Ngoko, indlela yokukhetha umtshato ofanelekileyo kumhlobo womtshakazi? Kakade, okokuqala kufuneka unqume ukuba yeyiphi isitala eya kuba yimpahla yomtshato. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba, ngokomzekelo, unqume ukukhetha iingubo zesiJapane kwaye wenze umtshato ngokwemizalwane yaseJapan, ngoko ke iimpahla ezihambelanayo akufanele zibe ngumtshakazi nomyeni kuphela. Kuba intombi zibaluleke kakhulu ukuba zibukeke ukuze zizalisekise umfanekiso womtshakazi. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokukhetha izikhwama zomtshato, kuyafaneleka ukuxoxa ngesi sihloko kunye nomhlobo okanye intombi. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba kukho ithuba lokuba abahlobo bathenge izinto eziyimfuneko. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, ke kungcono ukhethe ezinye iingubo. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umtshakazi namhlanje ubaluleke kakhulu. Ngoko ke, abahlobo akufanele bawusonge. Ewe, akukho mntu uthi bafanele bajonge ngakumbi kunomtshakazi. Kodwa, amantombazana kufuneka kwakhona akhumbule ukuba ngumhlobo wabo osondeleyo owona mthoba wokubhiyozela ngalo mhla, ngoko ke kufuneka badlule kwimvelaphi. Ngoko, njani ukhetha ukugqoka umtshato wesiganeko?
Ukuqala, masiyikhumbule imbali encinane kwaye sifumane ngqo apho esi siko savela khona. Kuyavela ukuba kwiintsuku ezindala, xa abantu bekholelwa kuothixo abaninzi kunye nemimoya, abahlobo bomtshakazi bafanele baxoshe bonke ububi. Baye begqoke ngokugqithiseleyo kwiingubo, ezifana nomnye umfazi wayegqoke ngayo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba, ngoko, umoya ongendawo awuyi kumbona umtshakazi kwaye akayi kuzama ukuphazamisa iholide yakhe.
Kakade, yonke into ishintshile kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Ngoku, abafazi abancinci abafanelekanga ukugxotha ububi. Ngokulula, yiloo ntombazana eba ziintombi zamantombazana, abasondeleyo kwaye bathandekayo. Umtshakazi ufuna ukuba bajikeleze ngolo suku oluvuyayo kwaye oluhle. Ewe, phakathi kwabo kukho umhlobo omdala-umhlobo osondeleyo nomthandayo, phantse udade, lowo umtshakazi uphelele kuzo zonke iintlungu kunye nemihlali. Uhlala emncedisa umtshakazi kwimibhiyozo, emgcoba ekuseni, uqinisekisa ukuba imbobo yomtshato isoloko ihle kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indima yeentombi zikhetha amantombazana angakatshatanga.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu ufuna ukuba mnandi nawuphi na umthendeleko. Ngokukodwa ukuba ngumtshato womhlobo osondeleyo. Kucacile ukuba ngoku kufuneka imfuneko yokuba zonke iintombi zeentombi zisesigqokweni esifanayo, zifana nomfesane. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ukuba iintombi zibaninzi, izambatho zabo mazihambelane kunye. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokukhetha iimpahla, kulungele ukuhlangana ndawonye, xubusha ipalayini ephambili, intsimbi yokubhabhisa, isitayela, ukulungiswa. Akuyimfuneko ukuba amantombazana abukeke ngathi "atyunjwe kumatshini omnye". Ngokulula, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu acinge kunye ukuze umfanekiso wonke ubonakale uhle kwaye uhambelana.
Intombi nganye inokuzikhethela yona ingubo egqibeleleyo. Kodwa uqala ukukhangela isambatho esicwangcisiweyo kunye nesimo saqalayo, kufuneka ukhumbule amanye amanqaku aphambili anokukunceda wenze okulungileyo.
Ngoko, okokuqala, kufuneka uhlale ukhumbule ukuba ubude beengubo zeentombazana kufuneka zidibaniswe nobude beengubo zomtshakazi. Okokuthi, ukuba umtshakazi unengubo emide, awukwazi ukukhathazeka kwaye uthathe ubude. Kodwa ukuba le ntombazana inqume ukuthabatha ingubo emfutshane, ke iintombi zakhe ziya kufuneka zikhethe ezo zibopho, ubude balo abugqithanga ubude bengubo yomtshakazi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuba iyona nto enhle imele ifanele ibe yengubo yomtshakazi. Kwakhona, xa ukhetha ukugqoka, cinga ngoluphi uhlobo lwemozulu oluthenjiswa ngalo mhla womtshato, kwaye uza kuchitha ixesha. Ukuba uyazi ukuba awuhlali phantsi kwaye uthatha inxaxheba kuyo yonke imincintiswano, ngoko kukufanele ukhethe into efanelekileyo ukuba ingubo yakho ayigxininisi ukunyakaza. Ukongeza, ukuba uyazi ukuba umtshakazi kunye nezihlobo zakhe bagcina izithethe ezithile, akufanele ukhethe iimpahla eziza kuphikisana neembono zabo. Kufuneka ukuba uhlale ubala nabanye kwaye ungaze uzame ukubonakala ungcono kunabanye, ngenxa yempahla.
Imibala yokugqoka ingakwazi kakhulu. Kodwa ke, bhetele, khetha ukhetho, ukuzola, i-pastel shades. Zisoloko zihambelana ngokugqithiseleyo nengubo yomhlophe yeqhwa kwaye ungayinqumki amehlo. Kwakhona, musa ukulibala malunga neengubo zokugqoka. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokugqoka umtshato. Kulungile xa isambatho sokugqoka umtshakazi ihambelana neengubo zentombazana. Kule meko, zonke izambatho zibukeka zihambelana, njengento epheleleyo. Ukuba sithetha ngemibala, ngoko unokwenza uhlukahluke kombala ofanayo, ukhetho ngamnye kumantombazana ngumthunzi omfanele kakhulu. Ngako oko, amantombazana akayi kuhlanjululwa kwiingubo ezifanayo, kodwa ke, iingubo zabo ziya kuncedisana kunye nokudala umfanekiso opheleleyo. Kufuneka sikhumbule into eyodwa kuphela - iingubo zamantombazana azifanele zihambelane nomfesane womfazi. Ingubo apho igqoke khona iintombi ziza kugqitywa, kufuneka zihlale zihambelana nezinto ezigqatshelwe kuyo umfazi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umtshakazi unxibe ingubo ephathekayo, intombi zimele zikhethe iingubo ezifana ne-satin kunye ne-taffeta. Kodwa i-guipure kunye ne-chiffon kule meko, kungcono ukuba ungasebenzisi.
Xa amantombazana abonyulwa ukuba abe yinxaxheba yabasetyhini, kufuneka bahlale bekhumbula ukuba ngosuku lomtshato kuya kufuneka baqikelele ngokupheleleyo nomtshakazi, ngoko ke, xa ukhetha ukugqoka, kuyafaneleka ukucinga ngeminqweno yakhe kunye nokuthanda kwakhe.