Umbhali owaziwayo uTatyana Ustinova

Umnxibelelisi odumileyo uTatyana Ustinova wayengenawo umnxibelelwano onetyala. Eyokuqala, ngokumangalisa kwaye engalindelanga imibuzo "ekhokelayo", unako ukuxelela, kwangoko wathabatha udliwano ndlebe kwizandla.

Ngombhali odumileyo uTatyana Ustinova, kunye "neyokuqala phakathi kokulungileyo" esidibeneyo ekuvuleni "Funda isixeko" - iqela lokugcina iincwadi, apho wayemele inombolo entsha "Ngenye indlela!". Kodwa wakwazi ukuthetha kuphela ngeencwadi: UTatyana Ustinova watshele indlela yokufunda indlela yokuvuya, ukubhiyozela ngomhla we-8 kaMatshi kunye nawaphi amadoda okwenyaniso afanele abe njalo.


- Umbhali owaziwayo uTatyana Ustinova awazi. Uyabonakala umangalisa! Saba ngumntu onobunzima, salahlekelwa bunzima obukhulu. Yabelana ngemfihlo yenguqu. - Ngokwembali yokulahlekelwa kwesisindo kulula kakhulu: ukunciphisa umzimba, kufuneka ... ungadli. Ngokukodwa ndiqwalasela ubuvila obukhulu-andifuni ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, nditshintshe umshicileli apho. Ndabona ukuba ukuze ukwakhiwe, kufuneka utshintshe inkqubo yokunikezela amandla. Umnqweno wokunciphisa umzimba kufuneka uqale ukucinga ngako: ukuqonda ubunjani obufunayo ukunciphisa umzimba, kuba mna, umzekelo, akasoze waba ngumnikazi weempawu zeemodeli, nokuba ngaba ndiyeka ukutya. Kwaye ke ukuguqulela izicwangciso ngokwenene. Ngokomzekelo, andinakuyidla emva kwesithandathu ngokuhlwa: Ndibuya emsebenzini emva kwe-9 ngokuhlwa kwaye into kuphela endiyicinga ngayo, kuphela into yokuba ndifuna ukuyidla. Ngoku, kungomso. Ngoko ukuba ngaba i-spaghetti, qho uhlale unama-shrimp kwaye ungalokothi usebenzise inyama, ukuba iyinkukhu, ngoko kungenasiphelo. Kwaye ubunzima buqala ukubuyela kwindawo evamile. Ngokomzekelo, kwakungekho ngaphaya kokufikelela, kodwa kwiminyaka emithathu ndayehla iikhilogram ezingama-90.


- Ngaba uyavuma ukuba ukuba utshintsho olunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzithande? Njani ukwenza oku? - Njengoko udadewethu athetha, apho sihlala sithetha ngayo ngobomi: unonwabe lula kunokuba uyonwabile. Ukungonwabanga akukho nto, kwaye uvuyo luhlobo lomsebenzi. Imeko xa "kungekho mntu uyandiqondayo" yinto evumelekileyo kakhulu kumfazi ongafuni ukwenza nantoni na. Kodwa nakweyiphi na imeko ungayifumana umzuzu omhle. Apha sihlala, siphuza ikhofi, siphulaphule umculo, kunye nobuhle obunjalo. Apha uhlala kwisiqingatha somhla kwaye ujabule. Kwaye kunokwenzeka - ukubandezeleka, ekubeni wena, uthi, aphelelanga, kunye nomyeni wolunye uhlobo lwezilwanyana.


- Umbhali owaziwayo , nditsho, ngaba ukubhalwa kweencwadi zokuqala kwahluke kwincwadi yokugqibela? - Bahluke ngokupheleleyo. Omnye ubhaliwe lula, ngomoya omnye, omnye ude kwaye unzima. Andikwazi ukuthetha kwangaphambili ndabhala ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndonwabile, kodwa ngoku kungenye indlela. Konke kuxhomekeke kwiimeko. Ukuba ndiziva ndibi, ukuba andinanto yokuthetha, ukuba akukho nto indichaphazelayo, kodwa ndihleli kunye nokubhala, kuba kufuneka ibe yinto ethile engagqityiweyo yepiyano yomatshini.

- Enye yodliwano-ndlebe okhankanywe ngayo ukuba uqale ukusebenza kwincwadi entsha emva kweeyure ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa kwonyana wakho wesibini ... - Ewe, yinyaniso. Kwakungekho nto endiyenzayo, ndandibuhlungu kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa, ndine ipenethi kunye nencwadana, ngoko ke ndalala ndaza ndabhala "Ububi obukhulu kunye namacandelo amancinci angcolileyo".


- UTatiana Ustinova unokufumana njani usuku lomsebenzi wendabuko? - Ukuba awuyidingi, yithi, kwindawo ethile yokubhabha okanye ukuya kwiTV, ngoko uhlala ufana. Andizange ndivuke kusasa, andinakuzibonga, ngoko ndiyisela ikofi kunye nekhompyutheni.

-Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba awufuni ukubhala namhlanje? Ukuziphoqa ukuba ubhale? - Ukunyanzelisa, ndiyinyanzele, kodwa ... "Ukunyanzelisa" kudla ngokungafezeki. Ndiyakwazi ukuhlala yonke imini kwikhompyutheni, khangela iifestile, kwaye ngokuhlwa ndifumanisa ukuba ndibhale imihlathi emibini engenanto. Ukuba imeko leyo iqhubela phambili, kwaye le nto ingaba yimini, ezimbini, okanye iveki, kufuneka "iphulwe phantsi": kwindawo ethile ukuya kuyo, ufumane ukubonakala okutsha, tshintshela kwenye into.

- Ingaba kukho nawuphi na umsebenzi ongenalutho, olungadingekile emsebenzini wakho? - Mna, mhlawumbi, ndingathandi i-fuzuzuhu. "Tanya, bhala ukuhlaziywa kwencwadana entsha yeVasi Pupkin." - "Andifuni!" - "Hayi, kuyimfuneko, iPupkin iqalile ukubhala, kufuneka ixhaswe, ngaphandle koko uya kufa ngokukhawuleza njengombhali." Kodwa konke oko kufuneka kuqala kufundwa. Kwaye iPupkin, umzekelo, ubhala malunga nama-vampires. Kwaye mna, umzekelo, andithandi izinto ezimbi. Kodwa ndifunda. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyakwazi ukuwuphonsa kuodadewethu, oya kufunda iPukin aze achaze ngokufutshane kum ngamazwi akhe. Kodwa kufuneka ndibhale ukuhlaziywa.


- Ungabuza umlobi odumiweyo uTatyana Ustinova ukuba uphatha njani iimpazamo zakhe? Ngaba uyazibetha? - Ndiyaqalekisa ixesha elide, ngoko ndamathela kum udadewethu: sikhule kunye kunye kulula ukuba sihlule ingxaki ezimbini. Ndamxelela ukuba, bathi, andizange ndiyiqonde yonke into ngendlela, kodwa uhlala ekwazi ukubeka "kwibharki lesibambiso": yonke into ihluphekile kwaye yanele.

- Uzivuyisa njani? - Ukuthenga. Okwangokunje, umzekelo, ndiya kuthenga loo nqanawa, imfutho ngebhasi. IJeans imthanda kakhulu. Ndiya kwindawo ethile ngemoto. Emva koko kuza kwindawo enhle: endlwini endlwini yomhlobo, apho indawo yomlilo iyitshisa, kumama. Ndinomnye "uvuyo": umntanama uSasha, owangumntu omdala wam, wandithumela umyalezo onobuqhetseba kwi-mobile. Ndihleka, ndabasindisa, ndiyifunda kwakhona.

"Yithwale imoto?" -Aye. Ndiyesaba ukuba akukho nto iya kuvela kuyo, kuba ndihlala ndiphazamisekile, yintoni endiyithandayo kwindlela engaphezulu kwendlela, kwaye oku kuphazamisayo.

"Kodwa inkululeko ethile ..." "Ndiyayiqonda." Ndiya kuxela izalamane zam: nantsi ndiya kufunda ukuqhuba imoto, ndiza kuzimela. Mna ndiya kuthenga ukuyothenga enye inqanawa, izicathulo okanye iiglasi.


UTatyana Ustinova onamava uye watshintsha isimo sengqondo sokuthanda, kubantu? - Ndabona ukuba into ebalulekileyo kumntu unesisa. Yiyo le nto eyahlula indoda kwisidalwa nje, egqoke iingubo, kungenakwenzeka ukuba ungalokothi uzingqine ngexabiso lomfazi. Ngokuchaseneyo, xolela ubuthathaka, inkxaso. Indoda kufuneka iqonde xa sidinga ukuzisola. Kubantu, nditshintshe isimo sengqondo ngoku ngoku ndiyazi: umntu omnye akanako ukwenza konke. Akakwazi ukuba ngumyeni omhle, ubaba olungileyo, unyana ohloniphayo, ibhanki, umgijimi kunye nomhle kumntu oyedwa. Ukuba ungumyeni onomzekelo oza ekhaya ngehora lesithandathu aze ahlambe umntwana ebhafini, kuthetha ukuba ungumntu othakazelisayo okanye umntu ongeyena. Kwaye ukuba uthe wathululela imali ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku, akayi kuhlamba umntwana ekuhlambeni. Ndafunda ukuhlonela ngokuphathelele kwizifundo zamadoda. "Ndimele ndihambe. Omkhulu. "Ndihlanganiseni!" "Le ngcaciso." "Ndiza kuba khona ngeveki." "Kulungile, vele ubize." Kuloo mzuzwana ukugubungela ukuba "Kwaye ndifuna ukuba undithathe kumdlalo wezemidlalo" akunakwenzeka.

Kwakuyiminyaka ubudala ukuba ndifunde ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwamadoda angamadoda ngcaciso, kunye nabalinganiswa bezintlu, ezenzelwe ukubonelela ngeenkonzo ezinzulu. Baya kusingatha isibambo, bathwale isikhwama, kwaye akusayi kuphinda balindele nantoni na kubo. Izenzo kufuneka zilindeleke kwelinye, ukusuka kolunye, oluyinto engaqhelekanga, kwezinye i jeans ezingabonakali kunye neengcamango ezingenakwenzeka entloko yakho.

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