekuqaleni kukho izikhumbuzo ezingathandekiyo, kodwa emva kwexeshana yonke into ilibalekile. Abantwana bahlupheke kakhulu iphupha elibi kakhulu. Akunakukwazi ukubona ukuba yiyiphi imeko, kwaye apho iphupha liphi.


Yingakho emva kokuvusa baqhubeka bekhala baze baqale ukwesaba iikati neenja ababeziphupha ngendlela eyoyikisayo. Okanye baqala ukwesaba ubumnyama, ngokufika kwawo phantsi kweemibhede nakubakhabhinethi, iindilo ezahlukileyo ziphuma. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abazali abayidingi ukuxelela umntwana ukuba abantwana abalungileyo abamesabi nantoni na okanye ukuba abafana nabafana abakhulu abayinto enhle malunga nokoyikisayo. Ezi ndlela zobusuku boyikwesaba umntwana akayi kuzinqumla, kodwa ubunzima obungaphantsi buya kufumana lula. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuba uye kwi-psychologist. Kungcono ukuhlalutya usuku lomntwana, kuba nomonde kwaye ujikeleze umntwana ngothando kunye nokunakekelwa. Emva koko, kungcono kunokuba abazali bomntwana abazi ukuba ngubani.

Izizathu zamaphupha amabi

Abaninzi bayamangalisa izizathu zephupha elibi.

  1. Izifo. Umzekelo: umkhuhlane okanye i-ARVI.
  2. Uxinzelelo lwexinzelelo. Iyakwazi ukuhambisa yonke intsapho kwindlu entsha, izihlazo phakathi kwabazali okanye ukufa kwesithandwa se-hamster okanye i-parrot.
  3. Amachiza. Ezinye iziyobisi zingabangela ubuthongo obubi, ziyakwazi ukudala ubusuku obunzima.
  4. Ostroyaniya ukutya okunamafutha. Esi sizathu sibonakaliswe ngabaososayensi ngoncedo lophando, ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa ukutyiwa kokutya okunamandla kunye namanqatha.
  5. Akukho nto. Ukulala embhedeni omncinci, oqinileyo kwaye okhuniyo unzima kakhulu, umntwana, ekuhambeni okuncinci uya kuhlala evuka.

Iingcebiso zokuthintela ukulala

Zonke ezi ngcebiso zilula kubazali abanothando:

Ukuba umntwana usenalo iphupha elibi kwaye waqala ukubiza unina waza wakhala, kufuneka ufike kuye kwi-call yokuqala ukuze uncede. Mxhaphaze, ummbambe. Ukuba unokukwazi ukuthetha ngephupha lakhe, kufuneka ufune ukujika ibali elihle kumbali othakazelisayo ngokuphelela. Vumela umntwana ukuba azive njengeqhawe elikhulu kuye, kungekhona ixhoba. Emva koko ufanele umbuyise ebhedeni, ubanga uze uhlale kufuphi naye. Kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba uya kuza kuhlangula kwaye uya kumqonda.

Into eyona nto ifudumala, inenkathalo, uthando kunye nokuqonda ngokumalunga nomntwana. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukwesaba bonke abantwana kuya kushiya ngaphandle komkhondo kwaye akusayi kusinqoba!