Indlela yokulungiselela iholide?

Ngokuqhelekileyo kunzima ukushiya ibhiziniselwano, kungekhona nje usuku, uthi, usuku olusemthethweni, kodwa ngeeyure ezimbalwa. Amatyala okukhawuleza atyathwa ngokukhawuleza ukukhanya. Kungekudala umhla uya kuqala, kodwa izinto sele zitsho ukuba azipheli.

Musa ukuphumla nobusuku. Awunayo ixesha lokulala, kodwa lixesha lokuvuka emsebenzini. Iintsuku zeCawa nazo zikulungiselela ezininzi izinto eziphuthumayo. Ewe, kunye neTV eneenkqubo ezingapheliyo, iifowuni zichaphazeleka ngeengxaki zezihlobo kunye nabahlobo.

Iingcamango ezingenakucingeka zobomi boshishini lumqhubela kwiimeko zokucinezeleka, izifo. Ngangaphi na unokuva njengesizathu esivela kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabantu, kubantu, abafazi, abantu abadala kunye nabantu abaselula, ukuba abazi ukuphumla. Kodwa akusilo nto. Awukwazi ukufunda indlela yokuphumla ngokufanelekileyo. Kufuneka uququzelele eli holide.

Kule nto, kubalulekile ubuncinane kanye emva kweeveki ezimbini ukucacisa lo mhla wokuphumla, kwaye kungekhona ukuba kuya kuba ngeCawa. Ngokuchasene nazo zonke iimeko ezingxamisekileyo, kufuneka uchithe ixesha lokusebenza. Yinakekele oku kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, ngoko ayiyikumangalela kubaphathi, oogxa nabo kunye nawe.

Ngokuhlwa ufanele ucime zonke iifowuni, iwashi ye-alamu. Ekuseni akukho imfuneko ukuvuka ngokukhawuleza, kodwa akudingekile ukuba ulale embhedeni ixesha elide. Ngaphezu koko, le mini kufuneka icetywe kwangaphambili, ubuncinane malunga. Yintoni oyifunayo ukulungiselela iholide leyo? Okubaluleke kakhulu - ukwenza into entsha, ethembise ixesha lokuzonwabisa.

Ngokomzekelo, unokubhala kwangaphambili kwindawo yokubhukuda. Konke oku kubalulekile ukwenza oku, ukuba le ndawo isemidlalo ihlale isabonwa. Ukuba akukho dama lokubhukuda, ungabhalisela kwiseshoni yokuvavanya kwiklabhu yokuzilolonga.

Ngelinye igama, ngomhla wokuphumla kubalulekile ukubandakanya kwimihlobo ethile yemidlalo. Unokuhamba kunye nabahlobo kwiintlanga, kunye nokuhamba okumangalisayo okuya kukhululeka ekuxinzeleleni kwangaphakathi, mhlawumbi nangaliphi na ixesha lonyaka nakweyiphi na imozulu. Ukukhathala ukuhamba, ukuqhuba kwihostholo yezemidlalo okanye kwigumbi lokubhukuda kuya kunika umphumo omhle emphefumlweni, kunciphise ingxabano yokhathazeka, kunceda ukuvuselela umzimba wonke ngokubanzi, kuya kuba ngamanyathelo amanyathelo ekuphuculeni umzimba.

Kubaluleke kakhulu kulolu suku ukunikela iiyure ezimbalwa kwi shishini lakho ozithandayo, ulibalekele izisombululo zamanzi kwiinkinga zansuku zonke. Mhlawumbi ufunda iincwadi okanye ukugaya, okanye mhlawumbi upheka isitya esiyintandokazi esisebenza ngokumangalisayo xa ixesha lisetyenziswe kuyo, isimo esifanelekileyo somphefumlo, isimo sengqondo esihle.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umculo othulileyo uphawula ngeli suku, eyona nto ibhetele yiklasi. Ungazibandakanyi idwala lakho ozithandayo. Unokuyiphulaphula kwi-cafe okanye kwi-nightclub ngolunye usuku. Ngendlela, iiklabhu zokutyelela, ii-cafes, iivenkile ezikulo mini kufuneka zivunyelwe ngokubanzi.

Kodwa unokutyelela isitolo sakho ozithandayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uthenge into enhle. Kuya kuba yesikhwama esitsha, ityala lefestile yefowuni okanye into enokuyikholisa umphefumlo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungangeni kwikompyutha ngalolu suku, libale nje ngokuhlala kwalo.

Ukuphazamiseka kwiinkxalabo zemihla ngemihla kuya kunceda ukudibana nabahlobo, kunye nokuthula, ukuhlala ekhaya, mhlawumbi, ngeglasi yewayini elungileyo. Ingxoxo elula emva komdlalo webhodi yebhodi, ukubukela iifoto ezintsha okanye ividiyo yombhali kuya kunceda ukushiya ngokupheleleyo ukulahlekelwa kwimihla ngemihla, isimo esicinezelayo esingavumi ukuhamba ixesha elide.

Umqathango womntu olandelayo uza kubonisa iintlawulo zale ndawo okanye ukuphumla okuhlelekile okufanayo. Isakhono sokusebenza sikhula ngokuphawulekayo, emphefumlweni ixesha elide liza kubusa ukuphumla. Okubaluleke kakhulu, yonke ingqwalasela iya kugxila ekuxazululeni iimeko ezibalulekileyo. Yonke into ephakamileyo, engabalulekanga, iya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.

Kuphawulwe ukuba iintsuku ezicwangcisiweyo ngale ndlela zenza utshintsho kubomi bemihla ngemihla yomntu. Uhlala eqokelelwe, aphumelele kwishishini, aphumelele kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke indawo aze afumane ixesha lokuphumla, kwimihla yokuxininisa kakhulu.

Ngenxa yoko isiphetho: ukuphumla okuhlelekile kuya kuzisa ezininzi iinzuzo kumntu kunye nomsebenzi wakhe. Yaye iya kuba nefuthe elihle kwimpilo. Ubungqina bokuba lunokuba ngumbumba olutsha, amandla, abuyelwe ngandlela-thile ubuhle obungenakuqondakala.