Xa selula, abaninzi abantu bakholelwa ukuba banokutshintsha umntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa, ukusetyenziswa kubonisa ukuba akulula. Iingcali zengqondo zithi akunakwenzeka ukuba ulungelelanise umntu kwiimvakalelo kunye neminqweno.
Abantu abaninzi bayayazi le ntetho-uthando luyimfama, yingakho umntu ehlala efihla kwiimvakalelo zakhe ezicacileyo ngentloko, ngelixa engaboni konke ukuba umntu onesihawu nguye u-antipode wakhe. Uthando luyakwazi kakhulu, luyakwazi ukwenza imimangaliso, kodwa kungenjalo. Musa ukuthatha imodeli imeko efana nayo, enokuphuhliswa kakuhle kumntu wabahlobo bakho. Akukho mntu uya kukunika isiqinisekiso sokuba ubuhlobo besikhathi esizayo buya kuba luhle.Zixelele ngexesha "misa" kwaye ucinge ukuba ufuna ukungena ebudlelwaneni obukhulu kunye nalowo ofuna ukuyibuyisela. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba, ubudlelwane obunjalo kunye nexesha luya kuncipha. Ulwalamano oluhambelanayo ludlelwane olungafuneki utshintsho olwenziwa ngumfazi okanye umntu, zenzeke ngokwazo. Emva koko, kukho umehluko xa kukho ukukhawuleza ukusuka kwiinjongo zakho zangaphakathi, kwaye enye into xa unyanzelekile ukuba wenze into ethile.
Umnqweno wokutshintsha umntu okhethiweyo ngandlela-thile unobangela obuthe ngqo kwibabi. Makhe sivume, siphupha umlingane ococekileyo, kunye nomfanekiso wabazali bethu igcinwe kwindawo ethile kubantwana bethu. Nabani na oya kukhululeka kunye nomntu osondeleyo kuye esiza kukhululeka ukwenza ezinye zezenzo zethu eziqhelekileyo, ukuziva iimvakalelo eziqhelekileyo, oko kutheni ukhetho lwethu luvame ukuwela kwimodeli yokuziphatha kwabantu abadala esiyaziyo ukusuka ebuntwaneni. Ukuba uqala utshintsho lwehlabathi, nokuba ngaba uphumelele okokuqala, ngenxa yoko ungadana kakhulu kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumdla kumlingane wakho, kuba into efunekayo kuyo iya kutshabalala. Ngoko ke, isiphelo sinye - usebenze ngokucophelela kuwe.
Ukugxeka - into, ewe, ayiyonto embi, kodwa ijoliswe ekuziphatheni komntu, kungekhona kuye, okanye kubuntu bakhe. Vumelani, musa ukuchithachitha izinto, naphi na ukuba niyifunde kulula kakhulu kunokuba, bathi, ekuthuleni ukuguqula umntu ube ngumnxibelelwano onomdla kwaye onengqiqo. Zonke iinjongo zomntu kufuneka zifunde ukuqonda, nangona zingakuthandi nonke. Ingcamango enjengokuba indawo yomntu iyimfuneko nje kuthi, mhlawumbi nayiphi na umntu uya kuphelisa nje ixesha.
Kulula ukuba naliphi na ukukhalaza ngeqabane lethu. Esi sikhundla sikulungele - akukho sidingo sokutshintsha ukuziphatha kwakho. Abaninzi abafazi bavame ukunganeliseki ngento yokuba amadoda abo abathandayo abafuni ukwenza nantoni na indlu, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa indoda ingena kuyo, ithi, isando, bayishenyuza ngokukhawuleza ezandleni zabo kwaye batyholwa ukungakwazi. Mhlawumbi, entliziyweni yam, abaninzi bethu abafuni ukuba iqabane liguqulwe ngokubanzi: sinoyika nje ukulahlekelwa amandla ethu phezu kwakhe. Indima efanelekileyo kakhulu yomgxeki - lo mzekelo wokuziphatha unenzuzo, kuba unokuhlala ufumana isizathu sokunganeliseki.
Nantsi imilingo yomlingo yelinye lamalingani - le yinto enye. Umzekelo, ukusela utywala okanye nje ukutshatyalaliswa kwentliziyo kunye neentlobo zeekhompyutheni zekhomputha ziyakuthi zichithe ulwalamano oluqinileyo. Kodwa ungazami ukusombulula ingxaki, ngoncedo lwe-blackmail. Mlunge uzame ukubonisa iqabane eliphila ngayo liloyiko kwaye liyakucinezela, ngoko unokuzama ukuvusa inzala kuye nayiphi na imisebenzi, ngelixa ulungisa ubomi bakhe.
Wonke umntu kufuneka abone iziphumo aze aqonde intsingiselo yomsebenzi owenziwe ngokwabo. Asikwazi ukuvalela iqabane lethu kwiqhekeza legolide lezimvo zethu. Ukukhula komntu kwangaphakathi kumntu kwenzeka kwindlela ethile kwishedyuli ethile. Uncedo kulo mbandela unako amandla othando, okwazi ukufikelela ngexesha, ngokunyamekela ukutshintsha ukuphucula ubomi bobabini abathandi.