Kwikholo lama-Orthodox kukho ezininzi izithethe, imithendeleko kunye nemigangatho, malunga nantoni encinci eyaziwayo kumntu wanamhlanje. Enye yale mibhiyozo engaziwa kakhulu yiSikhumbuzo seSonto le-2016, eliwa ngomhla wokugqibela weShrovetide, ekhangayo, ekhangayo. Yintoni abayenzileyo kweli holide engavamile? Ukuguquka ngokuthobeka kuzo zonke izono ngokuzithandela okanye ezingenakunqwenela, uxolise kwiintsapho kwaye uxolele ngokunyanisekileyo kubahlobo kuphela, kodwa nakwiintshaba. Ngendlela yokucela ukuxolelwa kunye nendlela yokuvuyela uvuko oluxolelweyo ngoncedo lweenkondlo kunye neesms, sitsho ngokuqhubekayo.
Uvuko lokuxolelwa: njani ukucela ukuxolelwa kwezizalwane
Ababingeleli bacebisa onke amaKristu ukuba abe nenyaniso kwaye avule kwiholide eqaqambileyo yeCawa yokuxolela. Ngaba ngokuqinisekileyo ukucela ukuxolelwa kwizizalwane, abahlobo kunye nabaziwayo, kwivesi okanye kwiprose, akukho migaqo ecacileyo. Thetha entliziyweni uze uthathe amazwi afudumele, anomusa nangomntu osuka enhliziyweni, nokuba ingaba imbongo emfutshane, amagama ambalwa kwiprose okanye i-SMS-congratulation ayibalulekanga. Intsikelelo kaThixo ngomnyaka ozayo iya kufunyanwa ngabo bonke abaya kufumana amandla okuvuma iimpazamo kwaye baya kukhulula umphefumlo kwiimvakalelo eziphazamisayo, kunye nengqondo kwiingcamango zesono. Ukongezelela kwizicelo zokuxolelwa, amakholwa aseOthodoki akhunjulwa ngeli lizwi ngelizwi lomusa eliye laya kwelinye ihlabathi, ukuya emangcwabeni, ekugqibeleni ekuhlambeni nasekuzondleni ngobusuku beLente Elikhulu. Kula macwecwe ubeke iintlanzi ezinamafutha kunye nezitya zenyama, ukhilimu kunye ne-cottage shizi, amaqanda kunye neenkabi ezizenzela. Iholide iphetha ngesiganeko esikhulu-ukutshiswa okudityanisiweyo kwepencake ephahliweyo kwisibonda. Emva koko i-ash ash iqokelelwa ngokucophelela kwaye isetyenziswe njengesichumiso sesityalo kwiindawo ezikufuphi. Ngokwamalungiselelo, oku kunceda ekuphuculeni umgangatho welizwe kunye nokwandisa isivuno semfuyo kunye nezityalo zemifuno.Indlela yokuxolisa ukuxolelwa ngosuku
Uvuko oluxolelwe: Ndicela uxolo kubazali bam
Abazali bangabantu abasondeleyo kuthi sonke, kodwa sihlala sibacaphukisa ngenxa yokungafaneleki kwabo, isimo sengqondo esingenasimo kunye nokungafuni ukuphulaphula iingcebiso ezilungileyo. Ukuxolelwa ngeCawa yiholide eyakhelwe ukuyithetha kuyihlo nonyoko: "Mthandi, ndithandekayo, ndicela uxolo lwakho. Undinike ubomi kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ndixakeke kangakanani, andiyi kulibala. Ndiyakuthanda! ". Unokuxolisa kwiprose okanye kwivesi. Kule meko ayinandaba. Kulula nje, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka engakanani, bonisa abazali bakho ukuba abalahlekanga ixabiso kuwe. Baya kuwuxabisa umphefumlo wakho kwaye banikezele ukuxolelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kunye nentsikelelo.Ndiyakuvuyela ukuvuka kokuxolelwa kwezihlobo kunye nabahlobo
Ukuxolelwa ngeCawa - Imibongo
Siyakuvuyisana ngeSonto elixolelwe, elenzelwe izihlobo kunye nabahlobo, kufuneka babe ngabanyanisekileyo, benyanisekileyo, banomdla kwaye bathembekile. Zama ukufumana eli lizwi elona lihle kakhulu entliziyweni yakho. Xelela abantu abasondele ngosuku ngalunye ukuba bakuxabisa kangakanani, ubuninzi babo ngenkxaso, ukunakekelwa kunye nokuqwalasela kuthetha ntoni kuwe. Maye baqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba ungekho njongo yokubacaphukisa okanye ukubacaphukisa ngenjongo. Kwaye amanye amazwi anomsindo okanye isimo sengqondo esibuhlungu siye saba yingozi enkulu kwaye uyaxolisa kakhulu ukuba kwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuba uthembeke ngendlela enokwenzeka, uthethe ngokucacileyo ngomnqweno wakho wokucela ukuxolelwa kwaye ungabonakalisi iholide ngokungathandabuzeki nangengcamango embi. Ngaloo ndlela ke umphefumlo uya kuhlanjululwa kwivalelo ezibuhlungu, kwaye uya kuziva ulungelelaniso olupheleleyo entliziyweni nasengqondweni.Ukuvuswa kokuxolela: i-SMS-mncoma kwindinyana kunye neprose
Ukuxolelwa ngeCawa - iSMS
Ngosuku lweCawa elixolelwe, kufuneka uxolise ngenxa yezenzo zakho kungekuphela kubathandekayo bakho kunye nezihlobo eziseduze. Izicelo zokuxolelwa, ukubingelela ngokunyanisekileyo kunye ne-sms ezifudumele-zivuyisana nazo kufuneka zithunyelwe kwizizalwane, abamelwane, abasebenzi, abathengi kunye namaqabane ebhizinisi. Ngolu hlobo olulula, kodwa olunyanisekileyo nolunobulumko, uya kugxininisa inhlonipho yakho ngala bantu kwaye ubonise ukuba bahlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba unxibelelwano olulandelayo luvuyiswe, luvule, lufudumale kwaye luthembeke.Iindinyana ezintle nezobubele malunga noKuvuswa kovuko
Ukubulisa okugqwesileyo kwiSonto elixolelwe
Kubalulekile kuthi kwaye sizisola kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungathandekiyo, sibaxhaphaze ngokungabandakanyeki nokubandayo, iintetho ezinzima, izenzo zokukhawuleza kunye nezenzo ezizenzekelayo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuthetha ngamazwi aqhelekileyo yonke into eqokelelwe entliziyweni nasemphefumlweni. Kulo mzuzwana iindinyana malunga novuko oluxolelwe ziya kuza. Imigca ekhohliweyo inokunceda ukugxininisa ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka kunye nefuthe eliqinileyo lokomoya. Bcono kunanoma iyiphi inqubo yokuthetha malunga nazo zonke iimvakalelo kwaye unikezele ngokunyanisekileyo ukuxolisa. Ukuba ufunda amagama entliziyweni uze uyibhale ngokuzwakalayo ingxaki, ungabhala isicelo sesibongo sokuxolelwa kwiphepha okanye iphepha elihle leposi, thumela ngeposi okanye ubeke lo myalezo kumntu oziva unetyala. Emva kokuba unikele ngesipho salo hlobo, uya kubonisa ukuba unobungangamsha kwaye unganandaba nokobubi kwaye, ngokwenene, uyaguquka ngokunyanisekileyo kwimilinganiselo yakho yokungakhethi.NgeCawa exolelwe!