Inkxalabo yokukhetha isipho intombazana ayikho ekunciphiseni kwamathuba, kodwa ngokuchasene nayo - ekuninzi kwabo. Ukubeka nje, ingxaki ebalulekileyo yokukhetha isipho esipheleleyo kukuba a bafazi bafuna kakhulu, ukuthanda kwabo kuyintlobo eyahlukeneyo, kwaye ukukhethwa kukho kuhlanganisa yonke into. Ngokukodwa ubunzima obufana nomgangatho wesifazane wenza ukhetho lwesipho sokuqala. Emva koko, akafanele nje nje intombazana, ibe ngumqondiso wezobudlelwane kunye nomnikeli, kodwa ukhunjulwe njengento engalindelekanga. Nangona enendima yakhe yinto, eyayikude ephuphayo.
Ukuqala kwesipho akukhoyo.
Ufuna ukuphazamisa intanda yakho, iqabane lakho okanye intombi yakho nesipho esingavamile, akufanele ukhethe into ayicinga ngayo njengesipho, kodwa uya kuvuya nayo. Emva koko, izipho zokuqala zentombazana ziya kuthathwa njengolu hlobo kuphela kwimeko yokuba akukho bani wabanika ubani ngaphambili. Ukuba unqwenela, isetyenzisi esingabalulekanga sinokuthi singabi ncinane, ukuba uyifake ngokungavamile okanye uyilungiselele kwifom engekho phantsi.
Umgaqo oyintloko xa ukhetha isipho sokuqala kwintombazana akuyi kulubala iimbono zakhe ezide. Ibhinqa kule ndawo ilula kakhulu kunomntu: uyathanda ukuthetha ngamaphupha akhe, yenza njalo, kodwa phantse njalo ekhombini. Yingakho iingqondo zengqondo zingapheli ukuphindaphinda: lowo owaziyo ukuphulaphula kuphela umfazi, kodwa ukuva, kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu-ukuyiqonda, uya kukwazi ukukhetha isipho esinesisiseko kuye kwimizuzu embalwa. Emva koko, kule nyathelo, eneneni, akukho nto inzima, kuba isipho esikhethiweyo ngokwezwi lesifiso se ntombazana siya kuba yinto engenaye emgangathweni, ukuba kuphela loo mntu uya kumnika ubungqina bokuthi uyayithobela amazwi akhe. Yaye le nto nayiphi na intombazana-eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, isoloko ingalindelekanga, ehle kakhulu kwaye ayikhunjulwe isipho.
Ukuba izipho zinikezelwa kwintombazana ekuqaleni, ngoko ziya kuba zizinto ezingenanto. Kuyafaneleka kuzo zonke iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, okuyiyo kuphela ingcinga yabantu. Ukunciphisa isipho kwintambo yegolide ukusuka kumgangatho ophezulu. Ukuyifihla endlwini kwaye ubeke emacaleni amacandelo amanqaku amnceda amfumene, ahlule isipho kwiindawo kwaye alungiselele umyalelo wendibano yayo.
Ukhetho oluqhelekileyo lwesipho ngokwaso.
Ukunika ibhinqa iholide yindlela emangalisayo yokumangaliswa. Kodwa ukuba ufuna, isipho ngokwayo sinokuqala. Kuphela nje indoda okanye umntu oza kuchitha ixesha angayi kuphuhlisa isicwangciso esicacileyo sombonakaliso wakhe, kodwa ukuphanda iimveliso zesixeko sakhe efuna i-gizmos engavamile. Ukuphela kwesipho sesintombazana ngokuthe ngqo kuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye nokulindelwa kwezipho.
Ngamanye amaxesha isethi elula yeepensele kunye ne-easel nayo ingabi yinto encinci - ukuba ixesha lokutshintsha liyabonwa ebomini yintanda, kwaye akakwazi ukugqiba umsebenzi wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Okanye, ngaphandle kokuba ukhononda ngokungahambi kwinto yokuzonwabisa ebomini, unokunikela ngeesethi eziliqela ngokukhawuleza ukuba amfumane umdlalo: ikhamera okanye i-albhamu yesithombe, isethi yokutsala, isicatshulwa sakhe sokuqala sokubhena, njl. Ukuba umzuzu wokubonisa isipho ulandelwe ukuxabana, unokubonisa into engumfuziselo, kodwa engalindelekanga: i-tomahawk yokuhlobisa ukuzondla inzondo, ukuxelisa umlenze ukuze ujezise umthandi okhohlakeleyo okanye udibaniso lwemidlalo yothando. Kodwa apha kuyimfuneko ukugcina unonophelo olungakumbi: intombazana kufuneka iqonde ngokucacileyo intsingiselo yesipho kwaye ibe neqondo elihlaziyileyo.
Kungekudala, kukho iindibano ezidumile kakhulu njengezipho zokuqala zintombazana. Ewe, kulungile kwaye, ngokungangabazeki, ukhuselekile. Ukuba i heroine yebhola ingahlola ngokuchanekileyo umzamo otyalomali kwi-rally kwaye uqinisekisiweyo ukuba awuyi kukhubekiswa yelenqe, ngoko usebenze ngolo hlobo. Kodwa xa kungcono ukulungelelanisa intando yakhe yintando ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwintando yakhe kwindlalifa enkulu. Angazalwanga okwamanje ngumfazi ongafuni ukuba intanda yakhe inikwe amandla angavamile. Ngoko kutheni ungabonakali phambi kwakhe kwi-suit of man's spider-man, umqhubi okanye i-vampire ukusuka kwiinkomfa zakho ezizithandayo zeTV. Iingubo zentombazana ngokuqhelekileyo zilungile kwaye, ubuncinane, isipho esasisiseko.
Umgangatho ongaqhelekanga.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokwayo ukuvela kwesipho sithandwa - ingcamango ayiyodwa. Emva koko, wonke umntu onothando okanye umntu ufuna isipho sakhe kuye, yedwa, ukuba yiyona nto ingalindelekanga, ayikhunjulwayo kwaye ayiyonto. Ngako oko, izipho zokuqala zide kwaye ziqala, kunzima ukubiza ngenxa yokugqithiswa kwazo okungaqhelekanga kunye nokuzaliswa okungapheliyo kwe-intanethi kunye neendlela ezintsha zamadoda.
Ngoko, namhlanje kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabhalanga iziphi izipho zokuqala, ezazisetyenziswa ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo amantombazana kwaye ngenxa yoko zawela kwiqela elingaqhelekanga "le-classic non -vivial gizmos". Okokuqala, oku kubizwa ngokuthi "uphondo lwesipho": isipho esineenkcukacha ezili-10 okanye ngaphezulu ezincinane - ipenki, ipensela, i-flashlight, i-oilcloth raincoat ukuyikhusela imvula, ingxowa yengane, ikhandlela zekhandlela kunye nezinye izinto ezincinci ezinokuthi kwaye angangeni kwisisombululo kwintombazana ebomini bemihla ngemihla, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ithwala intsingiselo ethile. Esi sipho ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka sichazwe ngokubanzi. Okanye kufuneka isetyenziswe ngqo kwiholide leentombazana: umzekelo, ukugqoka kwi-bib kunye nentonga yesana kunye nokumondla ikhekhe ngepuni xa unokuzalwa.
Okwesibini, ukunikezelwa akusiyo isipho, kodwa ukuzaliseka kweminqweno. Oko kukuthi, intombazana ayifumana into ethile, kodwa ithuba lokuchitha ixesha ngendlela afuna ngayo ixesha elide. Le nto ingaba yikhadi lemali ethile yokuthenga kwisitolo sakho esithandayo, isitifiketi sokuya e-spa elite, i-sauna, i-beauty salon, njl njl njl, okanye ithikithi ekusebenzeni ixesha elide kulindibano, i-cinema, iklabhu. Akukho zithintelo kwi-assortment yezi zipho. Kodwa kukho umgaqo wegolide wokhetho lwakhe olufanelekileyo: kufuneka afake iphupha elidala le ntombazana aze ahlangabezane nokulindela kwakhe.
Okwesithathu, i-gizmos yesiqhelo sesimo esingavamile: i-ambulula ngendlela yentliziyo, inqaku leenkcazo zebhokisi yengcebo ebuncwane, ibharrette enobuso obudumileyo, umfanekiso obonisa i-heroine ngokwayo indima ye-queen, unkulunkulukazi okanye i-superhero ye-cinema ethandwa. Apha, ukhetho lukhulu kakhulu: ukusuka kwisikhuni esichukumisayo sefowuni epholileyo ephothiweyo, kudonsa ekhangeleka kakhulu njenge heroine yeholide. Okanye ubani onika le doll kuye.