Ukulungiswa kwengqondo kwabasetyhini abakhulelwe ngokubeletha

Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukulungiselela ukuzala, kukho ihlabathi kunye nexesha elifanayo iziphakamiso ezilula eziya kuphucula le nkqubo emangalisayo kwaye engaqondakaliyo. Okokuqala, iimeko ezintathu ezibalulekileyo zihambelana nokubeletha, okungekho ugqirha, okanye umhlobo obalaseleyo, okanye ugogo, okanye unyoko uya kukuxelela. Yaye le ngongoma apha, eqinisweni, ayikho inceba yomhlaba - zikhona izinto ezinjalo ezizimeleyo kwaye ngamnye umfazi ulindele ukuvula ngexesha lakhe - iMelika.

1. Inkunkuma yendalo iya kukutshatyalaliswa ngokwenene kuwe;
2. Ilixa lokuqala lokuzalwa liya kuthusa ukufa;
3. Uza kuziva ungazibekezele, kwaye njengoko kubonakala kuwe, intlungu engapheliyo.

Nangona, ukuba uzama ukuhlaziywa zonke izinto ezahlukileyo zokuba umntwana uza kubakho kwaye usebenze kanzima ukulungiselela le mini, ngoko mhlawumbi iimeko ezikhethileyo ziya kugwenywa, kwaye ixesha elinzima liya kuncitshiswa kangako.

Ngoko, ukulungiswa kwengqondo kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo ngokubeletha kufuneka baqale ngokuqokelela iibhegi. Kubonakala ngathi apho kukho i-psychology, kodwa isicwangciso esilungele kakuhle sokuziphatha kwakho kunye nokuhlanganiswa kwezinto kuza kukuchaphazela kakuhle ingqondo yakho, njengoko uyazi ukuba yonke into ilungele ukuzala. Qala ukuqokelela isikhwama kufuneka kube malunga nenyanga ngaphambi komhla wokunikezelwa, okufunekayo oogqirha. Akukho mntu unokuqikelela ngokuchanekileyo umhla wokuzalwa, ngumntwana wakho kuphela onquma ukuba uza kuza nini kwihlabathi.

Kubalulekile ukwenza uluhlu lwezinto zonke ezifunekayo esibhedlele. Ungakulibali ukuthabatha kunye: isikhwama sokuzilungisa kunye nesibuko, iingubo zangaphantsi ezitshintshileyo, iiglasi ezimbini okanye ezintathu kunye ne-bathrobe, iipilisi ezimbini, i-hairbrush, iphepha lokungasese, iimpahla oza kuzinxiba xa uhamba ekhaya nomntwana wakho.

Ngaphambi koko kuyimfuneko yokwenza uludwe lweedilesi kunye neenombolo zomnxeba zabantu ekuye naziphi na iintsuku zokucela uncedo.

Iimpawu eziphambili zendlela yokusebenza kubo bonke bayaziwa, nangona zibonakaliswa ngabanye kwibhinqa ngalinye. Abanye abesifazana abanako ukususela kwisibini sokuqala baqikelele ukuqala komsebenzi, kwaye abanye bakhumbula kuphela iiyure ezimbalwa kamva, xa kusondele kakhulu ukuya esibhedlele. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iimpawu zokuzala ziyakunikwa ngempilo kunye nemvelo kamama. Intlungu ebuhlungu kunye neentlungu ezisezantsi kwisisu esisisiswini, ivakalelo lokungahambi kakuhle - zonke ezi zimpawu ziyakwazi ukuthetha ngendlela yokusebenza, kungakho ukurhoxiswa ngokukhawuleza kwamanzi.

Ukuba awuqhelekanga okanye uzive ungalunganga, kodwa awukwazi ukukhalaza ngokukodwa malunga nantoni (umzekelo, intlungu), usathabatha ifowuni uze ubize ugqirha wakho. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubamba ukuphefumula kwakho, utywala kunye nobuthathaka bubonakala, ukuba kunzima ukuma ezinyaweni zakho okanye ukuvuka ngokukhawuleza ebusuku, ukulibala ngogqirha, kwaye ubiza abamelwane, abahlobo, ngelizwi, ngubani ongasondela ngokukhawuleza kwaye akuxhase kule mzuzu. Ungethuki xa amanzi esele. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukugcina ukuzithiba ixesha elide kunokwenzeka.

Sebenzisa ithawula ukufumana iinyawo zakho zimanzi, kwaye uzilungiselele ukuba ama-panties kunye neengqayi zakho zibophekile. Musa ukucinga ngento abanye abantu abaya kucinga ngayo ngawe xa uhamba esibhedlele sokubeletha, kwaye emva kwakho kukho umzila wamanzi. Ukulindele ukuzalwa komntwana wakho - akukho mntu ucinga ukukubona uzolile, uqinisekile, ubabalo kwaye unxibe

Iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokulungiswa kwengqondo yokubeleka:
- ungalahlekelwa yintetho kunye nenyaniso;
- ungasebenzisi amandla, zama ukusabalalisa amandla akho, ukuze ufikelele ekupheleni kokuzalwa;
- xelela ngokuqinisekileyo umbeletha okanye ugqirha oko kwenzeka ntoni kuwe;
- buza yonke imibuzo enomdla kuwe;
- Zama ukuphumeza ngamandla, yonke into ugqirha okanye umbelethisi athi;
- Mamela intliziyo yakho nomzimba;
- ungalibali okwesibini ukuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho azalwe enempilo, kwaye uya kukukholisa njani kwikamva!

Inhlanhla! Unomfazi oqinileyo kwaye uya kuphumelela!