Ngoko, makhe sithethe, bafazi abathandekayo, malunga nendlela yokuzijonga ngayo ukubonakala kwakho. Okokuqala, cinga ngala mabhinqa abanako kwaye banako ukubeka iliso ukubonakala kwabo. Vumelana, kuba kukho abo bacinga nokulandela imbonakalo akunzima. Kukho amantombazana angenza ukuba bajonge nje ngomlingo kwaye ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye nceda ungacingi ukuba abo kuphela abanemali eninzi banokujonga iliso labo. Ukuqwalasela ngokufanelekileyo imbonakalo ongenakukwazi ukuba nemali eninzi. Apha, akuyona into yokwenza imali eninzi, kodwa ukwenza ngokwakho ukwenza izenzo ezithile iintsuku zonke eziza kukunceda.
Enyanisweni, abaninzi bethu banokucinga ngendlela abazenza ngayo konke? Aba basetyhini banemfihlo kwaye kutheni kubonakala ngathi bangcono kunathi? Ukuba uzibuza le nto, akufanele ulungele izenzo zakho. Le nto yenzeni impazamo enkulu. Siqala ukuthetha ngokwenza umsebenzi omningi, sichitha amandla amaninzi kuyo yonke into, kwaye zibonakala zihlala ekhaya zize zenze. Enyanisweni, amaninzi amaninzi oku akunjalo. Ngokulula, kufuneka ubeke ixesha lakho kwaye ungacingi nje ngeengxaki zekhaya kunye nomsebenzi, kodwa nangendlela esibukeka ngayo nento esiyenzela yona.
Ewe, le ndlela yokubhenca othandekayo usebenzayo, kodwa ephantsi, asiyikuziva kakuhle, kuba siyaqonda ukuba izizathu zobungqina bethu bungeke zitshintshe ukubonakala kwethu kwaye zifane naziphi na iindlela. Ngoko, yintoni omele ukwenze, indlela yokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze sibe yinto ekhangayo kunye neyakhayo? Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezimbalwa ezilula ezinceda abafazi ukuba bacinge ngokwabo kwaye bajonge nje.
Ngoku siwahlula, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba ezi ndlela zilula kakhulu ukwenza.
Indlela enye. Ukuba unqwenela ukuphuma kwisitrato ungaxubekanga kwaye ungagqithwanga, cingisisa ukuba ukuba ngoku udibana nomntu owayengumfana okanye umhlobo owamthiyile owayehlala ekhubekisa ngenxa yokubonakala kwakho. Uyazi ukuba umthetho weentlanzi uhlala usebenza. Ngaba unqwenela ukuba laba bantu bakubone kwimeko enjalo engathandekiyo? Ngaba ungathanda ukuba umntu owayengumntu ucinga, njengokungathi ufumana ukuhlukana, ukuba awufuni ukuzinyamekela? Ngaba ungathanda ukuba umntu owayesesikoleni naye ahlekise kwaye anqume ukuba akukho nto yatshintshile ukususela ngelo xesha? Siyicinga, emva kokucinga okunjalo, uya kucinga ngaphambi kokuba uphume kwi-street neuhozhennoy.
Indlela ezimbini. Khumbula ngezofilosofi ezintle njenge feng shui. Kwaye uhlala echaza ukuba kufuneka uqale nawe ukuba sifuna ukufezekisa into ebomini. Ukutshatyalaliswa kuya kuba kuhle ukuba nathi sihle. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uhlale ujongana nawe kunye nembonakalo yakho. Ngendlela, le ntabulumko ayitsho ukuba kufuneka ube nedatha yangaphandle epheleleyo. Kuzama ukuzama ukuzama ukulungelelanisa ukufikelela kunye nokuphumelelana kokubili ngaphandle nangaphakathi.
Indlela yesithathu. Wonke umntu uthi aba princess ba nethamsanqa kwaye bahlala bedibana neenkosana zabo. Kodwa, akukho mntu ucinga ngento yokuba ukuze babe ngabafazi beentombi, loo ntombazana ibeka umzamo omkhulu. Ngoko ke, ukuba uphupha ukufumana inkosana, zama ukuhlala usinkosikazi. Nsuku zonke, ukuphuma ebhedeni, cinga malunga nokuba isikhulu sele sisondele, kodwa, ukuze akhangele kuwe, kufuneka ukhangele kakuhle.
Kwindlela ezine. Ukutshata, abaninzi abasetyhini bacinga ukuba ngoku ukhangeleka njengento ekhohlakeleyo. Kodwa, oku akunjalo. Bambalwa abantu abazibuza ukuba kutheni amadoda amaninzi aye kwiindawo zabo eziphathekayo. Enyanisweni, abafana abayifuni kakhulu ukuba amantombazana amnandi, ahlambuluke. Ngoko ke, soloko uzama ukubheka enkulu kwaye ungaze ukhululeke, ube ngumfazi otshatileyo.
Indlela yesihlanu. Kulula ngokwaneleyo, kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, lukhulu. Ukuba awukholelwa kuwe, kodwa, ngelo xesha, unobomi bezondo, unqumle iifoto zazo uze uzixhomeze kwisibuko. Ujonge kuzo zonke iintsuku, nawe uya kuba nomsindo, kodwa awukwazi ukujonga ngakumbi kwaye uya kuzama ukufana nabo.
Indlela yesithandathu. Ukuba sele usenabantwana, khumbula ukuba kufuneka badlale umzekelo kubazali babo. Ngoko ke, zama ukuhlala ukhangele ukwenzela ukuba, kwaye ngokukodwa intombi, inokulingana nawe. Ngomncinci kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho uthi unina uyona mhle kakhulu kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, lilungele ngokupheleleyo.
Indlela yesisixhenxe. Uthando ngenye yezona zizathu ezintle zokujonga kakuhle. Ngako oko, kufuneka uwele othandweni uze uzame umntu. Kuphela, naluphi na umzekelo, musa ukuyibuyisela. Akufanele ugijimele echibini kunye nentloko yakho kwaye uziphelise ngokupheleleyo, uze uhlupheke. Kungcono nje ukuvumela ukuba ube mncinci othandweni. Kule meko, unokuzama umntu, kodwa, ngexesha elifanayo, ungazitholi kwaye ungalondolozi umphefumlo wakho ngeenethemba elingenanto.
Indlela yesibhozo. Ukuba awukholelwa kakhulu kuwe, jonga iiprogram malunga nendlela iindada ezinobungozi ziphenduka ngayo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba oku kunokwenzeka kuphela kwiiprogram, xa umntu echitha imali enkulu kumntu? Oku akunjalo. Unako ukuwufezekisa. Ngokulula, musa ukuchitha imali yakho kwinxalenye yesicro cream, ushokolethi okanye ukutya okuvela kuMcDonald's. Kungcono ukuyibeka kubadlali bezinwele, ama-spa salons kunye nokufaneleka. Ndikholelwe, ukuba ukwenza oku, uza kuphinda uqaphele ukuba isibalo sakho siphucule kakhulu kwaye unemali eyongezelelweyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, khumbula rhoqo ukuba ungumfazi, ngoko ke, isidalwa esihle kunazo zonke ehlabathini. Kwaye akukho mntu unelungelo lokucaphukisa nokuhlambalaza. Kodwa, ukuba uzenza ngathi uyinkosikazi, kufuneka wenze imizamo, kuba, njengoko uyazi, ukuba awuzami, awukwazi ukuphumeza nantoni na.