Izesebe kwigumbi lezingane kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 ubudala

Inomdla womntwana kuyo yonke into emitsha kwaye ingaqondakali yenziwa ukususela kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bakhe. Ngoko ke, ubukho kwikamelo labantwana bezesekeli ezihlukeneyo neziyimfuneko, lunceda umntwana ngokufanelekileyo kwaye unenzuzo kuye ngokwakhe ukuba afunde ihlabathi elitsha nelingalindelekanga. Ngoko ke, abazali, beza ngokulinganayo kunye ngokuchanekileyo ekukhethweni kwezesekeli kwigumbi labantwana, ngaloo ndlela banceda umntwana wakhe ulungelelanise ukuzonwabisa kwakhe. Kwakhona kuncedisa ekudibaniseni izakhono zakhe, ukuphuhliswa kwengcinga kunye nokuzimela. Kodwa apha kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba kwiqela ngalinye leminyaka kukho izinto ezithile kunye nezixhobo ezithile ukuba igumbi kufuneka lizaliswe. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sigqibo sokuba sijonge ngokuthe ngqo kwesihloko: "Izitya zekamelo lezingane kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 ubudala" kwaye ke uncede abazali ekukhethweni okunzima.

Okokuqala, xa ukhetha izakhonkco kwigumbi lezingane kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, kufuneka uqwalasele iimfuno zomntwana kulo nyaka. Ngeli thuba umntwana usenomdla kakhulu, uyaselula kwaye ujabule. Umntwana unomdla kakhulu kwiimidlalo zengcambu ezinokuthi zifane nemifanekiso: intombazana iyidonki, inkwenkwe ngumshini. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kunokwenzeka ukuthenga amathoyizi alolu hlobo. Ukuze le nkwenkwe imodeli eyahlukeneyo yemishini yembala yombala, kunye nentombazana eninzi idonsa. Kunqweneleka ukuba nobukhulu obuhlukeneyo kunye neeseti zezinto kubo. Ngokubhekiselele kumdlalo webali, nalukufanelekile ukufumana iintlobo zeesethi zezingane kumgqirha okanye kwizinwele. Nika ingqwalasela enkulu kumathoyizi kunye nezifundo eziphuhlisa ukucinga kwengqiqo yengane. Ezi ziyikubhite ezihlukeneyo, izibumba zokubamba indawo okanye izixhobo zemidlalo, apho ungadlala nomntwana.

Ukususela kwisiqingatha sesibini sonyaka wesithathu ukususela kwiinkcukacha zegumbi labantwana kuyakufaneleka ukuthenga umyili wezinto zokuqokelela okanye iintlobo zeetekethi zemifanekiso yezingane. Yonke into kufuneka uncede ukuqokelela umntwana naye. Iincwadi kunye nemifanekiso kufuneka zinikezelwe ngabantwana malunga neziganeko kunye namaqhawe asondeleyo kwaye aziwayo kubo. Kulo gumbi labantwana labantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, kubalulekile ukubeka ishalafu sencwadi ngeencwadi ezahlukeneyo, kunye nemifanekiso kunye nemidwebo yentsana, kwaye kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukukhokelwa kweengane zomntwana, omele ufunde kumntwana wakho. Kubantwana beencwadi zokubalabala, bathenge iipenisi zamaphepha okanye amanqaku kwaye, ngaphezu koko, yibambe i-albhamu yokudweba. Oku kuya kuphucula nokuphuhlisa izakhono zokudala zomntwana. Kwiminyaka emithathu, intetho yomntwana isanda kuqalisa ukulungiswa, umntwana uqala ukubonisa iiminqweno kunye neemvakalelo zakhe ngamazwi. Ukuphucula isilwanyana somntwana, uthenge ii-disk ezininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngeqoqo yeethathu.

Sekufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba izesekeli kubantwana abancinci abaneminyaka engama-3 ubudala kufuneka zikhanyise kwaye nceda umntwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba unika igumbi elinamathoyizi athambileyo obukhulu, umntwana wakho uya kuhlala edlala kakuhle kwaye edlala. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuthenga amathoyizi athile ngemiphumo yemisindo: ibhokisi lomculo, ibhere elithethayo okanye ikati edizayo. Kwaye ubeke phezu kweeshefu zezinto ezahlukeneyo ezigxininisa ukucaciswa kwemvelo. Ngokomzekelo, izicelo zephepha elinemibala ngendlela yamaqabunga emithi okanye iintyatyambo, ngenxa yalomntwana uya kuziva ngeemeko zemvelo aze azi ihlabathi elikufutshane naye.

Ngokubhekiselele kwiindawo ezikufutshane kunye neempahla, kuyafaneleka ukuba kusetyenziswe imbala ehlukahlukeneyo: i-palasse eqaqambileyo (umthamo odibeneyo owenziwe ngezinto eziphathekayo ufaneleke kakhulu), amakhethini, izibane. Ngokubhekiselele kwiphepha lokugqibela, isibane sokubamba, esinepeyinti yabalinganiswa bekhathuni - yiloo nto oyifunayo. Ngendlela, xa uneminyaka engama-3 kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundela umntwana ukuba awenze umyalelo, njengoko esi sisona siqinisekiso esiphezulu sekamva lakhe. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukumphoqa umntwana, ukuze emva komdlalo ufihle amathoyizi endaweni ekhethiweyo. Kule nto, faka kwigumbi labantwana ibhokisi lebhokisi lebhokisi lokudlala, apho uya kubabeka khona. Okanye uxhomeke, njengokuba ngoku idibeneyo ngaphakathi kwendawo yokulala yabantwana, ibhasikidi elilengaleleyo leemidlalo. Inokukhethwa njengenkulu (kunye namaqela a-6), kunye ncinane (ngamasebe 2-3). Kwakhona kunokukhethwa kwinqwelo-ngaphandle yangaphandle yokugcina amathoyizi abantwana. Inokubongwa kwaye iquka imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo yabalingisi bekhathuni okanye nje ibe nesimo saso nasiphi na isilwanyana, le bhasikidi ikhululekile kakhulu, kuba inezicwangciso zecala lokuhamba. Ngenxa yale nto, inokulungiswa ngokulula kwindawo efanelekileyo kwigumbi. Ukuba ufuna ukugqwesa kwimvelaphi, ngoko ufuna isifuba esicacileyo, esenziwe ngeempahla ezixakekileyo ngokuzenzekelayo kwimidlalo yabantwana. Le yona khetho engcono phakathi kwezixhobo zokusebenza kwigumbi labantwana.

Ngethuba lokudala umntwana kufuneka afunde ukuhlala etafileni. Ngoko eklasini kuyimfuneko ukubeka itafile yabantwana abakhethekileyo kunye nesihlalo esinomfanekiso obalabalayo ukususela kwiisefile zefenitshala kubantwana. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana ukuba afumane ukuhamba okufanelekileyo. Ibhedi lomntwana linokubhenwa ngentshukumo evuyokileyo kwindlela yelanga, intliziyo okanye intyatyambo, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukukholisa umntwana wakho.

Iifowuni zegumbi labantwana ziya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kwi-encoder encane kubantwana abaneebhola. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba wayekhanyayo kwaye ukhange umdla, ngaloo ndlela athabatha umntwana ukuba abeke izinto apho.

Ukusuka kwezinye iifowuni kubantwana esinokuthanda ukuwabiza ngamafowuni, amakhalenda okanye iipowusta kunye nabalinganiswa bakho bezintandokazi zezingane. Kwakhona, unako ukudibanisa iipuzzle eziqokelelwa nguwe kunye nosana eludongeni, uzifake kwikhadibhodi. Unako ukuxhoma isibuko sabantwana abakhethekileyo eludongeni, isakhelo saso siya kwenziwa ngendlela yezilwanyana ezincinane kunye nabalingiswa bekhathuni. Beka egumbini umbala wokubala obala kunye nophambili. Abantwana bathanda ukulinganisa ukukhula kwabo kwaye banokuyenza yonke imihla. Thenga i-easel yabantwana ukudweba, okuya kunceda umntwana ukuba akhule umculi wenene. Zizo zonke iinkonzo ezilapha ngasentla onokuzithenga kwivenkile ekhethekileyo, okanye wenze ezinye zazo. Khumbula, into ephambili apha ingcinga kunye nobuchule bakho. Emva kwakho konke, igumbi lezingane kufuneka lihlale libalabala, lithandeka, lithandeke, ukuze umntwana wakho abe novuyo lokuba kuyo. Ngoko ke, ngaphezu kwefom yefom yefom yebantwana, kufuneka ixhaswe ngezixhobo ezithandekayo nezokuqala eziza kudala umoya ofana nomntwana. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, siyaqaphela ukuba umsebenzi osebenzayo ophezulu wezesebenzi kubantwana kukuba akufanele kube yinto engavamile kuphela, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo - elisebenzayo.