Ukuhamba nomntwana

Kuba nayiphi na umntu, uhambo olude olude luhlala luvavanyo. Ngomntu omncinci oku kunzima kakhulu. Amandla akhe angenakuphikiswa kuya kuba luvavanyo olukhulu kubazali kwaye ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bakwazi ukuyiqondisa ekudalweni, kungekhona ukutshabalalisa. Xa sihamba nomntwana, kubalulekile ukuba silungiselele kwangaphambili uhambo kwaye sicinge ukuba yintoni enokuyenza eluhambeni olude.
Uxolo luphupha kuphela.
Ukuqala, unokumnika umntwana umdlalo "kumqhubi wecala", ukumnika ivili lokudlala. Vumela umntwana aphenduke, aphule kwaye aqhube phambili kunye nomqhubi.

Ukuba kufuneka uchithe iiyure ezimbalwa endleleni, ungalindelanga ukuba umntwana uya kuhamba uhambo olulodwa ukuya kwelinye into, nangona enomdla kakhulu. Kufuneka ube neenketho ezininzi. Uncedo oluhle kwindlela ende yokupenda. Ukuba umntwana uyathanda ukubukela imifanekiso, ngoko unako ukubeka amaphephancwadi ngeencwadi zoonwabo. I-toy entsha engaziwayo emotweni, efihliweyo kwimoto, iya kunceda ekujonganeni namaxesha anzima kakhulu: yonke into entsha ibangela umdla omkhulu.

Ukuba awusemva kwevili, ngoko ungayichitha uhambo olulungileyo kunye nomntwana. Oku kuya kunceda ukwanelisa ukunqwenela umntwana ukuba aqaphele, kwaye indlela iya kubonakala ibe mfutshane. Ukuba awuqali ukuxelela, i-kid iqinisekisiwe ukukuzalisa ngenani elingenamkhawulo lemibuzo "yintoni", "apho", "kutheni" kunye "nantoni na." Ukongezelela, ukubonakala okutsha kuya kunika umntwana ukutya okucingayo aze ahlale ethule ngethuba elithile.

Ukujamelana nokunyamezela kunye nenkululeko engaphelelwanga yokuhamba ngexesha lohambo luncediswa yimisebenzi ehlanganyeneyo njengetyss, i-checkers okanye imidlalo elula yokucinga. Abazali bafanele bahlale bekhumbula ukuba umdlalo ngowona ndlela elula kakhulu kwaye inomdla wokwazi umhlaba ngomntwana.

Ukukhuthazwa okukhulu kubantwana abaninzi kukufunda izibongo. Ungalibali ukumdumisa. Ingoma evuyayo, ecula kunye nomama, iya kuphakamisa ngokukhawuleza imvakalelo yengane engathobeliyo.

Sihlakulela endleleni.
Uhambo olude lubonelela ithuba lokuqeqesha umntwana. Naka ingqalelo kwizinto ezizungezile, izakhiwo, izilwanyana, njl. Inomdla kwimimandla kunye nokukwazi ukufikelela kwizigqibo kuya kufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe ngendlela yoluntu.

Ncedisa umntwana ukuba abonise ingcamango yakhe, mfundise ukuba afumane izinto ezithakazelisayo ezinokubonakala ziphazamisayo ekuboneni kuqala: ukucinga komntwana kuya kuba lula ukuguqula isitrato esiphezulu kwisitimela singene kwindawo yokukhusela ngasese, kwaye uqeqeshwe kwi-space space.

Khu seleko.
Ekugqibeleni, ndingathanda ukukhumbuza abazali ukuba nayiphi na uhambo, kwaye ngokukodwa kwimoto, ibangela ingozi enkulu ebomini nasempilo yabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kulolu hambo. Yingakho kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana kwimithetho ethile yokuziphatha emotweni. Okokuqala, umntwana oqhelekileyo ngexesha lokunyakaza ukuba abe sisihlalo esikhethekileyo sabantwana. Ukuba udala ngokwaneleyo, kufuneka aqhubeke esebenzisa ukukhutshwa komntwana okhethekileyo: isihlalo sokuhlala kunye ne-adapter belt seat. Cacisa umntwana ukuba impilo yakhe nempilo kuxhomekeke kulo, ukuba akukho mntu uhlaselwe ngengozi ezahlukeneyo endleleni. Kodwa ukunciphisa imiphumo yabo ubuncinane kwimandla ethu.

Qiniseka ukuba wenze izithuba zokuphumla. Umntwana uhlala ehlala kwindawo enye, amandla akhe angafunekiyo adinga ukuhoxiswa. Kucetyiswa ukuba uhlele ishedyuli yakho yokunyakaza ukuze zonke iiyure eziyi-1.5 ukuya kweyesi-2 wena nomntwana unethuba lokuhamba, welula izandla kunye nokubuya. Qinisekisa ukubeka umgaqo - yonke ishishini lakho lwenziwa ngexesha lokucima. Ukuba unemephu, unako ukuphawula kunye neendawo zokuphumla. Ngoko kuya kuba lula kuwe ukwenza uhlengahlengiso kwindlela.

Ukuqwalasela ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka, ukuhamba nomntwana uya kuthokoza kuphela.

UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza