Akunakwenzeka 'ukudliwa' ngokuqhelekileyo kwimicimbi yasekhaya?
Ubomi bufutshane, uhambo lwayo luyingozi kakhulu, kodwa unokwenza okuninzi! Okukrakra ngokukhethekileyo, xa kufuneka uchithe ixesha elide kwimihla ngemihla, uphindaphinda rhoqo ngemini, umsebenzi wesikolo ongapheliyo. Ngokweengcali, inxalenye yesithathu yexesha lethu lokusebenza lichithekile, kwaye, kungekhona emsebenzini kuphela, kodwa nakwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Kwaye ke thina ngokwethu siyazisola ngeemeko kwinto yokuba asikwazi ukulungelelanisa imisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye yonke into ihamba ngexesha. Ngaba le pateni ingaphulwa? Kuye kwenzeka ukuba oku kusemandleni ethu. Yintoni efunekayo kule nto?
Kulula - qala ukucwangcisa yonke imihla. Ziqeqesha ukuba uqale ukucwangcisa imisebenzi yakho elandelayo. Yenza isicwangciso sephepha lokukopela. Oku kuya kuthatha ixesha elincinane, kwaye ukuphumelela ekugqibeleni uza kufumana kwizenzo ezicwangcisiweyo kuya kuba kukuphakanyiswa. Zibuze umbuzo olula: "Lihamba phi ixesha lam?" "Kungenokwenzeka ukuba, ixesha elininzi lichithelwa nguwe ukubukela imiboniso yakho yeTV kunye nemiboniso yokuthetha, ukuthetha nabahlobo bakho kwifowuni okanye ukuthetha kwinethiwekhi yentlalo. Musa ukuphazamisa ukubeka izinto ngokufanelekileyo kule ndawo. Kutheni ungaqali ukubukela iifilimu zekhwalithi eziphezulu kwaye uphathe isantya sentsingiselo? Kwaye inxibelelwano kwifowuni ithathelwa indawo yintlanganiso kunye nomhlobo ngeveki kwi-cafe.
Uqhagamshelwano nabantwana.
Oomama oqeshwe rhoqo bahlala bekhala: "Uphi ixesha lokufumana umntwana? "Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba ubhala ingqalelo kakhulu kubantwana ngenxa yeshedyuli yobomi obunzima, sivuyiswe. Okokuqala, kuthetha ukuba ungumama omhle. Okulandelayo, musa nje ukuchitha ixesha kwi-self-flagellation, kodwa kunoko sebenzisa inyaniso elula - kubalulekile kungekhona inani loqhagamshelwano nomntwana, kodwa umgangatho walo. Nangona emva kokuchitha iyure nomntwana, unokusombulula iingxaki ezininzi zemfundo ezixinzeleleyo. Zonke iingxaki ezinjalo azikho ngexesha elingekho, kodwa eqinisweni ongazi ukuba ungayisebenzisa njani ngokufanelekileyo ukulungiselela ibhizinisi kwaye ungabonakali kuwo.
Ukupheka.
Emva koko kuza umbuzo wokupheka. Ngoko, uchitha ixesha elingakanani ekuphekeni? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ikhishini lakho lixhotyiswe ngayo yonke imfuneko yendlu, uchitha ixesha elide kuyo. Ngenxa yoko, le ngxaki kufuneka iqwalaselwe.
Akuyimfuneko (kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele) ukubeka yonke intsapho yakho ngokutya okungekho nto ngeemveliso ezigqityiweyo okanye ekudleni. Akunjalo! Khumbula: kungcono ukuchitha ekhitshini iiyure ezimbalwa kwiintsuku eziyi-3-4 kunezityalo apho iiyure ngosuku. Uncamela ukulungiselela ukutya kwiindawo ezinkulu. Lungisa oko kuza kulandela emva kokufudumala-kwaye ukutya kukulungele. Ezi izitya ezifana neklabishi, i-cutlets, i-stewed imifuno, i-pilaf, i-meatballs xa ifudumala ayiyi kulahlekelwa yimpawu ezifanelekileyo kunye nebala, kwaye uza kusindisa ixesha elininzi. Zama kwakhona ngokuhlwa ngokuya kwi-nalpit ezininzi zokulahla okanye i-varenki, bhaka ama-pancake ahlukahlukeneyo ngokugcwalisa okuhlukeneyo kwaye ulungele. Ezi mveliso zigcinwe ngokupheleleyo kwifriji. Ngoko ngokuhlwa nje kuphela echithwa ekhitshini kunokukunceda nje kuphela kumbuzo oqhubekayo "Yintoni ukupheka? ", Kodwa kunye nesidingo sokupheka imihla ngemihla.
Ukucoca indlu.
Abasetyhini abaninzi bakhetha ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya ngokwabo. Bakhohlwa ukuba abantwana kunye nomyeni banamalungu alinganayo entsapho. Yabelana nje ngeengxaki zakho kunye nabo. Buza ukuba bancede uhlambe izitya, usule uthuli, ukhuphe inkunkuma, utshise iintyatyambo, uhambe inja, uhlambe umgangatho, njl. Ngaphezu koko, ekubeni umsebenzi wasekhaya kubantwana ukususela kwiminyaka emihlanu isigqibo somsebenzi wemfundo.
Kuthiwani ngomyeni? Ukuba akenzi nto ekhaya, ngaphandle koxanduva lwakhe lomntu - usanda kuluqhawula, le yiphutha lakho. Makhe abe nethuba lokubonisa amandla akhe. Ngaphandle koko, ukusebenzisana ngokusingqongileyo kwindlu kungeyikukunceda kuphela ixesha lokulondoloza, kodwa kuya kuphakamisa imizwa, ukuhanjiswa kwintsebenziswano yentsapho, kukufundisa ukuba uxabise umnikelo welungu ngalinye losapho kwisinye sezizathu ezifanayo. Abafazi abathandekayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sizithande, sixabise ixesha, vumela! Yenza yonke into ngokufanelekileyo ukuze ungabi nokuphinda ukhawuleze kwakhona: "Ndiyayizonda umsebenzi ojikelezayo kwindlu - le nto iqhubekayo kwaye inyanzelekile! "U