Izindlela zengqondo: njani ukuba ngumfazi ozimele?

Ukuzimela, ukuzimelela nokuphumelela-oku kufundiswa kwiikhosi kunye nokuqeqeshwa kokucinga okulungileyo. Sagqiba ukuvavanya ukuphumelela koqeqesho kuthi ngokwethu, sihambele ukuqeqeshwa okuqela kwaye saqaphela: ukuze "sihambe ngokuhleka ubomi", kuyimfuneko ... Ncedisa iindlela ezona zingcono zengqondo ukuba ube ngumfazi ozimele.

Yenza i-formula yokuphumelela

Kunzima ukukholelwa ekubeni kukho ukupheka okulungiselelwe ukuzonwabisa. Kodwa ndifuna ngokwenene. Mhlawumbi ke, ndandinomdla wokuqeqesha ukucinga kakuhle kwiziko loqeqesho "iSixeko Klass". Isimemezelo sentengiso esithembisa ukuba: "Umntu osebenzisa isicwangciso esilungileyo asikwazi ukusixazulula nje iingxaki zabo aze aphumelele ebomini babo, kodwa abuye afinyelele phezulu kwiphina ishishini elisebenzayo." Abo banqwenela ukuba "bafike kwinqanaba" kwigumbi lokufundela elincinane bahlanganisene ngokulishumi kuphela amantombazana. "Silindele ngokwenene ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato," ibonisa ukungabikho komqeqeshi wobulili obuqinileyo, uprofesa omfutshane kunye nombono ongenakuqhathaniswa nomgcini weBarmoremore. Amadoda ayeke ngokupheleleyo ukubandakanya ukuzakhela. " Kwaye, ukububula, uphazamisa imibuzo ehlangeneyo: "Iyintoni impumelelo? Yiyiphi into ejoliswe kuyo? "" Andiyazi ukuba yimpumelelo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba umntu ophumelelayo ubonakala ngathi. Lo ngumphathi wam, "- uphendula uNatasha, umqeshwa wenkampani enkulu yomthetho. "Ewe, andiyikungafuni ukuhlala esihlalweni somphathi wam," - uxhasa u-Irina. Omnye wabaphulaphuli, oneminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesihlanu ubudala ophethe i-salon yase-salon, uhlazo uthi umsebenzi omhle awukho konke. Ngokombono wakhe, ibhinqa ayikwazi ukuphumelela ukuba ubomi bakhe bubomi buyatshintshwa. Umqeqeshi ugxininisa, kwaye siyaqhubeka nokuphuhlisa umgaqo-mpu melelo oya kusifundisa umbono obonakalayo kuyo yonke into, kwintlekele. Konke okufuneka ukwenze, khumbula kwaye ubhale phantsi amaxesha xa i-fortune isisondeza ngeenzuzo: ukuphumelela i-Olympiad yesikolo, ukukhusela ngokugqithiseleyo idiploma okanye ukuziqhelanisa nomntu onomdla kwaye uyimfuneko uya kwenza okulungileyo. "Makhe sihlalutye imeko nganye," i-guru yethu ibonisa. Ngaloo mzekelo, umzekelo wokuphumelela kufuneka udibaniswe kwizinto: yiziphi iimeko, izenzo kunye nezenzo ezivumelekile ukufumana inhlanhla ngomsila. Kwaye, ke, ungakulibali ukubhala ukuba iimpawu zomntu kufuneka ziboniswe ngoko. Emva kokuhlalutya amatyala amahlanu okanye amathandathu okuphumelela, kuyacaca ukuba oko sikujwayele ukucinga ukuba yinto ehlelwe yintlonelo enenhlanhla ngokuqinisekileyo yintlahlela yemigudu yethu, kaninzi ayikho nto.

"Ngaba kukho ukungcola? Emva koko bhala ifom yakho eyakhayo ngokukhawuleza, "uprofesa uyacebisa. Kwaye oku kulandelayo: positive = ukuvuleka kwintlalontle + entsha nentlalo? "Iingxenye zefomula ziyimikhomo, ekufuneka kuthathwe ngayo ukuphumelela kwexesha elizayo," utshilo uthi. Ngokombono wakhe, i-formula iyasindisa ixesha elichithwe ekufezekiseni injongo, kwaye ibonisa ukuphuhliswa kweziphi iimpawu ezifanele zihlawulwe. Ukwandisa ukukhuphaza komqeqeshi kusitshela imeko kuye kwindlela yakhe: "Ndineklayenti ochithe ixesha elide lokudala umfanekiso" olungileyo ", ngokulibala ngokupheleleyo ukuba i-skate yakhe ingumntu ongenamntu. Ngokukhawuleza ndamnceda ukuba aqonde oku, kwaye waqala ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokunxibelelana, ukuphelelwa komsebenzi kwaphela. "

• Isishwankathelo. Uqeqesho lweeyure ezintathu aluzange lube nalutho: uhambo oluya kwimpumelelo yangaphambili lwaye lwaphakamisa ukuzithemba. Abathathi-nxaxheba bayamangalisa iifomula abazitholile ngokuphumelela kwabo. Enyanisweni, iifomula zifana kakhulu kunye kunye nangakumbi kwi nyaniso engathandekiyo: "Ukunyamezela nokusebenza konke ..."

• Amava abo. Ngomso olandelayo, intloko yandiyala kwimiba enzima kakhulu, kwaye ekuqaleni ndacaphukisa. Kodwa ke ndayikhumbula indlela yam yokuphumelela, ndazichukumisa ngokwenene kwaye ndijonge ingxaki ngendlela entsha. Wabuya esithintela kwisityiki: -

Fumana i-reference point entsha

Emva komhla oxakekileyo, ngaba uye wabuya ekhaya unomuzwa wokuthi yonke into uyenyamela ngamandla onke? "Ugqwetha lacela umqeqeshi enhle, omncinci oneminyaka emibini ubudala. Abaphulaphuli, abaqulethwe ngabameli abasixhenxe besigxina esihle sabantu, bahlazisa intloko. Kunamahloni, kuba evela kumfundisi ozayo kukho amandla okwesabisayo yomsindo wokuzithemba kunye nentukuzelo eyenziwa ngumntu ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izicwangciso zobomi ezisebenzayo ezibonelelwa ngumbutho woqeqesho. "Ngaba ufuna ukufumana ingqiqo yamandla ngaphakathi kwaye uyiqondise ukuphumeza iziphumo ezifunwayo? Wonke umntu unako ukudala iimeko azifunayo kwaye zifanelwe, "isazi senzululwazi siyaqhubeka sisasaza kwaye sikhombisa ukuba abaphulaphuli bakhethe indawo entsha yokuqala yobomi babo. Okokuqala, umcebisi ucebisa ukuba ashiye emva kwamava adlulileyo, nangona iimeko ezintle. "Kodwa ndihlala ndikhumbula ukunqoba kwam kwangaphambili, kwaye ndinceda ukuba ndifikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo," uyayigubha intloko, intombi egama linguTamara, inkosikazi yeBalzacian yobudala kunye nobunwele obuncinane, uTamara uthi utshanje iphupha lobomi bakhe - wavula yakhe indawo , kwaye ngoku ufuna ukwenza isikhungo sokuqeqesha nge-breech. "Kulixesha elingakanani uceba ukuyisebenzisa ukuze uqonde injongo yakho?" Ucela umqeqeshi wakhe. I-Tamara i-shrugs yamagxa akhe: "Akukho ngaphantsi kweminyaka emibini." Utitshala uyamemeza ngenyameko: "Sitshengiswe nje amandla okubhabhisa amava adlulileyo. Emva koko, iTamara yoqeqesho iyakwazi ukuvula ngenyanga. Kodwa yena ngokwakhe wayezicwangcise ixesha elide. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokukhumbula ukulibaziseka kunye neemeko ezingalindelekanga, ezijongene nazo, ukuvula i-salon. Kodwa ngubani othe ukuba baya kuba njalo? "Umqeqeshi uchaza ukuba bonke ubomi bethu senza nje oko senza izinto zokuziphatha, sigxininise oko bekukho. L ufanele uqale imihla ngemihla nge-slate ecocekileyo. "Ukuqala nayiphi na ishishini, zixelele: ukuqala kwam, kwesi sihlandlo esithile kule ndawo ethile," kutsho umcebisi. Ngokutsho kwakhe, le ndlela isebenza kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi. Kwaye kubandakanyeka kubomi. "Ulonwabo ngamanye amaxesha kuphela inyathelo elilodwa, kungekho enye iwaka," umqeqeshi uyaqhubeka kwaye unikela abaphulaphuli isabelo sokuhlaziya yonke imiyalelo yangaphakathi yokukhulelwa ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka kumava adlulileyo. Le yindlela yodwa yokukrazula ukungabikho komsebenzi okwenziwe kwiminyaka edlulileyo, kwaye ukuxabisa amandla akho ngokufanelekileyo.

Funda ukuthetha

Ngokwemvelo, abantu abangakwazi ukuthetha ngokubhetele kunokuba abanye baphumelele kakhulu, abazi ukuba kungenakuqinisekiswa okanye ukunyaniseka, umqeqeshi uyaqhubeka. Ukunxibelelana ngempumelelo kukubalulekileyo kwi-100% emihle kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi. "Qhubeka ukhumbula engaphantsi kwegama elithi" ncokola "andiyi kuthetha" ukuthetha "ngandlela-thile, utitshala uyalumkisa. Abanye bathetha kakuhle, kodwa bathetha ngokunyaniseka. Siyaziwa ngamanani kwaye: ngokwenene amagama, umxholo wabo ngowona-1/6 kuphela wenani loqhagamshelwano. Yaye ubunzima bento ebizwa ngokuba yinto engabonakaliyo: isenzo, isithuko, izwi lezwi, ukuthambekela kwentloko, - ininzi ye-5/6. Emva koko sibonakaliswa ubuchule obuvumela ukuba oku kungabonakali kwaye kulawulwe. Kubalulekile ukuphawula iimpawu ezincinci zokuziphatha komnxibelelwano: ukuthambekela kweentloko, ukunqunyulwa kweentloko, ukusetyenziswa kwamagama athile. Emva koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungene kwihlabathi lomnye umntu, ufana naye, ungene kwindawo yakhe. Emva koko, umnxibelelwano uqala ukufumana inqanaba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuthembela kuwe, ukuthetha kwakho kuya kuba ngakumbi, -uqeqeshi uthi. Ngaloo ndlela, ujikelele intshaba kumhlobo. Ngaba oku akusiyo isizathu sokujonga ubomi ngobomi