Iinjongo azikho - ixesha elinzima lwenzeka kuzo zonke iindawo. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba ummelwane uKatyya (osele ezama ukugqoka umtshato) ngokuqinisekileyo akazange aqikelele ngokuhlukana nentombi yakhe. Okanye umhlobo wakho omhle osanda kuqalisa ukutshata nomfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo akayi kuba nesizathu sokukhala kwi-waistcoat yakho. Kodwa ubudlelwane obuhle kubantu ababi abafaniyo nokuba akukho bunzima kwixesha langaphambili, kodwa ngenxa yokuba zonke iingxaki uzixazulula. Kunye. Ukususela kulo, ukufuphi ngokusondeleyo kukhula.
Hlalani ngoxolo noxolo
Ekuqaleni wathanda le mibiko rhoqo, i-esemasks, imibuzo ... Kodwa kwafika umzuzwana xa ufuna nje ukuba wedwa, ucima ifowuni kwaye ungabhengezi kubani na kwizenzo zakho. Yaye unqumle: ungathandi! Kodwa akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngalokhu: akunakwenzeka, akunakwenzeka ukuba ube nomntu onamawaka angamashumi amabini anesine ngosuku! Ingxenye kunye nomfana, ukuba akukho uthando phakathi kwakho, zama ukuthetha naye kuphela. Chaza ukuba usamthanda kwaye ufuna ukuhamba naye, kungoko kunzima ukuba unyamezele loo ngcinezelo. Akayikho nantoni na, yena, ngokwenene, uyakhathazeka kwaye akhathazeke. Kodwa ukuba uyamxabisa ngokwenene, uya kuqonda kwaye uyanciphisa ukukhawuleza ofuna into entsha.
Iintombi zitshintsha amantombazana amaninzi ngenyanga, kwaye sele sele udibene nomfana ofanayo kunyaka wesithathu. Kwaye uyanciphisa umona wabo kunye nentliziyo ngaphambi komhla wokuqala ... Ubudlelwane abukwazi ukunqanda kwiqonga "esikudibeneyo". Ubomi buhlala bukhula. Iingenelelo zento enobungqina zizinto ezintsha zokubonakala. Kodwa kukho izinto eziza kuphela ngexesha: ukunyaniseka kweqiniso, ukuqonda ngegama lesigama kunye nokukhathazeka ngokunyanisekileyo komnye nomnye. Kwaye ufuna ngokwenene ukuyeka yonke le nto nje ukunika amandla kwakhona "imodi yokukhangela"?
Sahlukile kakhulu
Imfihlelo yobudlelwane obuhle akukhona ukukwazi ukufumana umntu ofanelekileyo, kodwa ukwazi ukufumana umntu onempazamo olungele ukunyamezela. Cinga, kubalulekile ukuba uxabane? Kwaye ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uyadabuka kwaye akanakuxhamla, okanye akayithandi ukuthenga kunye nawe, okanye (yenza oko ngokwakho) - ngaba iwela zonke ezinye iingenelo? Kodwa ukuba kunjalo, ngoko ...
Uphawu olubomvu : kodwa oku kunenjongo yokuqala yokuphela. Iifowuni zakhe ziqala ukukucaphukisa, uzama ukuphepha iintlanganiso ngeendlela zonke, nangomhla uhlala ukhangela iwashi ... Oku akuthethi ukuba awuthandanga naye ekuqaleni, kodwa kwenzeka nje ngoku: ubukho bakhe ebomini bakho ayikubangeli nantoni na. Ewe, lixesha lokuvuma oku kwaye uyeke ukumkhohlisa kunye nawe, ucingisise i-excuse ("ndidiniwe" kwaye "namhlanje unzima kolu suku"). Kule meko, kufuneka ushiye umfana xa kungekho uthando phakathi kwakho.
Uxolo ngezinyembezi
Ucinga ngokusasaza ixesha elide, kodwa ke awukwazi ukwenza isinyathelo esiphambili: kunye nawe waba ngumfundi obalaseleyo, kwaye ngaphandle kwakho uza kuphinda awele kwii-deuces. Okanye unenkathazo nabazali bakhe, kwaye emva kokuphuka kwakho uya kuziva kakhulu ... Musa ukucinga ukuba ngaphandle kwakho uya kutshabalala, kunokuba uzibethe ukuzithemba. Kunyanisekileyo ukumxelela yonke into njengoko kunjalo. Kwaye ukunika ithuba lokufunda ukusombulula iingxaki zabo ngaphandle kwakho.
Isinyathelo ngeNqabana
Ukhohlakele, ukungcatsha, ukuxoka ... Uthi uthethelele. Kodwa ilizwi langaphakathi lithi akukho. Yikholelwa kwaye ungazifuneli kuwe into engenakwenzekayo: umxholo wokugqibela ngamnye unayo. Ulwalamano olungenawo nethemba alukwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide.
Ukuhlukana ngokwemiqathango nangaphandle
Ungazigxeka: ukuhlukana kwakho akuthethi ukuba akukho thando. Nje ixesha liphelile. Wacinga konke kwaye waqonda ukuba kungcono ukuyingxenye. Kukukhathaza kwaye ufuna ukumxelela nje ngesigqibo sakho, kodwa uvakalise yonke into ebilisiwe. Sekunjalo, zama ukwenza ngobulumko. Okokuqala, khumbula umgaqo ophezulu: akukho ukuhlukana ngefowuni (i-SMS, "i-ICQ" okanye i-girlfriend-transmitter, nayo ingabandakanywa). Yiyo kuphela intlanganiso! Iqabane lakho, nangaphambili, linelungelo lencoko yangempela yedwa. Ukudibanisa kakuhle kwintsimi engathathi hlangothi, kungekhona ekhaya: akunakwenzeka ukuba nawuphi na ofuna ukuba namangqina angaziwayo encoko yabazali. Okwesibini, musa ukuqala ingxabano. Ewe, makenze eninzi intlungu, kodwa ngoku ayinandaba. Kungcono kumbulele ngenxa yezinto ezilungileyo eziphakathi kwakho. Ngaba kunzima ukufumana amagama alungileyo? Emva koko khumbula indlela akukhathalele ngayo ngexesha lokugula okanye indlela awayeze wayilindela ngayo nge-bouom of chamomiles. Unobuninzi obuhle, kwaye yonke into embi ayifuni. Kodwa malunga nesigqibo senxalenye, sithethe ngokucacileyo, ukuze loo nto ingenalo ithemba lobuxoki lokuqhubeka. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukulibala malunga "namaqhinga angcolileyo". Musa ukuphulaphula amantombazana abakucebisa ukuba uzenzele iqabane elitsha kwaye uqale ukuhamba naye phantsi kwesibambo phantsi kweefestile zangaphambili. Uya kufezekisa ntoni? Ndikholelwe, uluntu alucinganga nantoni na engcono kunengxoxo eqhelekileyo ingxoxo. Ukuba unako ukuchaza yonke into ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza nokuhlambalaza, ke kukho ithuba lokuhamba ngokuthula. Kwaye kubalulekile.
Emva kokugqibela
Musa ukucinga ukuba unako ukuhlala uhlobo lwakho oluhle. Abantu abengekho iirobhothi, ukucofa kumtshintshi ovela "kwintando" kwindlela "ephosakeleyo, hambani" / "ecatshulwayo, eshiyiweyo" imo "abahlobo abathulile." Ungaziceli kuwe kwaye kuye kungenakwenzeka: nonke nidinga ixesha. Okwangoku, thabatha ibhokisi enkulu uze ufake yonke into ekukhumbuzayo ngayo: incwadi yokuqala kunye nokuvuma okuthintekayo, ibhere le-teddy wakuphumelela epakini lokuzonwabisa, i-petal kwisiqhamo eside .... Thatha le bhokisi ngaphandle. Sula zonke iingubo "zakho" kumdlali, zifihla iifoto, utshintshe iphepha lodonga lwedesktophu yecomputer ekhethiweyo kunye. Udinga ukususa indawo yezikhumbuzo zalo. Musa ukukhawuleza ukukhangela uthando olutsha. Ufuna ikhefu. Ukuqhathaniswa kuyingozi enkulu yengqondo, kwaye kuyinto evamile ukuba udabukile. Akukho mfuneko yokugcina ukumomotheka kwaye wenze sengathi "konke kulungile!": Vumela ukuba uvalele. Kodwa nje ungazifihli, kungcono ukwenza intlanganiso yabangani okanye ubhalise kwicandelo lomdaniso: ishishini elitsha liya kunika amandla kunye nokuzithemba. Futhi ungazitshitshisi. Ukwahlukana kwakho akuthethi ukuba akukho nto inothando, Ulwalamano oluthile luya kuphila iminyaka engamashumi amathathu, kodwa ngandlela-thile - iiveki ezingamashumi amathathu. Zama ukumxolela kunye nawe ngokwenza iimpazamo. Zonke iimpikiswano zakho, iintlanganiso, iingxoxo-eli lixabiso elixabisekileyo, apho ungakhange umbulele lo mntu ngomlomo;