Indoda ecebileyo iya kuba nakho ukubonelela nje kuphela, kodwa kunye nabantwana bakho kwikamva. Unokuzinza ukukhupha abantwana ngokuthuthuzela nokuchuma kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba kwixesha elizayo baya kuvula iindlela eziya kumaziko aphakamileyo emfundo. Kodwa ukuba isifo asizange sikuthumelele umntu onjalo ngesitya sesiliva, kukho isicwangciso esikhethekileyo esiya kunceda ukutshata umgidi wezigidi.
Ukubonakala kakuhle
Ubume bomntu, kunye nobume bendoda, kukuba okokuqala ukuveliswa ngokubonakala. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba yiyiphi imigaqo yokuziphatha oyilandelayo ebomini-ukubonakala ngezinye iixesha kuthatha yonke into. Amadoda aphumelelayo ajwayele ukufumana kuphela izinto ezilungileyo ebomini - ukugqoka amawashi axabisekileyo, ukuya kwiimoto ezinqabileyo, ukuba agqoke kwiimpahla ezinamathele. Ngako oko, ecaleni kwendoda enjalo kufuneka abe nguKumkanikazi oqhayisekileyo. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba usebenze ...
Ukuba i-nature ikunikeze ngedatha efanelekileyo yangaphandle, yonke into iya kuba lula. Kwanele kuphela "ukupumbaza" ubuhle bemvelo, ukunika ubuncwane kunye nobuqili. Ukuba awukwaneliseki ngembonakalo yakho, kufuneka ucinge ngeenkonzo zamagqirha eplastiki. Namhlanje, amagqirha asebenza ezimangalisayo kwaye akwazi ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ukwenza intombazane enhle kwiqabane elibi kakhulu. Ukutshata iindleko zemali kunokuba kubi kakhulu, kodwa zonke iinzame zihlawulwa ngemiphumo ephumelelayo.
Imfundo:
Xa unako ukunqoba okhethiweyo wakho ngokubonakala kakuhle, lixesha lokuba uqhelane ngakumbi - iingxoxo. Indoda ithanda amehlo akhe, kodwa ukuba akukho nto inokuyithetha kuyo, akukho mbuzo womtshato. Amadoda athile kakuhle, njengomthetho, aphumelele isikhundla sabo ngobutyebi kunye nobunengqondo, ngoko baninzi banqwenela ukubona ngaphaya kwabo ukuba abanengqondo efanayo, ngoko bumnandi kwincoko intombazana. Ngoko ke, enye yeendlela zokutshata ngumhlawuli-mabhiliyoni okanye kwinto eqhelekileyo kukuqeqesha kakuhle ubuchopho bakho kwiziko elilodwa lemfundo ephakamileyo.
Nangona kukho ukuphazamiseka kwintengqekembe - amantombazana ahlakaniphile anokudala iingxaki ezinkulu kwimbono yabashishini bezakhono abaphumelele kwimicimbi yothando. Bayazi indlela yokuqhuba ngokufanelekileyo abayeni babo abacebileyo ngeminwe yabo, kwaye xa kwenzeka umtshato, kufuneka baphonononge yonke ipenki yokugqibela. Ngoko ke, abanye bakhetha ukungafuni ukuthatha ingozi baze bathathe abafazi babo amahle amnandi, "abayi kuba neengxaki."
Ubudala
Vumelana ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, xa i-press iqhuma ngeendaba ezifana "Umongameli oneminyaka engama-75 ubudala, utshatile umhle oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala!" Kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba lo lunyanisekileyo uthando. Ewe, ipesenti ethile yamantombazana inomtsalane kumadoda asebekhulile, kodwa ngaphandle kwepesenti efanelekileyo yokungathembani apha kubaluleke kakhulu, ngokukodwa kwixesha lethu elinzima "lemali". Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokukhetha "iinjongo" zakho, qiniseka ukuba ayineminyaka engama-50 ubudala. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubhala ingqalelo kungekudala kuphela, kodwa nakwizinto ezithile zomsebenzi okhethiweyo. Ukufunda ishishini lakhe ngamathuba okuba (oko kuvele kwimfundo efunyenweyo). Ukuba emva kweminyaka emininzi yomtshato ovuyoleyo umyeni wakho uchithekile, ke ukunyamekela konke kuya kuhlaselwa.
Khetha amadoda abancinci nabathembisayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, izicelo ezinjalo ziphezulu kakhulu, kodwa ukutshata umgidi-mali akuwona msebenzi olula, ongekho ubuhle bonke obunokujamelana nayo!