Intsapho enhle ilindele ixesha elide Unyaka omtsha awunakulibaleka, ushiye iimvakalelo ezivakalayo, iimvakalelo kunye nokukhuseleko, ukuba unamathela kule mithetho elandelayo. Futhi ungakulibali ukuxelela umyeni wakho ukuba sigubha uNyaka omtsha kunye nabantwana, kwaye makamcwangcise ukuba angaboni ukuhlwa kwamanye iintlanganiso.
Ukungaziphenduleli, isimo sengqondo esichasayo kwisiganeko esibalulekileyo singenza isimo sengqondo esingalunganga kumntwana wakho ngomfanekiso womntwana wakho. Kungcono ukubonisa ukubaluleka kweholide leentsapho ukusuka ebuntwaneni ngokubhiyozela ndawonye. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana wakho uya kuba neengcinga ezilungileyo kungekhona nje ngeeholide ngokwayo, kodwa nakwawe. Ubumnyama boNyaka omtsha buya kuba mkhulu kakhulu xa abazali bethetha kubo bonke abasondeleyo kubo: "Siwubhiyozela unyaka omtsha nazo zonke izihlobo zethu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nezingane." Abantwana bakho baya kuvuyiswa nje ngolu hlobo. Emva kwakho konke, kwiholide yakho ozithandayo abayi kuba ngabahlobo kuphela, kodwa nabo baninzi bathandekayo entliziyweni, abantu abasondeleyo - abazali.
I-herringbone ehlaza . Zithathele umgaqo wegama esidibana nabantwana kunye nesihlahla esiKhisimusi esiphila kulo nyaka omtsha omangalisayo. Emva kwayo yonke into, nokuba yinto ephakamileyo, imithini, imithi yeKrisimesi engenziwanga ithatha indawo engumgubo onobuhle, obunomhlaza, obumnandi. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba nomdla wakho ngumthi ophilayo. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba ukuthenga lo mthi akulona ukugcinwa kwesithethe esilula. Emva kwakho konke, iphunga le-spruce liyakwenza inzwa yecala kumntwana wakho. Akumangalisi ukuba kwiintlobo ezininzi zeendlovukazi kunye namaqhawe anjengeSanta Claus okanye iSanta Claus, banyanzelekile ukuba batyelele amakhaya abo, apho kuhlala khona i-spruce kuphela.
Ubuthongo obuhle . Ngokuqinisekileyo, kulula kumntu omdala ukunyamezela u-Eva onguNyaka omtsha wokulala, ongenakutsholwa ngabantwana abancinci. Ngoko, kungcono ukuba uvumele umntwana wakho alale emini. Ukuze ukwazi ukubonelela umntwana, mhlawumbi ukulala kwinto engavumelekanga, unokulala nje naye ecaleni, ngelixa ucacisa ukuba uya kuphumla naye. Yintoni na? Ewe, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana wakho angabi nantoni na kwaye walala ngokuzithandela nawe. Emva koko, abantwana abancinci basetyenziswa ukuxelisa abazali babo. Kwakhona kufanelekile ukuchazela kuye isizathu sokuphupha okungaqhelekanga kuye.
Ikhalenda ngokwakho . Nawaphi na abantwana abafana nawo xa abazali babo bebaxubusha nabo. Ngoko baqala ukuziva bebaluleke kakhulu amalungu omndeni. Kwixesha elithile ngaphambi koNyaka omtsha, malunga neveki ezimbini, unokwenza iikhalenda ezingavamile. Into enjalo ayikwazi ukukhumbuza kuphela umntwana weNdlela yoNyaka omtsha, kodwa kwakhona ube ngumqathango onyanzelekileyo wosuku, ukuba uyayifumana kwinqanaba lokudala, elincamisayo. Ngokwenzela, umzekelo, ukucima umntanakho ukutya okumnandi kakhulu, unokumisela ukusetyenziswa kwakhe ngekhalenda. Ekupheleni kosuku kuvunyelwe ukuba badle inxalenye ethile yeekesekese, ngasinye ngasinye siza kuqhotyoshelweyo kwimini yemihla ngemihla. Umntwana uya kulinda ixesha elithile, oya kuthi ucacise kwikhalenda, njengendlela ekhethekileyo yosuku. Indlela efanayo ingasetyenziselwa ukufundisa umntwana ukuba afunde izibongo ekupheleni kosuku, ukudweba okanye ukucula kunye njalo.
Sidlala kunye . Akuyimfuneko ukuba umzali afike kwiimeko zonke eziza ku-Eva. Emva koko, umntwana wakho uya kufumana iingcamango ezimbalwa, iingcamango zokudala yakhe imeko ekhethekileyo, umdla umdlalo othakazelisayo. Ewe, kunye nesisombululo esisisisombululo sale "ngxaki" siya kusondela kakhulu, mhlawumbi kunokukunceda ukuba wazi kakuhle. Umntwana wakho uya kuvuya kakhulu, kumnandi, unomdla ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe, kuba uyamthemba ibhizinisi elibalulekileyo. Nangona ufanele uhlambulule emva kwakhe, akufanele ucinge ngokumkhahlela. Ngendlela yokucoca, akudingeki ukuba uqalise ukuhlambulula ngokubanzi, ukuhlambulula ngokubanzi ebusuku, kuya kuthatha ixesha lakho lonke. Kungcono ukuzisa indlu ngokulandelelana, usuku ukwenzela ezimbini.
Sifotshwa sonke . Akunakwenzeka ukucinga nje nayiphi na iholide ngaphandle kwesithombe esinobambiswano. Uyakwazi nje ukulungisa iseshoni yesithombe seentsapho, apho wonke umntu uya kufotshwa kunye kunye kunye kunye. Iifoto ezinjalo zinganika ithuba lokukhumbula iholide ezishiyiweyo, ezingalibalekiyo, ezichithwe ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye makube yinto enhle kwifom ephakathi kwakho. Iifoto nazo ziyakwazi ukuphazamisa nawuphi na umntu ukusuka kumbhikano woNyaka omtsha, oya kuba khona ngokuqinisekileyo.
Iimpawu ezinzulu . Abantwana, njengomthetho, banqabile kakhulu phambi kweeholide ezinkulu, ezinokuba ngumqobo kumsebenzi wokulungiselela iThebula leNtsha. Ukukukhuphela ngaphandle kwesi sizathu esingathandekiyo, unokufumana izibophelelo ezinzulu kumntwana wakho. Ingaba ngumhlobiso womthi onguNyaka omtsha, kunye nezinye izalamane, abantwana okanye ubaba, zifuna nje ukuthenga izinto zokuqala ezikhuselekileyo nezokuphepha. Okanye cela umntana ukuba abeke izinto ngokufanelekileyo kwikheritta, apho kufuneka ubeke izinto kakuhle kwiithalafu. Ukuze umntwana angakwazi ukujamelana nalo msebenzi ngempumelelo, kunokwenzeka ukubiza uncedo umntu omdala. Unako ngeli xesha unokukwazi ukuyenza isidlo sakusasa sonyaka omtsha. Kodwa ungakulibala kwakhona ukuba akudingeki ukuba ugxeke umntwana, ngenxa yokuba uyimphathise into ebalulekileyo, nokuba uyayiphatha yinto engaphumeleliyo.
Ukuqwalasela kwitheyibhile . Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntwana uya kufuneka iliso kunye neliso xa kwamkela isidlo sakusihlwa. Ukuthetha kunye nezinye iindwendwe, ungazigcoba kuyo kwaye ungaboni ukuba umntwana uya kudla njani amnandi okanye angavunyelwe kuye Xa umntwana esencinci, awukwazi ukubona indlela athabatha inkukhu okanye intlanzi etafileni aze ahlasele ngengozi. Ngabantwana kungcono ukuzama ukusela utywala obuninzi, unokwazi ukuzilawula wena kunye nomntwana wakho. Kwimeko apho, unokucela umntu kumceli weendwendwe ezihleliyo ukunyamekela umntwana.
Ulonwabo kuNyaka omtsha kuwe kunye nabantwana bakho.