Ukuzonwabisa - eli xesha alixakekile, onokuzidela ngokuphepha, kodwa kaninzi asiyazi into yokuchitha kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, sidinga ixesha lokukhulula ukwenzela ukuba ukhenketho kubakho konke ebomini bethu.
Abantu baseMerika baqhuba uchungechunge lwezifundo apho abaphenduli bekufuneka baphendule umbuzo malunga nokwaneliseka kunye nokuzilibazisa kwabo, kulinganiswa kwinqanaba "ngokugqibeleleyo - elibi". Uninzi lwabantu abadliwano-ndlebe babuye banandipha ixesha lokuphumla, inani elifanayo, njenge-100% yanelisekile ngokuzilibazisa kwabo, kwaye bavakalisa isimo sabo sengxubevange. Phantse i-9% yabaphenduli abazange banelisekile ngexesha labo lokuzonwabisa. Kwaye ipesenti enye kuphela ivakalisa ukuzonwabisa kwabo njengento embi. Oku kubonisa ukuba abantu bathambekele ukuchitha ixesha lokuzilibazisa okanye ixesha lokukhulula ngokwabo, ngokwenza oko kuvumela ukuba baphumule umphefumlo nomzimba.
Kodwa ke, kukho amaqela amaninzi abantu abangenanto yokuzilibazisa ingxaki yangempela. Abafazi kaninzi banenkcitho encinane kakhulu, njengoko baqhuba umsebenzi wesiseko kunye nasekhaya kunye nokulima nokukhulisa abantwana. Ukuba siqwalasela abameli beklasi zokusebenza, ke banomsebenzi omningi, kwaye akukho xesha elaneleyo lokuchitha ixesha lokuphumla, njengokuba, ngokwenene, imali.
Abantu abangasebenziyo baninzi ixesha lokuzilibazisa, kodwa bachithe ngokuqhelekileyo ukubukela iTV, kunye nezinye iintlobo zokuphumla. Kwaye ngoko kaninzi kunokuba kungabikho kwemali, kuba ezininzi iintlobo zokuzonwabisa azidingi iindleko eziphezulu, kodwa ngobudenge obuqhelekileyo.
Abahlawuli bemihlala-phantsi banokufumana ixesha elininzi lokukhululeka. Abaninzi babo bayazibandakanya kwizinto ezithandwayo zokufumana izinto, bafumane izinto zokuzilibazisa, bafumane imfundo eyongezelelweyo (abangazange bakwazi ukuyenza ebusheni babo), ukuya kwicawa. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abahlala umhlala phantsi bebethintela ezemidlalo ezisebenzayo, ukuqeqeshwa, kunye nokungafani, emva koko konke, ukuzonwabisa okukhuselekileyo kuloluhlu lwabantu luncedo kakhulu kunomdla opheleleyo kunye nenempilo.
Ukuzilibazisa kunempembelelo enokubaluleka kwintlalo yethu kunye nomoya. Kukho inani elikhulu lophando kulo mxholo. Iimvakalelo ezintle, ezifunyenwe kwiindawo zokuzilibazisa ezintle kwaye zisebenzayo, zichaphazela kakhulu ukuvakalelwa kwintlalo yonwabo.
Impembelelo enhle kakhulu ibhalwe yindlela yoluntu yokuzonwabisa kunye nendlela yokuphila enempilo (ngakumbi-imidlalo). Umsebenzi wezemidlalo kunye nezemidlalo, ngokuthe ngqo kukuchaphazela impilo kunye nokuphila ixesha elide, ngenxa yokuba izazinzulu ziye zenza ingxelo engaphezulu kwesinye. Ukuxhaswa kwezemvelo kwenkxaso yoluntu kunciphisa impembelelo yoxinzelelo. Xa wenza imidlalo (nangayiphi na indlela, ingaba uhamba ngomzuzu-10 ekuseni okanye nayiphi na indlela yokuzivocavoca umzimba).
Ukuzilibazisa kunokuba neefom ehluke ngokupheleleyo, banokuthenga, ukuzonwabisa, ukukhenketho, isondo, ukuzonwabisa ngaphandle, umdlalo wezemidlalo njengobungqina okanye ukuzibophezela kwinkolo. Ukuphulaphula umculo wakho ozithandayo ngexesha lakho lokuzonwabisa kunokuthiwa ukuzonwabisa. Into ephambili ekuphumuleni ngokuphumelelayo, oku kuyimpembelelo yakhe entle kumntu, okholisayo-incedo. Kwizemidlalo, ungabhala eminye imigca - abaninzi bayazi ukuba xa wenza imidlalo yomzimba womntu kuvelisa i-endorphins - i-hormone yolonwabo, eyona nto ibangele i-excluria, uhlobo lwesidakamizwa esingokwemvelo esinika isandi sokonwaba, sinciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye sinciphisa uxinzelelo. Ukuqhagamshelana phakathi kwezemidlalo kunye nempilo yengqondo kuye kwaphandwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngabaosayensi bevela kumazwe ahlukeneyo, kwaye zonke ezi zifundo zikhomba into enye-ukuba bonke abantu abachaphazelekayo kwimidlalo banempilo engqondweni.
Nangona kunjalo, umntu ngamnye uye wajamelana nombuzo ngokuphindaphindiweyo-unokuzikholisa njani ngexesha lakho lokuzikhethela, njani ukuluhlula kwaye uliqhube kunye nenzuzo?
Siyacela - njani ukuchitha ixesha lokuphumla ngokwemveli?
Ukuzonwabisa kungenziwa ngokuhluke ngokupheleleyo, yinto enye kuphela ecacileyo - iphosakele nje ukuba ivuyise. Omnye unokuvuyela usuku lwakhe ukutyelela kwi-massage, i-spa, uhambo lokuthengwa (oku kubaluleke kakhulu kwisondo esilungileyo). Amadoda angaba ngumdlalo kunye nabahlobo kwi-paintball, uhambo lokuloba okanye uhambo oluya kubhola.
Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuziphatha kokuzonwabisa okuthakazelisayo noluncedo, kukho iinombolo zolwazi, ii-posters zangempela-ziya kusinceda senze isigqibo malunga nokukhethwa kwentlalo yokuzonwabisa. Siyabulela ukuba phantse yonke indlu yexesha lethu inomshini kunye ne-intanethi, akufuneki ukubaleka kwizitrato ekukhangekeni kwiposter entsha, tyelela nje "kwiWebhu yehlabathi jikelele" kwaye unqume iminqweno yakho kunye namathuba akho.
Iifowusta ezibonakalayo zilungelelanisa abantu abanentshisekelo ehlukeneyo: abathandi befilimu, abathandi bomculo, abathandi bemidlalo, njl. Kukho ambalwa amaphepha ewebhu apha kwi-intanethi. Apha amanye amaphepha abizwa ngokuba yii-posters, yiveki yeVeki yePosenti yaseSt. Petersburg (okanye nayiphi na idolophu oyifunayo), i-Poster. I-NET, "I-Theater Poster", i-Museums yaseRashiya kwaye ininzi ngale ndlela. Unokwenza nje uthayiphe "isixeko esinjalo, ii-movie zoonobumba (iindiyetha, iminyuziyamu) kunye nezinto ezinje, kwaye injini yokukhangela iya kukunika ezininzi iindawo apho unokukwazi khona ulwazi onomdla kuyo, ufunde ishedyuli kunye namaxabiso, iinzuzo kunye neehosi.
Ukuqhubela phambili kuzo zonke ezibhaliweyo ngasentla, kunokwenzeka ukuxelela ngokuzithemba into enye - ukuzonwabisa kufuneka kube yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini bomntu ngamnye. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba uchitha njani ixesha lakho elikhululekile epakini okanye kwibaladi, ecaweni okanye ekufundeni incwadi, ukutyelela igumbi lokumisa okanye ukukhangela i-blouse ibe yinto encinci ye-spitz, into eyona nto kukuba uyonwabile kwaye uzive uphumule kwaye ujabule. Kwakhona, ngamnye wethu unelungelo lokukhetha umntu ukuba achithe ixesha lokuphumla okanye kunye nabantu abasondeleyo okanye abantu abanomdla.