Okwangoku, isiqubulo esikhulu samabhinqa amaninzi kukuba bazama ukwenza okusemandleni abo ukufikelela kwabo okanye kwezinye iindawo eziphakamileyo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha le ndlela yobomi iphikisana nokuqhelekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, nantoni na enokwenzayo, nantoni na ofuna ukuyifumana, kufuneka uhlale uhlala, nangona ukuba awunanto ebaluleke kakhulu, kodwa unesigxina samandla angasetyenziselwa ukuhla. Ukuba uhlala uchitha amandla kude kube sekupheleni, kungekudala okanye kamva awuyi kuba namandla angashiyiweyo kwiimpawu ezintsha kunye nempumelelo. Ngoko, uyisebenzisa njani kakuhle amandla akho, uphumle?
Ukukhathala yiyona ntsholongwane eyona nto.
Ukuba uhlala ukhononda ngeemeko ezibi kunye nobomi bakho ngokubanzi, qwa lasela, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba isingqisho sobomi asihlali kakhulu. Mhlawumbi nje ukhathele, kwaye kufuneka uphumle ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Impawu zokuqala kunye neziphambili zokukhathala zandisa ukonakala, ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo kokonwaba ngokomoya nokuvisisana nokulahlekelwa ubomi. Izinto ezikutshatsha nje kunye nenjabulo yokuzonwabisa, uyeke ukukholisa. Okokuqala, ungavumeli oku kwenzeke kuwe. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uhlakaze kwaye uphume kwiindawo ezihamba phambili. Yiya kwindawo yokuzonwabisa, i-cinema, i-museum, igalari yezobugcisa okanye uthabathe ekhaya ukuhlamba okuphumuzayo kunye nokuvuselela okunamandla kunye needineli ezinamanzi okanye i-mint. Okanye, okuya kuba kuhle, pheka isitya sakho ozithandayo, bukela ifilimu oyithandayo kwaye ujonge ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe ngokuhlwa. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uphinde ulahlekelwe amandla.
Ukuphumla njengesayensi.
Hlalani nikhumbule ukuba nantoni na isenzo okanye isenzo ozithathayo, nokuba uyazi okanye uyaziqonda, uzimisele ukuchitha amandla akho okugcina. Nangu kuwe ithuba lokuphinda ucinge ngobomi bakho obude kwaye ubeke ixesha lokuphumla. Ngendlela, umbuzo wokuba unokuphumla, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uhlekisayo kangakanani, uqobo. Uninzi lwabantu lulinganisa ukuphumla kobuvila obuqhelekileyo kwaye bubi kakhulu. Ukuba unokwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwezi ngcamango ezimbini kwaye ufunde indlela yokuphumla kakuhle, ukususa uxinzelelo lwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukwazi ukulungelelanisa nokuchaneka amandla akho. Khumbula ukuba ukuphumla isayensi esekelwe ezindleleni zendalo zokufumana ukuvisisana nendalo kunye nehlabathi langaphakathi kwindawo yokuqala.
Khumbula, ukuphumla kwakho ngokwentliziyo, ngakumbi kuya kuzisa iintlawulo. Ngoko ukuphula umculo kukuhle kakhulu ukuphumula kunye nendlela ekhuthazayo yokukhathazeka. Siyabulela kwiimvumi ezikhethiweyo ezichanekileyo ukuba unokudlulisa izinto ezintle ezonwabileyo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuhlala uhleli .
Kukho abantu abangenako ukukwazi ukuphumla konke ngenxa yeshedyuli exakekileyo, iphoso ngumlingisi wakhe. Abantu abanjalo bahlala behlala bexhala, bechaphazela ukungcola kwamandla obomi. Kule meko, kufuneka ulawulwe ngokwakho. Ngoko ke, ukuba uziva ulele, kufuneka ukhululeke ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukuyilalisa umzimba wakho, vumela izihlunu zakho ziphumle. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda ukugcina amandla amatsha nokugcina ixesha elide.
Kutheni silahlekelwa amandla okanye siphumle ngoncedo lweemisipha.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, amandla ethu asetshenzisiwe ngokungathandabuzeki kwizinto ezinjalo ezifana nokuzonwabisa, ukukhathazeka, ukuhlaselwa ngokugqithiseleyo komsindo. Kule meko, sichitha amandla ethu ebalulekileyo, ngaphandle kokwenza utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bethu endleleni eya ekufezekeni. Kule meko, kufuneka nje ukudala isimo sengqondo, okuza kubangela ukuba ube nemvakalelo emihle kuphela. Siyabulela oku, uya kuba nakho ukuphuhlisa ikhono lakho lokuphumla kwiimvakalelo eziphazamisayo zamava amaninzi. Zenzele ukuncwina, kwaye uya kuphawuleza ukuba indlela ejikeleze ngayo yonke into ishintshile ithoni yazo ukuba ikhanyise kunye nemikhosi.
Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngelixa izihlunu zethu ziphumla, sinokuphumla ngokunyanisekileyo nokuzinzulu. Ngako oko, kufuneka uvumele ixesha rhoqo ukuba ukhulule imisipha yakho. Kwaye nantsi amagama ambalwa ndifuna ukongeza malunga nokuqeqesha umzimba. Hamba rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngeenyawo, kuya kunceda ukugcina ubungqina bakho buqhelekileyo.
Kwakhona ukuphumla okupheleleyo kunye nokuphumla komzimba oku kulandelwayo kuluhlu.
1. Phatha iingalo zakho phambili kwaye uvale amehlo akho, uphonsa intloko yakho, uthathe umoya. Ukugqithisa, shinqa ikhanda lakho phambili. Lo msebenzi ukhuthazwa ukuba uyenze amaxesha amahlanu. Ngalo msebenzi, unako ukuphumla umzimba wonke.
2. Ukulala emhlane wakho, uthathe umoya kwaye uphakamise umlenze owodwa, ucinezele kwisifuba sakho. Emva koko siphumelela emadolweni size siphumelele kwakhona. Olu hlobo lukhuthazwa ukuba lwenziwa maxesha amane. Lo msebenzi uvuselela kakuhle imisipha.
3. Ukulala emhlane wakho, udonsa amabini kwisisu sakho kwaye ubalekele ezintlanu, ubahlalise. Lo msebenzi ukhuthazwa ukwenza amaxesha amabini. Ngoko ukhulula imisipha yezandla kunye nemilenze yakho.
Ukusetyenziswa kwamandla ngamandla .
Wonke umntu uhlala efuna ukunikezelwa kwamandla, apho nayiphi na ixesha ayimfuneko. Indlela efanelekileyo yokugcina amandla ngukuba ukha ishedyuli yokuzicwangcisa ngokwakho indlela yokugcina isigqi sakho sobomi emini. Ukuba unomuzwa wokuthi namhlanje "usuku lwakho" - ngeendlela zonke thabatha "inkomo ngeempondo", ukuba konke okuchaseneyo, "unciphisa amahashe" kwaye ushiye njengoko kunjalo. Ungaze ubeke phambi kwakho iinjongo ezingenangqiqo kwaye ungafuni ukufezekisa oko kukude kuwe. Njalo unako ukwazi ukulinda ngokuchanekileyo nangokunyamezela kwaye inhlanhla ngokwayo iya kubeka ezandleni zakho.