Kodwa ukuhlala kunye noThixo kukunyanisekileyo. Ngeeyure zethu, umtshato wawungummiselo. I-rite yaba uhlobo oluthile lomboniso karhulumente, kwakhona ukuhamba nokusela. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukukwazi ukuba isinyathelo esinjalo akufanele sibe ngumvuzo kwifashoni, kodwa isigqibo esisisigqibo, esilinganisiweyo, esifanayo.
Icawa ayamkeli kwaye ilawule umtshato, kodwa kukho ukunyaniseka ekubhekeleni kwabantu. Inkqubo yokwenza isigwebo emva komtshato kunye nemvume yokungena komnye umtshato ingenziwa kuphela ngumbhishophu. Ukuze ubhenele umbhishophu ngesicelo sokuhlambalaza nokususa intsikelelo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nomqulu wokuqhawula kunye nawe kwaye akukho mingcipheko ye-canonical yokungena emtshatweni omtsha. Kodwa kwi-Orthodoxy kukho umqobo wokutshata komtshato wesonto - engaphantsi kwemitshato emithathu.
Kukho uluhlu lwezizathu zokuqhuba u-debunking emva komtshato. Kakhulu kakhulu. Ngowe-1918, iCathedral yeCawa yaseOrthodox yaseRussia yabonisa uluhlu.
Isizathu sokuqala nesona sibaluleke kakhulu sokuqhawula isonto, njengoko kubhaliwe kwiVangeli, kukukrexeza komnye wabatshatileyo. Ukuba elinye lamaqela omtshato usuke kwi-Orthodoxy, yatshintsha ukholo lokuvuma. Ukungena kweyiphi na yomtshato umtshato wesibini. Isizathu esihle sokuba i-debunking ayinako ukuhlala kunye, ngenxa yokuzibamba komntu omnye womtshato. Ngokufanayo, isifo esinama-syphilis okanye iqhenqa sinika ilungelo lokutshatyalaliswa komtshato wesonto, izinto ezinokuthi zingekho ngokwemvelo ukuba umntu ulahlekile kwaye ufuna ixesha elide. Esinye sezizathu ze-debunking, ezenzeka ngoku ngokuqhelekileyo, zixhamla kwimpilo nobomi bomnye wabatshati kunye nabantwana. Ukubambisana kunye ne-snohachkie, kwakhona, iya kubhishophu. Ngokufanayo, ukuba omnye wabasetyhini ugula ngengqondo, akayi kuba noxanduva lwezenzo zakhe.
Olu luhlu lweenjongo lusebenza nanamhlanje. Kodwa ngo-2000 olu luhlu luye lwazaliswa nezinye izizathu. Ezi zeziganeko eziqhelekileyo ebomini bethu. Inkqubo ye-debunking inokwenzeka, ukuba omnye wabafazi abagula nge-AIDS, esi sifo siboniswa oogqirha. Esinye isizathu sokutshatyalaliswa komtshato webandla kukugula kwesinye ilungu lentsapho kunye nokuxiliswa kweziyobisi kunye notywala. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ufumane iingcebiso zonyango, kuphela kule siseko ungafumana ukutshatyalaliswa kwalo mtshato. Kwakhona ukuba kususwe intsikelelo, kukho esinye isizathu, kwimbono yam, esona sinyanyekayo kwaye sinoyikekayo, ukuba umfazi ukhipha isisu nokungavumelani kwesigamu sesibini. Iimvume zivumelekile ukuba ukukhupha isisu kubalulekile kwizizathu zonyango okanye ukukhulelwa kuyisongelo ebomini bhinqa.
Ngaloo ndlela, "inkqubo ye debunking emva komtshato" ayikho. Inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato wecawa kukuba uya kunikwa imvume kunye nentsikelelo yomtshato wesibini. Kodwa ngexesha elinye, umtshato kufuneka ubhaliswe ngokusemthethweni kunye namaziko karhulumente. Kule meko kuphela uya kukwazi ukutshata okwesibini. Umtshato womtshato kwi-Orthodox imigaqo ithathwa njengobumbano kunye nohenyuzo, kuthathwa njengesono - ukukrexeza, ngoko imitshato enjalo ayinakutyhweba. Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo emshadweni ongatshatanga - oku sisono esikhulu.
Ukuba ngaba unqume ukuba ubhalise ulwalamano lwakho okwesihlandlo sesibini kwaye ufike kwisigqibo esifanayo sokuvela phambi kukaThixo ngokuxhamla imiphefumlo yakho, kufuneka ucele ukukhangela umtshato wokuqala kwi-Diocesan yolawulo lwendawo kwaye uya kukhuthazwa ukuba uqoke kakuhle kwaye ubhale isikhalazo kumbhishophu. Kunyanzelekile ukuba ube nesitifiketi somtshato emtshatweni wokuqala, umqulu wokuqhawulwa komtshato wokuqala kunye nokugqitywa komtsha. Ukutyelela icawa emva kokuqhawula umtshato womntu owayengumtshato wokuqala akuthathwa njengegunya. Omnye wabatshatileyo unokufaka ifonkment xa unesizathu esingentla.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo malunga nomtshato, khumbula ukuba le sakramente, ekufuneka iqhutywe kuyo yonke yobomi ngaphandle kokulahla. Unamandla ngaphezu komanyano osezulwini akukho mntu uye wakhupha! Ngoku awuxanduva nje kuphela komnye, kodwa kuThixo. Ngoko ke, isimo sengqondo kulo mkhosi kufuneka sibe sisisiseko. Ngokombono wam, akuyimfuneko emva kokupenda kwiphondo. imizimba ngokukhawuleza iya kubaleka kwicawa ize ihlawule isithethe. Mhlawumbi kukufanelekile ukuba uphile iminyaka embalwa emtshatweni osemthethweni, kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuqonda ukuba kwihlabathi lonke liqingatha yakho yesibili kwaye ukulungele ukuthatha uxanduva lomntu othandayo kunye nabantwana bokamva. Cinga ngolu hlobo olunzulu! Intsapho kufuneka ibe nokholo, ithemba kunye nothando!