Uninzi lwabasetyhini lufuna ukuqhubeka nokwenza uthando ngexesha lokukhulelwa ngaphandle kwemimiselo, kodwa abaninzi babo abazi indlela yokujamelana neengxaki ezintsha kwaye bangalimazi umntwana. Khumbula ukuba ngaphandle kwezesondo ezikhuselekileyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kukho ezinye iintlobo zesondlo phakathi komntu kunye nomfazi: umzekelo, imivumbo eqhelekileyo okanye imivimbo. Nika omnye nomnye uthando kunye novuyo rhoqo njengoko ufuna!
Abantwana bokomva, nabo, bafumana zonke iintlobo zenguqu kwiimeko zabo zesini - ukusuka ekuvuyiseni ngokugqithiseleyo ekubonweni kwakho kunye nokuthulula isifuba kwiimvakalelo zikayise kunye nokwesaba ukulimaza umntwana (okwazi ukuphelisa ngokukhawuleza ukutsala). Kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngenyameko yonke imiba echaphazelekayo-kokubili ngesondo ekhuselekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kunye nekamva lakho lomzali. Ungakulibali kwakhona ukuba, ngenxa yenguqu emzimbeni wakho, i-caresses kunye nezenzo ezonwabileyo namhlanje zingabangela ukungonakali ngeveki.
First Swallows
Impawu zokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni, ezifana nokugula kwasekuseni kunye nentlungu yesifuba, inokupholisa ukunyaniseka kwakho ngokwesondo. Ngaphakathi kwakho, umntwana ukhula, i-placenta yenziwa, ngoko inxalenye yamandla omzimba wakho isetyenziselwa ukubonelela ezi nkqubo. Ukuhlawulwa kwezi ndleko zamandla kuya kunceda ukuphucula ukufaneleka, kunye nokuzivocavoca umzimba, okubandakanya isondo. Kwizigaba zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ezininzi izibini zixhalabile ukuba ukungenelela kwisini somama ozayo kungabangela ukukhulelwa kwesisu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba le nto ingangenangqondo, abanye abantu bayesaba ukuba ngokwenza "oku" banokumtyhola baze bamlimaze. Qinisekisa umthandi ukuba umntwana ukhuselwe ngumlomo wesibeleko, kwaye i-amniotic fluid idala igobolondo ethembekileyo ejikeleze kuyo, apho iibhaktheriya zingenako ukungena. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa kungenxa yokungaqhelekanga kwe-chromosomal okanye ezinye iingxaki zokuphuhliswa kwe-fetal ezingaqhelekanga ezihambelana nemisebenzi yakho yesondo. Kwenzeka ukuba izibini ezitshatileyo "zisebenze" ekukhuleleni umntwana, emva kokufezekisa injongo, isondo silahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwayo kunye nokufuneka. Ngokwengqondo, oku kubangelwa kukuba umzimba ufuna nje ukuphumla kwesikhashana "kulo msebenzi".
Honeymoon
I-trimester yesibili inokuthiwa ngokukhuselekileyo yeso sibini sesithandwa se-honeymoon kubafazi abaninzi-isisulu se-nausea sesisasa, sitshintsha kwisifuba siphume kwaye siyeke ukuphazamiseka okufutshane, ngokufutshane, usebenzise ukukhulelwa. Kwisifuba sakho kunye nezinye izitho zenkqubo yokuzala, ngoku kukho ukuhamba okukhulu kwegazi, ngoko i-libido yakho inokunyuka kakhulu, kwakunye nokukwazi ukufumana i-orgasm. Kodwa kukho ukuphazamiseka kwingqekembeza: kweli nqanaba, ukuphuma kwamanzi omncinci kubangelwa. Xa umntu evuselela umlomo wesibeleko ngeepenis, inani elithile legazi liyakwazi ukuphuma, elihlala liphazamisa amaqabane. Ukuba konke kulungelelaniswa, ukuphuma kwamanzi kungabonakali kwaye kusinya kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ekukhutshweni kancinci kubangelwa ukuthetha nogqirha.
Hlala luhle!
Zijonge, uhlawule ngokukhethekileyo kwiindawo zomzimba ezingaxhomekeke kwimeko yakho entsha: unakekele ubuhle beenwele, uququzelele ulusu, u-manicure kunye ne-pedicure. Khetha ngokukhethekileyo iingubo zangaphantsi: kufuneka kube ngumgangatho ophezulu, inkxaso kwaye ungayifaki isifuba, kuyakhangeleka ukujonga. Ngemva kwemini, gqoka imveliso elula eyenziwe kwizinto eziphathekayo, kwaye ngokuhlwa, khetha i-fishnet yamapopu kunye neT-shirt - into oyithandayo iya kuyayixabisa!
Ziziqhenyce ngesisu sakho!
I-crumb ekugqibeleni ibonakalayo - iifom zakho ziba zijikelezileyo, ngexesha le-ultrasound kukho amathuba okukhetha isondo somntwana oqala ukufaka kwisibeleko sakho. Kungoku ngeli xesha ukuxhulumana kwengqondo phakathi komama ozayo kunye nosana lukhula luqina. Nangona kunjalo, asifanele sikhohlwe ukuba umama kufuneka, njengaphambili, ahlale esondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bafumana ukungquzulana kwangaphakathi kunye neengcamango zokuthi "umama-wesifazane" kunye "nomthandi wesifazane." Ukuthetha ngenyameko ngamava afana nawo, kwaye ukuba oku akunakunceda, cela uncedo kwi-ingcali. Abaninzi abafazi banqwenela ukwenza uthando, kuba kubo, ukuziphatha ngokwesini kuhambelana ngokuvisisana. Umbutho wenza amaqondo ethu umfanekiso womzimba ococekileyo, osele ubuhlungu ubude neendlela eziqhubekayo zoomama abalindeleyo. Khumbula: ngoku uthando lomzimba wakho luyinxalenye yokunyamekela umntwana wakho ozayo.
Harbinger ngommangaliso
Okukufutshane nomhla wokuzalwa, ingqwalasela yakho igxininise ekulindeni umcimbi kwaye uzimelele kwindima yomama, kungekhona kwindoda kunye nobudlelwane naye, njengoko kwakunjalo ngaphambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isondo kwisithathu sesithathu sokukhulelwa senziwa ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yokuba isimo sengqondo esinjalo sitshintsha kunzima ukuqikelela oko ufunayo ngomzuzu. Ngenxa yokungabikho kokuzonwabisa okuthandekayo, abafazi abahluphekanga ngenxa yezinga eliphezulu le-progesterone kunye ne-esrogen yamava ukukhangwa ngokwesondo kwiqabane labo. Eqhutywa ngumnqweno, ihamba ngokulula, ihamba neendlela ezintsha zokufumana injabulo enkulu kwiindawo eziseduze. Ngamanye amaxesha, emva kokwenza uthando, unako ukuvalelwa kwincinci. Okuqhelekileyo.
Ngexesha le-orgasm, izivumelwano zakho zesini, kunye ne-hormone prostaglandin equlethwe kwindoda kubangela ukuba kube lula ukuqeqesha "ukuqeqesha". Imbewu ngokwayo iyanciphisa umlomo wesibeleko omncinci, uyilungiselela ukuzala. Cinga ukuba iimpilo ezinjalo akufanele zide kwaye zikhulu - kungenjalo kufuneka uthintele ngokukhawuleza nomntwana wezilwanyana. Ukwabelana ngesondo akunakuchukumisa ukubeleka, kodwa ukuba uvakalelwa ukuqala komsebenzi, ukwenza uthando lunokukhawuleza kwaye luququzelele inkqubo ezayo. Xa ukhululekile kwaye ujabulela ukusondelana, ngaphezu kwe-prostaglandin, i-oxytocin ikhiqizwa emzimbeni, okwenza ukuba i-muscle contraction, kunye ne-endorphins yi-hormones yolonwabo kunye neyeza zentlungu. Ngegazi baya kumntwana, kwaye uyayithanda kunye nonina.