Le ndlela iyanceda xa ufuna nje ukuthetha nelosi kwaye ufumane iingcebiso ezilungileyo. Inokukunceda xa ungathandabuzi malunga nelosi ekwazi ukukunceda kwiimeko zakho, okanye xa uvakalelwa kukuba kunezithunywa ezininzi ezifunekayo ukunceda. Enyanisweni, lo luhlobo lolungelelwano, olujoliswe ekunxibelelaneni neengelosi ngenxa yokufumana iingcebiso kubo kwimbandela eyakuthandayo.
Isigaba sokuqala. Incazelo yengelosi enokuthi iqhutywe ngayo ingxoxo.
Kule nqanaba, udinga loo nxalenye yeconti ehambelana neengelosi ezinkulu. Kule meko, onke amakhadi akuloo ndawo kufuneka abe kwindawo efanayo (ngokungafani nayo yonke into eyenziweyo, eya kuchazwa kwicandelo lesibini). Hamba udibanise umgangatho, ugxininise ingxaki yakho, ukhethe nawaphi na amakhadi ukusuka phakathi uze uyibeke phambi kwakho. Ingelosi eyinkulu, eboniswa kule mephu, iya kuba nakho ukukunceda ukuzimisela kwaye ikunike icebiso olifunayo.Ngokomzekelo, wakhupha ukusuka ekhadini ikhadi elihambelana neyengelosi enkulu uZakarikil - isithunywa seemfihlo zehlabathi, umgcini weendaba ezivuyayo.
Ekubeni yile ngelosi enkulu "egqibeleleyo" ngokusebenzisa amakhadi ukuba akhulume nawe, oku kubonisa ukuba umnqweno wakho unako ukufezekiswa ngaphandle kwemigudu enkulu kwixesha lakho elizayo. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba usuvele uthathe amanyathelo okufikelela ekuzalisekeni komnqweno wakho, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo awuyazi into awayekhokelela kuyo okanye yintoni eyenziwa ngabanye abantu.
Isigaba sesibini. Ingxoxo kunye nengelosi enkulu.
Kule nqanaba, udinga inxalenye yesibini yedonga, ehambelana nemifanekiso yezithunywa zezulu, imimoya kunye neidemon.Ukubuza imibuzo kwi-ingelosi enkulu "ephuma nawe", kufuneka ukhuphe ikariti ukusuka kwindawo yezithunywa zezulu (ipakethi kufuneka ikhutshwe ngokucophelela ukuze amanye amakhadi elele kuyo ithetha "ingelosi yokukhanya" kunye nentsingiselo "ingelosi yobumnyama" ). Amakhadi owathathayo kwaye uphatha iimpendulo zengelosi enkulu kumbuzo wakho. Emva kwempendulo nganye kumbuzo, ipakethe idinga ukukhutshwa, ngeli gama lijolise kumbuzo olandelayo. Musa ukubuza imibuzo emininzi kwangoko. Zama ukuzama ukwenza imibuzo ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo. Kule meko kuphela ingelosi enkulu ebizwa ngokuba yi-interlocutors ingakunika isiluleko esifanelekileyo nesilungileyo.
Umzekelo:
- Ingelosi enkulu uZerachil, ndixelele nceda, yintoni enye engayenzayo ukuze ndizalise umnqweno wam?
- "Kezef" (ingelosi yentukuthelo).
Ngalolu khadi, u-Archangel uZerachil wathi: "Awuyi kuphinda uyenze into, njengoko sele wenze okwaneleyo, kwaye uzama kwinqanaba lakho ukukhawulezisa inkqubo kunokukhokelela ekubeni ukuphunyezwa komnqweno wakho kuya kuhamba kunye nobunzima obongezelelweyo. Abantu, abajonga ngayo ukuba bathathe izenzo zabo kunye nokuzaliseka komnqweno wakho kuxhomekeke, banokubona ukuba umsebenzi wakho owongezelelweyo awunayo indlela engcono kakhulu kuwe. "
"Ndingathini na?" Lindela nje?
- "UYehoweli" (ingelosi yexesha elidlulileyo, unceda ukutyhila izizathu zeziganeko, izizathu zokuziphatha nezenzo).
Ngosizo lwalolu khadi, ingelosi enkulu uZerachil yathi: "Ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha ixesha lokuba ulinde-kufuneka ube nesineke."
"Kodwa ngaba ndiya kukwazi ukuzalisekisa umnqweno wam?"
- Avdiel (isithunywa sokuzinikela, ukukhuselwa kwexabiso lokwenyaniso, uhlobo lomntu onyanisekileyo).
Kule khadi, ingelosi enkulu uZerachil yathi: "Inqweno yakho iya kuzaliseka. Mhlawumbi, abo bazijonga ngokuba ngabahlobo bakho baya kuncedisa kule nto. Ukongezelela, abayi kwenza oku ngenxa yokuba baphatha kakuhle, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bakholelwa: unelungelo lokufumana oko ufunayo, kunye nokuphunyezwa kwezinto abafuna ukuthetha kunye nengelosi enkulu. "